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It’s human nature, people want what they can’t have. If a girl knows you want her (even ML’s) it’s not uncommon you will get limited or no action from that girl. Especially if they feel a little freaked out by your vibe.
Attraction and chemistry come into play as well, even in massage shops.
Very true but I learnt from experienceQuote:
Originally Posted by Skip07
Freeeeedddddooooooommm.
Ive been loyal to a shop for years. Finally broke free.
Being a creature of habit, I found myself going to the same shop, sometimes multiple times a week for 3+ years. Spent a fortune there.
It all become very routine and I'd forgotten the excitement of going to a new shop for the first time and seeing a girl I hadn't seen or heard of. The art of the punt so to speak
Recently I started to break the cycle and it has been amazing.
Thanks fellas for all your recomendations it's given me plenty of options to check out.
I've broken out of this rut and have seen many new girls at unfamiliar shops.
I've had some fantastic punts over the last couple of weeks.
I didn’t realise how many good mls were out there willing to provide exceptional service to try and keep you coming back. I was made to feel like every other customer was better than me, even the ones who treated the girls I was seeing as shit leaving me to come away feeling unappreciated.
I feel like an idiot for being loyal to one shop for so long. So long, that I felt part of the furniture. Ended up not being appreciated by them to have me as a customer.
Thanks guys for all your support and understanding.
I've come through the other side and back enjoying my punting again.
AwesomeQuote:
Originally Posted by A Nice Guy
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The best part of what we do is that we can have a different girl every time. They have to be mind blowing for me to return, I have stopped visiting familiar shops as well. Doing my best to discover the hidden gems out there and share with the brotherhood because we won’t find them if we all keep going to our favourite shop. It’s a lesson for us all not to let the game get us down.Quote:
Originally Posted by A Nice Guy
No more Mr Nice Guy ;)
Yes no more Mr Nice Guy. I posted a review after a good management decision at one shop. I booked an hour and the girl was spent after 25 mins. The manager sent a second girl in. I do think it’s a good idea however to spread your custom around. The shops then don’t get complacent and the girls and you don’t get attached.
That’s important. A regular I had last year started asking lots of personal questions. I haven’t seen her this year despite it being a ‘banker’.
Variety can be the spice of life.
Yes, sure, but would one booking really lead to attachment? Also, I think the decision of the management was to compromise for the service that was not delivered and not to spread the custom.. Bur surely it’s a good ideaQuote:
Originally Posted by Peterpecker
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Agree with your comments. I learnt the hard way by staying loyal to one shop and one or two girls at that shop for over 3 years. In the end it bit me on the arse.Quote:
Originally Posted by Peterpecker
While I still tend to have my favourite shop I'm going to other places and have 3 or 4 regulars.
I'm in a much better mindset and back enjoying punting.
It's all about customer turn over. These girls are great at picking the gullible customer. They'll string them along as long as they can. With only offering a little bit more each visit. It amazes me how they can remember what they gave each customer the previous visit. I've even had ML ask me " what did we do last time". Essentially they know that you'll get bored of them and move on so they delay delivering their best service until they konw that's what it'll take to keep you interested. A fascinating game really, but if what your getting doesn't work for you, it's time to move on.
Very true. My such experiences have been mainly Thai Massage places. Seems like they have a special training to keep doing this to clients.
My experience was a bit different in that the best service was provided from the beginning, then over time some services were reduced and I'm told I don't do that anymore for anyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tales
Stupidly I kept seeing her even though I knew she was providing these services to others and some to not only other regulars but guys I reccomended to her from the beginning.
It was a case of seeing how she had changed from when she started to the person she has become now. Money has a way of changing people.
My mistake was not taking advice from one of the other ladies she worked with who tried telling me she was taking advantage of me. I knew she was but didn't want to believe she was that person as I thought I knew her better.
I was wrong, she has a side to her that isn't the sweet side she presents to the world.
Thankfully I've moved on but not without a cost of losing the trust of the person who tried to make me see what she was doing.
If only I listened..
Yes don’t feel bad. We don’t want to believe it, even though it is clear in front of our eyes.. It’s just like the situation of abused women who keep staying in the relationship because they think the man will change. except in this case it’s us lolQuote:
Originally Posted by A Nice Guy
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Moving on is the best strategyQuote:
Originally Posted by A Nice Guy
If your not getting whst you want, regardless of how much you like the girl.....move on, the search continues
Yep all good points. hard to find good, consistent service in Brisbane at a decent price. Its when you get a good one and you stick with it and then all of a sudden you think I'll try someone else and that someoen else is ordinary so you get gunshy of trying another one then also as the prices here are too much
While I miss the consistency of a regular knowing what to expect I'm enjoying seeing different girls on a regular basis.
Sure some are dud punts but most so far are awesome thanks to you guys here. It's reassuring that I'm not the only one that can get sucked into the realm of being "A Nice Guy" and the girl doesn't have to perform at the level they once did because they know you will be back week after week.
I'm much happier now ive broken that cycle.
As commented by punters earlier no more Mr Nice Guy just Mr Fun Guy
Hard with loyalty, as I stick with the one or two I like until they fly off or they do a really half effort job. It's a shame because it's all about the money, sometimes I try to incentivise them with a tip but no luck.
So it is Mr. Fun Guy from now onQuote:
Originally Posted by A Nice Guy
I was always Fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by Massage hunter
I'll still be nice too, just less so now so I don't get taken advantage of again...
Since breaking out I'm having a great time experiencing lots of great ladies across many shops
Fav shops so far are
Acqua
SSDS
Luna
Anytime
Touch
LMH
I should have realised a long time ago I was just another punter and my business not appreciated at the shop I would frequent most and recently stopped going to.
Don't get me wrong I still miss the old place and had many great times there.
Maybe one day I'll go back and see if I'm missed haha
Happy punting guys