Originally Posted by
11Bravo
What I learned. A LOOOOONG time ago, a bg asked me to not pull another bg from her bar, especially when I'd pulled her several times. A SIMPLE case of not wanting to lose face. Pull from another bar, out of sight, out of mind. But the same bar? No. Because like any work place, there are cliques; allies, but others you just don't get along with. So losing a regular to a co-worker can be considered a loss of face; you couldn't keep the guy. Sure it's business, but you're just not good enough at it. If you know ANYTHING about Asians, that loss of face is something to be avoided. It's a lesson I've kept in mind since. Like I said, I'd just move on, learning from the consequences.