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Originally Posted by dt333
He got played or he's trying to play all of us?
You declined her and that’s the end of the story.Quote:
Originally Posted by Linq
At the time you held the upper hand by rejecting her proposal, then you had second thoughts about rejecting her, chased after her and now she’s got the strong hand. It’s evident by you starting this thread and you’ve lost unfortunately.
You should have made that hand a winner and accepted her then played her, well that’s what I’d do. Then when your confidence is up and running move onto a second GF and a third if you’re capable of maintaining that many. One falls by the wayside you pick up another. Easy.
We all know that WLs and MLs besides working play around. Is there any harm in you doing the same?
Thank you for your insightful reply.Quote:
Originally Posted by Digby
1)Then why did she ask for my WeChat even after I said we can be friends.
2) If the answer is to maintain clientele then why didn't she reply to me once despite her posting on WeChat moments which means she can access her WeChat.
Just change your WeChat handle to "Captain Save A Hoe"
She'll start talking to you guaranteed
Every WL phone I've ever seen has around 40 unread messages across multiple messaging services from multiple blokes. You've been left on read, nothing more. She'll get back around to you when business is quiet.Quote:
Originally Posted by Linq
Happens to us all.
FEELSBADMAN,
Hey there, my good friend LINQ. I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through. I would suggest to don’t waste your energy trying to figure out why she acted the way she did. The truth is, only she can answer that.
Remember, it’s her job to charm you and make you catch feelings, but you need to stay two steps ahead. Many WL/ML use these tactics to get what they want, whether it's money, gifts, or even a ticket to citizenship/ Permanent-Residency.
Take care of yourself, my friend. Healing takes time, but I believe you’ll get through this. Why not try distracting yourself with a new hobby (other than punting)? It might help shift your focus and bring some joy back into your life.
All the best!
I think she must have realised you have down syndrome and thought I don't need this in my life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Linq
You're an easy mark or as the vernacular goes. A sucker.Quote:
Originally Posted by Linq
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Originally Posted by Linq
keebab knows why
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Originally Posted by keebab
They read your message header and swipe up so it still shows as not read to you. You really are left hanging, it’s a game she’s playing, nothing personal. As a test ask her out to something that is too tempting to refuse. If she agrees then the ball is back in your court.
I usually start with “I know you mentioned it before but I forgot when you have a day off, when is that”? Followed by “I have something I’d like to ask you” and now it’s your turn to leave her hanging.
You’re not to chase remember.
This is not a game and she is not playing you. She just is not interested
I guarantee you though, she will be interested and will be chasing/messaging guys who look like Brad Pitt and Chris Hemsworth non-stop
Facts bro
A possible scenario for the sequence of events leading to Linqs dilemma.
1-3 : you rocked up to the shop suited up - possibly after a job interview as you told the chick you were looking for work. The chick liked what she saw and probably found you were handsome, intelligent, and assumed you were single and filthy rich, ergo a good catch.
4-6: she asks if you wanted to be her boyfriend (she wants the upper hand).
You rejected her and put her in the friend zone, so she asks for your WeChat instead (you had the upper hand)
We don't really know what transpired between 6-7, perhaps she realised you were still living at home with your parents and therefore flat broke, or you weren't as well hung or romantic as she imagined, or you didn't satisfy her enough sexually. Maybe you said too much during the session, she connected the dots and put you in the 'ick' zone.
7-11: after the session you relived the session and caught the feels for her and this is when you became needy, clingy, desperate and thirsty. She ignored you and left you hanging (she now has the upper hand)
If she blocks or ghosts you then all is lost and she thinks you're a stalker.
If she texts you back it means business is slow/quiet.
if she texts you back apologising or providing excuses she's had a change of heart and so you're still in with a chance
Let's see:
Winning hand
Losing hand
Ante up
Check
Bluffing
Call
Deal me in
Deal me out
Fold.
FMTT. Too complicated a game for me. I just lay my cards on the table (along with a couple of pineapples). Less stress, more fun. (And good chance she answers your messages)
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Originally Posted by mn69
That may be the case but let’s get real, those guys take their pick of the women and the rest of the women are left chasing a dream. Now it’s up to Linq to be the next guy on their minds. The next cab off the rank so to speak, well as long as he doesn’t wear sandals, I mean they’re frowned upon here it seems, perhaps socks and sandals are ok?
I’ve had fools messaging women and I took control of their phones and lined up dates for them. What happened afterwards was totally their choice and yes they all failed but they got a foot in the door for the first date. Now I’m not offering my services to anyone here but Linq needs to up his game and where better than to get that intel than on a punting forum.
Linq could well become the forum’s “go you good thing” mascot, a bit like a well trained whippet and with enough positivity and forum instruction he can get where he needs to be.
We could place bets on him even!
I asked a Chinaman. He thinks she love you long time
I think you are very Wong about that.Quote:
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Originally Posted by dt333
Been all over Thailand. I dont know what it is. Young handsome fit guys with hair never seem to fall for these in Thailand. Its always only old bald fat Farangs fall who for these tricks from Thai bargirls.
I guess from the old saying: "an old fool and his money are easily parted"
If she is not answering phone, it means she is busy in bed serving another customer or her "sponsor" is in town and has taken her to Koh Samui for a few days.
Thx for the video. I’ve spent money on overseas tarts but that’s why you go there isn’t it?
Unlimited BBFS multiple times a day for weeks on end. I spend more than average because I want to be the guy that punts the one girl in the a good bar that is better looking than the rest. You know the one, the hottie with the long blonde hair, young, dresses well and has her own new scooter for example and rents her own high end apartment in a good building close to where the action is. Her looks guarantee her income.
They’re worth the spend because they’re not average. Everything about them is perfect, they’re selling you the fantasy and you reciprocate by paying.
Just don’t fall for the illusion.
Omg what hilarious thread this is. Linq are you a 7 year old thinking that a ML or WL in the first visit will be you GF? You need to wake up mate. Now you have the whole forum thinking like you're stupid idiot you're thinking that she would actually start being a GF.
Don’t worry Linq I’ve been played by these females before just fortunate enough it’s been with my downstairs.
The more I think about it it’s better to punt then go. There are so many woman available why get stuck with one? Sooner or later they start interfering with your lifestyle with subtle expectations or demands.
Linq, mate, strap in, ‘cause we’re takin’ this ride one painful step at a time. You’ve got the whole forum in stitches, and now it’s time for you to get a wake-up call. Let’s break down this tragic comedy you call a love story.
1. “I went to a Chinese massage shop.”
• First mistake, mate. You walked into a massage shop, and what, thought you’d find your soulmate between the lavender oil and the dodgy bamboo wallpaper? Bruh, this isn’t a romantic getaway, it’s a place where people go to get… let’s call it “relief.” And you’re out here thinkin’ you found love in a hopeless place? Nah, mate. This ain’t Rihanna’s song—it’s business. You walked into the most transactional environment possible and thought you’d get a date. Come on.
2. “The girl asked if I had just finished work.”
• Mate, that’s a stock question. She’s not out here tryna get to know your career path. She doesn’t give a toss about whether you just finished a shift or finished your sixth espresso on a job hunt. She’s tryin’ to gauge how much energy (and more importantly, money) you’ve got left in the tank. But you—you thought this was small talk, didn’t ya? Thought she was makin’ sure she got to know the “real” you. Nah, bruh. She was tryna figure out if you were payin’ in cash or EFTPOS.
3. “I said I’m looking for work.”
• YOU DID WHAT?! Mate, you walked into a place where the entire premise is based on you having money, and you tell her you’re lookin’ for work? Bruh, that’s like walkin’ into a casino and tellin’ the dealer you’re savin’ for rent! Of course she’s gonna mentally clock out. She’s thinkin’, “Oh great, I’ve got a guy who’s not even workin’—he’s not spending money on me!” You just dropped from “customer” to “charity case” in under 10 seconds.
4. “She asks if I want to be her boyfriend.”
• Oh, here we go! This is where your head started spinning with the wrong ideas. She asked you if you wanted to be her boyfriend, and you thought, “I’m in. This is it. Love at first sight!” Bruh, this wasn’t an audition for The Bachelor. When she says “boyfriend,” what she means is “How much more are you gonna spend today?” You’re over here thinking she’s planning picnics and Sunday brunch, but in reality, she’s just askin’ if you’re about to upgrade to the VIP package.
5. “I said no, but we can be friends.”
• Hold up, you friend-zoned yourself? Mate, you really turned down the (fake) boyfriend offer and went with “friends”. Let me get this straight: you’re at a massage shop, where money is literally the only language, and you’re out here talkin’ about friendship? Friends? You think she’s there to share secrets over chai lattes and go see movies with you? You’re the first bloke I’ve ever seen walk into a transactional setup and offer to downgrade his value. Congratulations.
6. “She asks for my WeChat.”
• Ah, here’s where your hopes and dreams took flight, huh? She asked for your WeChat, and you thought, “This is it. She wants to keep in touch. We’ll be texting late at night, talkin’ about life and the future.” No, mate. She’s askin’ for your WeChat because that’s how they lock in repeat business. You’re thinkin’ “relationship,” and she’s thinkin’ “potential regular.” You’re another name in her phone next to blokes labeled as “Dave - Tips well” and “Rob - Friday regular.”
7. “I msg her 2 days later, no reply.”
• Of course, no reply, mate! She’s got other customers! You messaged her like you’re on the verge of a relationship, and she’s probably serving the next bloke without a second thought. You’re sittin’ there, heart pounding, thinkin’, “Maybe she’s just busy!” Yeah, she’s busy alright—busy with another fella who knows the drill. You’re out here, waitin’ by your phone, and she’s already moved on to Customer #42.
8. “I msg her 6 days after that, no reply.”
• Six days later and you’re STILL trying? Mate, at this point, you’re basically puttin’ up posters with her picture asking if she’s gone missing. She’s not replying because you’re not a priority. You’re out here lookin’ like the guy who shows up to a party no one invited you to. She’s not ghosting you because she’s too busy—she’s ghosting you because you’re not payin’ anymore.
9. “I see her posting on her WeChat moments which means she isn’t dead or locked out of the account.”
• Well, well, well, Detective Linq is on the case! You’ve cracked it, mate! She’s alive! Posting! Living her life! And yet… no reply to you. Why? Because she doesn’t care! You’re sitting there refreshing her moments like it’s a Netflix series and wondering why she’s not messaging you back. Newsflash, mate: Just ‘cause she’s alive and kickin’ doesn’t mean she’s interested in you.
10. “I msg her 3 days later after that asking if she forgot about me, no reply.”
• Oh no… not the “Did you forget about me?” text. Mate, that’s tragic. She didn’t forget about you—she never thought about you. You’re sittin’ there like some lost puppy, wondering if she just misplaced your contact. Meanwhile, she’s probably scrollin’ past your message thinking, “Who’s this bloke again?” You weren’t forgotten, mate—you were never remembered.
11. “I sent her a video of myself like I usually do here an hour later, no reply.”
• You sent a video? Of yourself? Mate, stop it. This is beyond sad—it’s borderline stalker behavior. You thought sendin’ her a video was gonna remind her of what she’s missin’? Nah, bruh, she probably opened it, rolled her eyes, and hit delete faster than you can say, “boyfriend.” You’re lucky she didn’t block you on the spot. Videos? Mate, that’s some next-level cringe. You’ve gotta stop before you end up on a “Do Not Reply” list.
Now, let’s talk about that last bit of your tragic tale:
• “Also, I only want people who are from China who came to Australia at the age of 13+ to answer this.”
• Mate, what kind of weirdly specific, low-key racist request is this? Only Chinese people who moved here after age 13? What is this, a bloody support group for heartbreak victims with visa stamps? Are you collecting stamps in your “broken heart” passport now? You think only Chinese immigrants who came here as teenagers can help you with this? Mate, love—or lack of it—doesn’t need a translator. You could be chattin’ with anyone, and the answer’s still gonna be the same: you’re not special. She’s playin’ the game, and you’re losing it—no matter where anyone’s from.
And let’s talk about all these blokes tryna give you advice:
• Mate, you’ve got people out here talkin’ about how to ask her about her “day off” like that’s gonna flip the script. Stop it. She doesn’t care about your follow-up questions. You think she’s gonna respond because you asked about her schedule? Nah, mate, she’s sittin’ there lookin’ at your message, scrollin’ through another bloke’s bank transfer, thinkin’, “When’s this guy gonna get the hint?”
So, Linq, here’s the real deal: You didn’t get played because she’s some mastermind—we’re not in a James Bond movie. You got played because you played yourself. You walked into a business thinkin’ it was a love story, and now you’re sendin’ videos and askin’ for “friends” like you’re in high school again. Wake up, mate.
^^^ GOLD ^^^
But in summary:
Op didn't get played, this is pretty standard ML/WL behaviour. They want you to add them on whatever social media platform for their purpose, not yours.
BRILLIANT. Best read this month, best read this quarter. SALUTE.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22
And the bonus was you didn't ask how old she was.