I bring a pacsafe sling bag which I can lock with all the sex toy, wallet, phone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Soton
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I bring a pacsafe sling bag which I can lock with all the sex toy, wallet, phone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Soton
I'd try this but all I'd end up doing is scratching at the door wanting to be taken for a walk.Quote:
Originally Posted by faruk
Guilty, guilty, guilty-but it is locked, guilty, guilty, cc-n/a-cash only, parking-n/a-public transport, guilty, guilty, guilty, guilty, guilty, guilty.Quote:
Originally Posted by Twister
Am I concerned? No. Alter my behavior? No. Taking chances? Every time I cross the street, but never been hit yet. Maybe I just patronize a better class of provider... I do shop at known shops, no privates.
My questions would be:
Is this a personal grievance for some perceived slight?
Is she, to use any number of cliches, "at the end of her rope", "up against a wall", and now "grasping at straws"? Money owed to drug dealers? Child/parent sick back home, medical expenses needing to be paid?
Or maybe she's just not a good person.
I would think, if she's not an Aussie, ANY report to LE would be detrimental to her residency status. Certainly blackmail. But happy to say I have NO experience with this, and don't expect to in the future, even with my risky behavior. YMMV
Who is this WL?Quote:
Originally Posted by ezyz168
Others need to saty away.
Cheers and hope all pans out
So what would make the wife more upset.
That you are punting
or
You were blackmailed not had faith in your wife to understand the situation and gave the WL money
I mean it could go either way.
wow what a dilemma and yea i wonder how she found out that info....could it be the slimmest of chances you have ur missus photo was your phone wall paper and she saw her at some class like yoga or pilates and made "friends" with her? thereby once she got close to ur missus found ways to confirm she is in fact ur partner? (women talk about this sort of shit) even scarier are the woman that are sneaky and conniving bent on jealousy for something they cant haveQuote:
Originally Posted by ezyz168
do you know her residency status and whether u can threaten to get her deported or something i presume the work she does is cash only and probly isnt part of her visa terms...
How well do you know your partner?Quote:
Originally Posted by ezyz168
The real problem we all face is that of the thousands of working girls (shops and private), it is logical that a percentage of them have psychological problems, just like it is in the general community. It is inevitable that many of us punters will get in trouble with these women. Also, many will be ripoff merchants, just like in general society.Quote:
Originally Posted by ezyz168
This makes the only defence we have is to use fake names and not take ID-related things when we go to pay them for sex. It is not paranoia.
After all, we don't wear seatbelts in cars because we're paranoid about accidents.
1. No wallet, locked phone
2. Pay cash
3. Fake name
4. Burner number
5. Fake occupation
6. Fake suburb
7. Fake believable nationality
8. Fake age
Spot on brother.Quote:
Originally Posted by footboy2012
Thats how i roll.
This is like James bondQuote:
Originally Posted by footboy2012
Did you gift the bitch some panties or other expensive items previously?
Really? Guess we move in different societies. But, maybe after 3 decades, I might be due for an accident.Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
The biggest ripoffs I've had have been when a few have turned LT into ST, and there was the one whose great rack disappeared, absolutely melted away, when she pulled out the gel pads in her bra. And a few who, when we couldn't come to a contractual agreement, we parted ways and on subsequent sightings, I was invisible. But other than that, nothing comes to mind.
I don't flash my ID, but, force of habit, it's always on me. I don't flash my money, don't leave it laying around in the open to tempt, but my anal cavity is virgin (well, except for my urologist). My phone locks just out of caution for ANY mishap. Fake name? I have used a nom de guerre but in these days, too much trouble to create an alternate instant messaging account. All my numbers are pumpkins, expiring when I'm no longer BOTG (never pay roaming; buy a local sim card). All the other fakes, nah, too lazy and too much trouble though most don't come up in general conversations. But I am a temp here (and everywhere).
Full disclosure: Another clime, there was that one time when one had turned LT to ST, but I still followed up on my promise to drive her home (no good deed goes unpunished). When I paid her MY ST rate, she did throw quite a fit in the car, 3:00 AM, demanding the agreed upon (LT) rate. We negotiated and agreed on some rate reduction, but reached an impasse. When I realized I was arguing over all of 15 dollars (it was 3 AM), I gave in and paid. That car door slam DID rock the car but that was it.
Maybe I'm just a FANTASTIC judge of character, maybe I'm FANTASTICALLY lucky (still haven't won any lotteries), or maybe, just maybe, being a nice guy DOES get you something. Not saying there are none out there, but maybe the respect you show does come back to you. 99% that I've known are just here to make money the old fashioned way... they earn it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVXWakbPq6o
I had to reread that to make sure you didn't say Fake Cash.Quote:
Originally Posted by footboy2012
How much money dose she want
Maybe negotiations might help
Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
Percentages vary from 14-68% depending on which report you read. Of course these figures only relate to the workers that submitted to the surveys.
A lot prefer to be invisible for any number of reasons and want no contact with anyone except clients.
Last year I came across a SW who needed hospital treatment but she didn’t want to go for fear of the cost and any further consequences.
(Yes she went and yes she’s back working)
One of the lucky ones.
“Some countries have a reciprocal arrangement for health care with Australia. For citizens of these countries Emergency Department treatment is free. These include Finland, Republic of Ireland, Italy (for the first six months), Malta (for the first six months), New Zealand, Netherlands, Norway, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom (including Northern Ireland).
You will need your passport to establish your citizenship and entitlement.
If you are not a citizen from one of these countries you will need to pay for any consultations, tests and treatment.”
How many are not covered?
Naming and shaming won't work, especially if she is a private/sole operator. These women frequently change their names and get new mobile numbers, and photos too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jackk
Having been a punter for a very long time, I can tell you that most ML/WL think of us punters as mugs. They think we are men who simply pay to blow-and-go....... You would find it difficult to get any ML/WL that will say something like, "I loved meeting some amazing guys when I was a hooker/masseuse/etc." In fact, many if not most hate doing the job but the money is easy and plentiful when compared to working at a shop or office or factory or whatever.
We punters need a bit of a reality-check about this game. I don't want to spoil the fun for anyone, but it's a transaction, people. Nothing more than a transaction which last usually no more than one hour.
Ignore her, she'll go away. If she has a pimp go sort him/her
She sounds unhinged. What time of relationship did you have with her, apart the obvious transaction? Were you a regular and did you notice any signs of her forming an attachment? Did you always pay or were there freebies involved?
A little scary. Speaking from someone with not much experience, I would definitely leave the wallet at home and not disclose too much personal information when punting.
Don’t over think the how … it’s likely she was already a connection on the partners IG (girls follow all girls - network), and she simply recognised a post that came up on her wall that the punter was in with his partner!
Ignore the bitch. Get your partners IG, find her, and block her. I would be surprised if they have ever met in person. Odds are very low, or you would know someone your partner meets regularly for a catch up!
HAHQuote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
I forgot, ESIM attached to protonmail email account, funded by prepaid gift card
Then you don't even need a burner phone
It's like Plato's Cave. Your entire world & the convos within it are with men who fuck you then leave & after a while there is a nothing else but that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Twister
No wonder alot of them go loopy & think that blackmail is a viable option.
Just tell ur partner of course ur partner wont believe her right "my man going punting with a whore " 😂
Idk, still could be sus.. Just say online scam, your facebook was hacked, that's how they know your partner/details.Quote:
Originally Posted by lipengr
Is the blackmailer Chinese.
Just another Chinese embassy scam.
That's fucken deep bro! and the same can apply to the entertainment industry, politicians/governments, the corporate scene etcQuote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag