No - hadn't got to the stage of being a paid member yet. The clickbait messages was enough for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
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No - hadn't got to the stage of being a paid member yet. The clickbait messages was enough for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
Where did you find the day use room?
I swear some of you guys.....how you get about in daily life with such cluelessness?Quote:
Originally Posted by cn6666
Google it. I mean it might tax you to think of it, but “Day Use Hotel Room Brisbane” might just yield results
lol....and it is just not here were people can't think for themselves. I saw a post on FB on a campervan page asking is they should use a rubbish bin inside and one outside.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bed Wrecker
but you don't know what they even said do you? just ignore those unwanted messages, ain't too hard.Quote:
Originally Posted by Falcon2005
I've clearly explained my strategy over the past few weeks, reported how it's working and today spend a few hours after lunch in bed having bareback sex with a sweet girl.
so my choice tomorrow is a 28yo or a 31 yo in my Dayuse room. I've done the 28 yo a few times in this period and the 31 is a new for me. I guess we should always err on the side of adventure and go the new one.
Without being specific, the above three girls range in price from free, $300/month and $500/week.
It's just a website that introduces people within a few pretences maybe not for everyone.
One thing I do enjoy is the girls that think they can play with the mind. One Latina I was chatting on whatsapp we got to the point about allowances and I always leave it for them to place an opening bid.
For this girl her line was something like "Depending on how comfortable you are with your own financial security you might like to consider giving me an allowance, gifts and helping me with some bills."
Obviously it was some attempt to belittle me into paying an unemployed foreign student stupid money for sex. I think I replied with something like "Well my financial situation is pretty comfortable. How will you be paying your rent this week?" Needless to say I wont be meeting her.
The reduced student working hours is really starting to bite these girls.
i don't think so. if they were going to be doing this, the money is much more that that work you are talking about. why do they even need to be doing that job in the first place even they have this ?Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
You have it the wrong way around. Let's say a girl comes from Asia to study here. Until July this year she was able to work 35+ hours per week. With a share house and student life, they can survive with that money. Now that the student visa hours are max 24/week that's a lot less cash and no surplus. Can't take a second job but can accept cash for sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by ravvg
Two of the girls I met said that they were referred to the site by their friends whom are also doing it. For the right student it's going to be a workable thing. Realistically they only need one regular guy and catch up once per week. It is hard if they were having to find a new SD each week on PPM basis. Some play for more than one.
If you don't have time to try seeking, the student ladies at Sushi Train might be interested.
The economic realities of the new academic year are looming fast. The university campuses are still quiet. There are a few summer students around.
There was also a recent news.com article about some retired dentist's SB that was clearing >$5k / week. These sort of articles usually drive new talent to the sugar scene.
I took the opportunity last week to kick off a new seeking.com subscription.
NO shortage of girls that are asking >$800. Ignoring those dreamers there are nice foreign students that will "everything except anal" for $400 staying overnight.
Thanks CumShot, interesting thread, definitely seems like an option for those who want an ongoing arrangement. After getting out of a long term relationship and not knowing what I want, this might be the way to go. The escort scene in bris is pretty bad these days.
How long would you say each arrangement lasts before it falls apart? Do you need to constantly search for new leads
Best I have had was one year.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chappie
Usually I will take a one month membership with enough leads to work through for 2-3 months. The problem with the girls they know if you don't follow them up you are fucking someone else. So to put the girls on the back burner for later reheating I tell them I travel a lot overseas and will call them when I'm back.
Not all the girls want to do overnights. These are often good for a dinner together and back to the place.
If they are too transactional then they are the same as escorts, so why bother.
There are so many sweet foreign students round that are happy to hang around, understand how it works and they don't complicate things. TBH it's been a long time since I have fucked a aussie born white girl. Maybe that should be my Australia Day pledge, bonus points if she works at Woolies.
chappie do start with signing up for a free membership so we can share a few links. I can send them a message for you if you are interested and until you get your own subscription.
there are a few members sharing intel by DM already
they will need to have regular employers in their life.Quote:
Originally Posted by ravvg
Cumshot, I am unable to send a PM. I am guessing I am too much of a newbie here to be allowed. Any other way I can message you? TIA
You don't pay for coffee meets..?? Don't tell me you are so fucking cheap you make them pay for their own coffee..???Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
Easy, post some of your experiences and visit reports. that will increase your post count and help me understand your punting style for when you do send a DM.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheCF
I was referring to not paying the girl just for turning up. Common girl BS is that their time is important, blah, blah and that there are many cheapies around therefore a guy should pay the girl $100-$200 just for the privilege to have coffee with her. Any SB requesting payment for coffee interviews should be immediately blocked as she does not have a provider mindset, instead she has a take first mindset.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
I assume he means he does not pay the girl to come to meet him for coffee. He does pay for the actual coffee and cake :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
That makes much more sense.. Thanks for reply..Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
I've had to deactivate my profile this week. Juggling too many of these and the new leads just complicate things as I start to think the grass is even greener with each girl.
Met up with a flirty and picture wise nice asian girl, 28. In person though she had a low level of engagement. Maybe I wasn't to her liking. Not all sweet young girls have engaging personalities and she was struggling to be at ease with this old fart. That's OK, it's not our time. I let her go her own way. Only for the cost for two coffees to find out.
A couple of Filipinas operating out of a shared house in Kelvin Grove got on my radar. They are both nice and attractive but they do share notes. They have more of an escort (by the hour) mindset. That didn't suit me.
The longer I stay on the site, the more messages I get from newbies. In the first few days of joining I was hit with all of the professional operators. After a while the pro/escort types have all moved on and the shy newbie ones will choose to send me a message. These are the ones that appeal to me. Good vibes, less limits and for me, more potential.
There are heaps of aussie girls which simply have very little appeal for me.
really thinking about to share the prescription with you
sure, prescription for viagra is what I'm using the mostQuote:
Originally Posted by 9ight
My most recent ex was found on there, started as a SB deal and developed into a full blowj relationship. She broke it off after a year and a half a few months back. Jumped back on the site for the first time the other week and she is back up there looking again, interesting she doesn't mention that she was in the process of transitioning to a male in her profile, had a laugh at the poor sucker who gets that surprise and moved on, 150 bucks for a month isn't worth it in my view.
I don't use an ongoing subscription. I find that a week is more than enough time and my dance card is well and truly full by the end of four weeks. This sub I've used for a business trip in Sydney plus home base in Brisbane. Also, when I create a new user they do try and encourage sign up at the full price, after 3-4 days they make a 20% discount offer, after another day the same 20% is offer, don't accept that and they make a deeper offer. I paid AU100. After that cancel the auto renew.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trapper
I'm wondering about how to identify your sex transition friend. I'm still worried about what I did with Russian barbie last year.
It's been a while since I posted any updates here on the SB activity. I've now allowed my subscription to expire. It doesn't matter as I keep a separate word doc with a pic of each girl I'm pursuing, their seeking.com link, phone and notes of interest about something they told me that makes me sound like I'm listening.
The 31 days of subscription gives more than enough time to cover off a wide selection of the available talent. For me I used it in both Sydney and Brisbane.
There is no doubt it does take some work to sort through the shite profiles. but some well placed questions and culling can leave you free for opportunities.
Some rough categories of profiles
Scammers - profiles deliberately setup to perpetrate financials scams. easy to spot as they are just "too easy". Their profile locations also often change without explanation. comments or questions don't make sense to the flow. Just block.
Escorts/Pros - SB sites are a legitimate place for professionals to find work. Pricing is similar to actual escort sites. For me, these girls will usually be the first to say they can host without first grilling me for a few days. They will also talk in 'hours for $xxx". Not what I'm looking for on a SB site.
Tyre kickers - girls whom have read some article about being a sugarbabe and have some magical fairy-tale dream that they truly have a golden pussy which will solve their financial problems. Once I've determined a deep financial problem or a belief around the sugar dream I let them go.
After this comes a wide variety of girls that will happily trade sex for services. It's an interesting conversation where girls will say they do PPM (pay per meet) for $500. My reply is well I'm the one doing the $500 and what are you doing? if they don't see the humour in that then they fall in the GPS column.
Thanks to a one Forum member whom suggested I investigate a particular profile I got to enjoy wonderful quality times with a well qualified lady whom didn't actually want cash and was just happy with my input on her particular situation. This is not unlike my SB activity last year where I ended up with a similar lady, similar nationality and similar situation, also doing me for free. I think there is a market for old polite beggars like me 60+where the girl gets confidence that she can end it at any time and there are not any ongoing stalking, threats or problems. They know I'm not falling for them nor have any long term plausible relationship with them. I also leave them be in charge of timings which suits their busy careers.
I shagged one girl who had a busy work life and often out of town visiting clients. The weather changed last week and suddenly she was WFH. So A girl I had written off as not my type messages me out of the blue and says she's' home for the afternoon and come over. She was a nice person but a lousy fuck. So I fucked her a few times that afternoon just to be sure. She dd ask $400
There are also hundreds of other girls there that will suit other guys. If you have money to burnt then I am sure there are girls there that you can throw it at BUT like all the tips on this forum it's about getting performance and VFM.
I'll spin up another profile in a few months. I have enough names and numbers to keep things ticking along for a while. Plus a few ML visits to keep me in shape. I do like the massage experience for convenience.
Have a great week.
So my recent experience has been great, found a strait laced person thats an absolute firecracker in bed. Went away for a weekend and drank tons of Gatorade to keep up. She’s going OS so started looking for a replacement. It was quiet, a scammer or two, block block. Then found a solid 9 on a coffee date ( I’m a 7 on a good day lol) after two paid dates she said the money made her feel bad but wanted to still see me. Now this is rare, most of them want the $ to fuck an old dude. Can confirm that most SB’s swallow and not overly fused about condoms. So having found a replacement, I have offers for coffee dates galore. Can no one pay their credit cards with their only fans account?