dating app takes so much time, the girls expect you to have a perfect funny reply or they lose interest. If the success rate is 1 in 10 and and you need to spend an hour on each girl, thats 10 hours to get a unknown punt. Paying for a punt is a way more efficient use of your time, you pick the right girl or you walk.
I guess, you gotta work out what do have more of? Time or Money?
The reason young men visit brothels because they want to get out-of-the-classroom life experience from Milfs who are better teachers than they can find in their schools. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
It’s all about time and money spent, on a dating app you will need to spend lots of time talking to the girls while sifting through the fakes.
Then if you end up on a date you still need to pay for dinner and likely a hotel room, ends up costing probably more than a punt while also not knowing how good she is in bed lol
Going to a shop you save all that time at least and generally get what you want out of it
Lots of wisdom on this thread! Along with all that's been correctly said already here's a few from me...
.I like variety ..once I have been with a girl two or three times I lose interest...the investment of time and money necessary to hook a girlfriend doesn't justify the outcome.
Until you have known them for few months girlfriends will only suck with condom.( Or not at all). Similar with anything non vanilla only a minority of civilians are open to it.
Most of the women on sites are defective in one way or another..at least that what people I know on there have told me.
I could go on there's loads more....The longer I have punted the more i have realised it's merits...unless I run out of money I would never go back to normal gf relationships
Pretty sure the issue is with you if your gf will only suck you with a domQuote:
Originally Posted by tkicks
Sometimes I just need a release and sometimes I want to try something new
These days on the apps you get all kinds of gold diggers. Matched with this girl and the first thing she said is she wants princess treatment....all her pictures had a very badly photoshopped / touched up face
I wouldn't go so far to say most are defective in some way, but there is a fair few.
Although dating sites a are a lot more common these days surely, being almost the norm meeting people these days?
I reckon Tinder being the main one to change things, as before that online dating was really serious, such as height, income, beliefs/religion, likes, hobbies, hair colour, eye colour blah blah.
Then Tinder come and changed things, all you got was age, some photos and a short about me text box. And with its original intent being on hook ups, I reckon changed the crowed to, (can't think of a good word, less prude.....) and things started getting normalised from there.
The take away is though, if your needs/desires are satisfied in a shop.
Then when trying to chase a date, there's much less pressure and one less thing on your mind, in away purely there for the chase, banter, getting to know someone etc. Anything more is just a bonus ;)
And less pressure means less fucks given, which leads to appearing more relaxed and confident, which leads to better results.
So yeah, punting still has its place.
I have no personal experience to go on but im told by friends in the conventional dating world that condoms are the norm for the first month until they have got to know you.....you obviously have been granted an exemptionQuote:
Originally Posted by CarpetJam
I'm similar to you. I get bored of a girl very quickly, but how long I can stay with the same girl depends on how hot I perceive her to be, based on my own taste of course. If she's really the kind of hot I'm after (leggy proportions, slender/skinny but with womanly curves front and back, reasonably pretty face), I can go on and on with the same girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by tkicks
The problem is, my taste is too generic, lol... That means my ideal girls wouldn't need no dating apps to get a BF. They get hit on by guys everywhere they go.
The hotter a girl is, the less likely she'll need to use dating apps.
The same "causality" does not affect WGs. In fact it works in the opposite direction, if a girl was inclined to make money using her body and looks. To be able to be a successful WG, she needs to have the good looks.
It's the modern mentality and justification of "sex sells". Both men and women like looking at naked women but not all men and women like looking at naked men. From prostitution being offered as an alternative to fucking one's own wife or mistress, recently it's been monetized by a bunch of women seeking to milk out every single drop they can from horny men - $50 tip increments for every extras asked/offered, instant $200 extra for BBFS and even odd offers such as cosplaying during sex.
The incentive a man gets for paying for sex is instant - no need for tiresome dates that often end up as flake/no-show just because the princess had no guts to say no or tell them they're disinterested. Cutting to the chase is easier than playing games.
On the other hand, certain type of dating games are acceptable than the rest. I rejected a cute looking girl on C&B once because despite having an active profile she tells me that she's currently seeing someone and unable to go out for a simple coffee. After rejecting her and deleting her off the app she proceeded to stalk me on my social media. I confronted her about it, and she denies it all. I told her if she can't be real with her own feelings, good luck finding someone else who can accept her that way.
I'll be honest, I was abstaining from punting months ago but got back into it because I felt like my feelings were betrayed. We made up indirectly, I know what she wants but I'm not letting her turn me into a pussywhipped wimp. While I'm working to make her dreams come true, I'm not going to let her disrespect my loyalty. My loyalty is through the heart but this body is free to experience whatever it wants. If I need to let steam off because she isn't there for me, she should understand why and make up for it in the future rather than bring it up as a way to pussywhip me.
We haven't made any promises to be physically loyal to each other just yet. Just that emotionally we have started doing our best to be loyal to each other. When the time comes we'll make the vows for both physical and emotional loyalty but for now, she has understand if she's not around physically it's her temporary loss. On the other hand, my punting frequency has dropped to once or twice a month depending on any extra earnings I get for that month, and I have dropped down to the 45 min option as it fits the time I need to let steam off without getting too intimate with whoever servicing me, plus it is cheaper than the whole hour option.
Wise words there hayabi
Bro! I actually didn't realise until the whole spiel about girls secretly wanting him but are playing games with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by dotcumdotinyou
Holy shit you sure know how to spot it. I'm fucking slow on the uptake lol.
Working towards M’s happiness, one 45 minute punt at time. What a romantic.
Fark 161 posts since joining in Feb. How does one get the time to post that much.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScotPassingThrough
But the very act of pulling out would create a pleasurable feeling on your cock. Therefore you are contiuing to have sex after she has withdrawn the offer of it. You could explain your dilemma to her and say the only solution is that you stay balls deep and nobody moves until the Fire Brigade comes to extricate you.Quote:
Originally Posted by dotcumdotinyou
And that is just one of his accounts and not even counting the time he spends jabbering at himself and others on multiple accounts. If being a useless weirdo was chess this guy is Kasparov multiplied by Deep Blue.Quote:
Originally Posted by Meng
I wouldn't grant the window licker the kudos by associating him with chess. It's all so obvious.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScotPassingThrough
Fuck off, HayabiQuote:
Originally Posted by sharkgirl
Fair point. Bad analogyQuote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
I went to sign up to a site to see if it still a shit show and this one girl aged 33, says on her profile old guys need to stop messaging her. She is only looking for guys around her age....
Looking for: Men between 25-35!
OMG 2 years older and 8 years younger hahahaha!
It totally makes sense to use dating sites like Tinder if you're single and in decent shape. A lot of people on there are just looking for casual hookups, and it’s way cheaper than paying by the hour or spending a lot on sugar babies. I’ve had pretty good experiences with these apps – you get to meet new people and it's way more affordable.
If you're still hunting for this info, I have a suggestion. I found a site called villideitti.net, which is like a sex club where you can easily find a date just for sex, no strings attached.
The amount of times I went straight to a private or brothel after another catfish or smokescreen meet up was pretty high! Having said that there was quite a handful of outstanding fucks and formed fuck buddies that made up for it!
If you got time to spare enjoy the game but if time is money it’s a waste
And there’s stalkerish moments and hurt feelings amongst the fun
I personally think that going into a relationship with a girl is a completely different thing from punting. Just because both will lead to sex doesn't mean they're interchangeable. Even the sex you get out of both will be different.
So I always say, if you need to punt go punt, just don't let that stop you from having a normal relationship with girls.
Everything (in life) has a price, it's just a question of what you are willing to pay, and whether the price was worth it.Quote:
Originally Posted by LuvJapPusssy
Lol. I married a girl, haven't had PIV sex in 4 years. With her atleast. Lol.
Women just aren't interested in sex in the same way. They use sex to get commitment. And they desire sex a lot, but only if there's commitment to be gained.
Once they've got that, they sort of don't care.
So fuck it. I got married for social obligations. The sex dried up after like 6 months of living together so I said fuck it.
Now I fuck 18 year old hotties whenever I want and never have to beg for sex or do the chores or anything.
I would have much preferred to have regular sex with my wife, but she doesnt want that so I'm going to make the best out of a bad situation.
Eh men, only participate in the legal system as long as they deem it fair;Quote:
Originally Posted by LuvJapPusssy
If it's unfair, then there is no legal system worth participating in.
In other words if that looks like it's going to that way, il'l grow a beard, all assets in bitcoin, and I'm going to go hide on top of a bar in soi6 for a decade or so.