Would you still punt if you missus is 9/10 looks wise??

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Originally Posted by frisson

You are a lucky man
Must be great to have a relationship with both an intellectual and physical match

Not clear why you need to punt

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Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.

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Thanks for the discussion. As I said it's been hard to find a relationship that ticks all the boxes

For many of us, once we are punters, we will always be punters
The convenience, variety, young women and sheer recreational value is intoxicating

Would there be blowback if you were caught? I'm not judging, just asking

I actually like that cleaned up natural look. My regular doesnt wear make up and I just like fucking her like that. Neither did my exes really...

Yeah if I were you, i'd probably not punt and BB the wifey as much as i could...

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Originally Posted by frisson

You are a lucky man
Must be great to have a relationship with both an intellectual and physical match

Not clear why you need to punt

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Had a friend who has a wife and two kids. He was sort of a "punting buddy" with me for a while, but the only reason why is because his wife knows me and he can use me as an excuse to go out late night. Pretty sure the wife knows from the hundreds that gets withdrawn from the joint account but with some cultures the wife will turn a blind eye as long as the husband does it in moderation and doesn't start having mistresses to replace her.

For me it's a matter of being an example to others. If I punt after marrying my crush, then she should also be allowed to work in a shop during our whole married life. Therefore, in order for me to not allow that to happen I have to make vows not to punt after marriage. Karma can be swift, therefore I won't risk such a thing. However, I am not forcing my views on others - you can punt, cheat and do whatever you want regardless of relationship status.

Because my vows as a Ngakpa is to not create more bad karma. Even right now I'm training to stop myself from punting so that I can be ready for marriage life.

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Originally Posted by frisson

Ok. But the Beatles sang "All you need is love". Maybe that song needs an upgrade

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.....ergo and that's why they broke up, no connection!

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Originally Posted by JohnJones

Had a friend who has a wife and two kids. He was sort of a "punting buddy" with me for a while, but the only reason why is because his wife knows me and he can use me as an excuse to go out late night. Pretty sure the wife knows from the hundreds that gets withdrawn from the joint account but with some cultures the wife will turn a blind eye as long as the husband does it in moderation and doesn't start having mistresses to replace her.

For me it's a matter of being an example to others. If I punt after marrying my crush, then she should also be allowed to work in a shop during our whole married life. Therefore, in order for me to not allow that to happen I have to make vows not to punt after marriage. Karma can be swift, therefore I won't risk such a thing. However, I am not forcing my views on others - you can punt, cheat and do whatever you want regardless of relationship status.

Because my vows as a Ngakpa is to not create more bad karma. Even right now I'm training to stop myself from punting so that I can be ready for marriage life.

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Why are u on a punting forum then? Shouldnt a monk be celebate?

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Its a bad spot to be in when you take cash out of a joint account for punting and you don't have your own account. Yeh some wives know and turn a blind eye as long as the husband keeps coming back to her. And as for mistress they would kill a marriage, but SB or FWB the guy should be able to get away with it if he's smart.

I'll say it again married guys who punt should have their own bank account for funds and no way use any joint account. If your married and only have joint account well your wife has got you by the balls.

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Originally Posted by jedibear

Why are u on a punting forum then? Shouldnt a monk be celebate?

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A monk can celebrate if he wants :)

There's a difference between monks and Ngakpa. Ngakpas are non-monastic, serious practicing laypersons. Some of the high lamas that are married and have kids yet they teach like a monk are ngakpas.

I became a Ngakpa just in case someone needs help with navigating life and have no one to rely on. Punting forums are a good place to test my skills, but I may not be here for very long.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

Its a bad spot to be in when you take cash out of a joint account for punting and you don't have your own account. Yeh some wives know and turn a blind eye as long as the husband keeps coming back to her. And as for mistress they would kill a marriage, but SB or FWB the guy should be able to get away with it if he's smart.

I'll say it again married guys who punt should have their own bank account for funds and no way use any joint account. If your married and only have joint account well your wife has got you by the balls.

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How would these husbands explain to their wives the extra ATM card they have in their wallets? Banks are getting rid of chequebooks these days.

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Originally Posted by JohnJones

How would these husbands explain to their wives the extra ATM card they have in their wallets? Banks are getting rid of chequebooks these days.

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Dangerous game if the husband punts he should have his own savings that he can use how he likes and if there is only a joint account and the marriage goes down south then he is done for. No husband should be tied into just a joint account. He'd have to be nuts taking money out to punt if there is only a joint account. I'd like to know how he explains the withdraw to his wife.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

Dangerous game if the husband punts he should have his own savings that he can use how he likes and if there is only a joint account and the marriage goes down south then he is done for. No husband should be tied into just a joint account. He'd have to be nuts taking money out to punt if there is only a joint account. I'd like to know how he explains the withdraw to his wife.

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My friend didn't tell me how he explained those transactions to his wife. This was the time when many shops are still charging $150/hr and only certain shops were charging $230/hr for diamond services. This guy was somehow addicted to N5M so I followed him there many times to the point I got bored of that joint. Occasionally he would go to 5 star as well but I didn't punt there, only looked at the lineup and left to sit in the car while he finishes.

From what I know he told me he's got around $20k in the joint account. Even so it doesn't make sense for the wife to ignore the constant weekly $230 withdrawal unless she's consented to it. The wife is Chinese from Guangzhou, I know these people are usually super calculative so I'm pretty sure she's turning a blind eye to it because the kids were still very young, not worth it to pursue a divorce when the kids are that young.

On the other hand, a colleague of mine loves his wife and kid. Haven't seen the wife but he talks about her a lot, implying maybe she's a hottie when they first met. He still pervs when driving around to work but he doesn't punt. His wife basically controls all the money and gives him instant coffee satchets when he goes away for work a few days. He still has the ATM card in case he needs to buy food when he's away.

Just saying, if you're no longer punting then it's better to let the missus handle all the money, as long as you trust her. When you're in the right circle of friends you don't see and hear the kind of misfortunes others had gone through with their crazy ex-wives.

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Originally Posted by frisson

Thanks for the discussion. As I said it's been hard to find a relationship that ticks all the boxes

For many of us, once we are punters, we will always be punters
The convenience, variety, young women and sheer recreational value is intoxicating

Would there be blowback if you were caught? I'm not judging, just asking

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Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...

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Sorry. You may have mentioned this before as you say. So you have the best of both worlds. Enjoy. Hope the fun lasts without consequence. I punt to fill in a void, but it's also fun as well

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Originally Posted by JohnJones

On the other hand, a colleague of mine loves his wife and kid. Haven't seen the wife but he talks about her a lot, implying maybe she's a hottie when they first met. He still pervs when driving around to work but he doesn't punt. His wife basically controls all the money and gives him instant coffee satchets when he goes away for work a few days. He still has the ATM card in case he needs to buy food when he's away.

Just saying, if you're no longer punting then it's better to let the missus handle all the money, as long as you trust her. When you're in the right circle of friends you don't see and hear the kind of misfortunes others had gone through with their crazy ex-wives.

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Real man in a marriage will have his own savings if hes only getting instant coffees & satchets that's a very poor position to be in. If his wife ever dumps him cause she is bored of him he is in a world of trouble. Not only that being married having no money to yourself is no fun at all. I'd hate to be in that position. I know of some guys that are but really both people in a marriage should be aware of the finances. That guy must be really sure his wife is going to stick by him. Does he have to ask her for absolutely everything he needs to buy? You can trust a wife all you want but they have their own minds when it comes to money if she's going to take off the guy is screwed. God forbid he ever have a major argument with her.

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Originally Posted by JohnJones

My friend didn't tell me how he explained those transactions to his wife. This was the time when many shops are still charging $150/hr and only certain shops were charging $230/hr for diamond services. This guy was somehow addicted to N5M so I followed him there many times to the point I got bored of that joint. Occasionally he would go to 5 star as well but I didn't punt there, only looked at the lineup and left to sit in the car while he finishes.

From what I know he told me he's got around $20k in the joint account. Even so it doesn't make sense for the wife to ignore the constant weekly $230 withdrawal unless she's consented to it. The wife is Chinese from Guangzhou, I know these people are usually super calculative so I'm pretty sure she's turning a blind eye to it because the kids were still very young, not worth it to pursue a divorce when the kids are that young.

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20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Think I said this before. My wife knows I punt. She knows I've fucked around when I was with my ex-wife, with my ex-GFs, and knows about my punting habit. I met her when I was having a "life-crisis", as if I'd drank the truth serum. I just let every girl I met know I fucked around and punted. Basically didn't care what they thought of me.

Even so, out of respect for our relationship I try to be discreet and not make it obvious. Thankfully I'm a super expert in that department. I know every trick in the book, lol...

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Quite frankly it’s no one’s business what a guy gets up to in their own private time.

If they want to plant flowers on the side of the road so be it. If they want to punt so be it. If they want to sleep in bed all day so be it.

I never ask a partner what they’ve been doing and as such I expect the same courtesy.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Yeah, we even share interests. She's a gamer girl, and I like computer games myself.

I punt not out of need but a combination of lust for new blood, habit, and the difference between sex acts in a punt vs sex in a relationship.

The first 2 reasons are pretty self-explanatory, but the last one is a bit complicated. I go to a punt, the sex I get there is different. I can visit an RNT and get a massage and a NHJ if I wanted to, I don't have to care about not getting her off. Or I can go to an FS place and see a fully dolled up girl that's ready to fuck any time. She'd look like she can hit the dancefloor and party but there she is, ready to fuck.

With a wife or GF, especially when there's a kid around, sex is usually done when she's all cleaned up ready for bed. She ain't gonna be dolled up looking like she's ready to party.

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My reasons are very similiar, although with different emphasis over the years, particulalry 30 years ago compared to more recently. You can let relationship sex slip into the mundane or the once in a while category, even with a head turner wife and lets face it, a good WL experience when you find them can be bloody good, plus addictive.

And yeah, I'm selfish with a yolo attitude as I get older.

Of course I would.

I'm with bro abracadabra. Here's to YOLO

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Originally Posted by jedibear

I actually like that cleaned up natural look. My regular doesnt wear make up and I just like fucking her like that. Neither did my exes really...

Yeah if I were you, i'd probably not punt and BB the wifey as much as i could...

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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtL9c...RlODBiNWFlZA==

You mean like this girl? I am a big fan of her look. Big, big fan.

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Originally Posted by asiafever

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You mean like this girl? I am a big fan of her look. Big, big fan.

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Hate to break it to you bro, that girl's got make-up on. Lipstick, and I sense some toner there as well.

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Originally Posted by JSteel96

20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.

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One time he was punting weekly for a month then he decided to cut down. Maybe that's when the wife confronted him about the missing money. He wasn't someone with a functional brain as he got fired for stealing stock from his workplace at an attempt to start his own business. He was given the option to return all the stock and leave or sent to jail for embezzlement.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Hate to break it to you bro, that girl's got make-up on. Lipstick, and I sense some toner there as well.

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Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girl
https://www.instagram.com/p/CxYN_0tS...RlODBiNWFlZA==

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Originally Posted by JohnJones

One time he was punting weekly for a month then he decided to cut down. Maybe that's when the wife confronted him about the missing money. He wasn't someone with a functional brain as he got fired for stealing stock from his workplace at an attempt to start his own business. He was given the option to return all the stock and leave or sent to jail for embezzlement.

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yep those kind of withdraws from a joint account his wife would spot. Is he still married to her? Stealing stock to start up a business is a stupid thing to do. I guess he must have returned all the stock. I would be surprised after that incident if he was still married to her. Punters if married have to be smarter than using a joint account to punt.