The Real Issues After Dating a Massage Girl

I have dated massage ladies over the years. The following is based on my experiences:
1) They are in debt for a range of reasons but the common element is they have been scammed/cheated out of money and now have to repay
2) They have all tried other lines of work but decided it was too much effort and so chose to do massage
3) They all want to stay in Australia
4) All of them had children back in their home country
5) 4 of them were married to some dude who they said was madly in love with them but once the visa kicks in for them to stay intend to leave the guy the next day. One girl said she told the guy he was too big for her so just gives him a hj while she sucks and f@cks across Brisbane. To ensure she has only limited contact with him she picks shops away from where he lives and stays at the shop overnight as much as possible.
6) All are insanely insecure. Last one, she asked me to help one of the other MLÂ’s with some advice. I did and she flew into a fit of fury because I was apparently too attentive to her friend another time on which I ended it, she recommended one of her colleagues while she was away because I had genuine soreness. The massage hit the spot, and because I tipped her well for a good job she declared it was proof I was in love with the other woman.
7) They all wanted babies- pity I have had a vasectomy that was cleared and in over a decade no pregnancy scares.
8) They all after a month or so begin the emotional control and shaming stuff to try and manipulate you.

This is just my experience and of course is not representative necessarily of all MLÂ’s

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Originally Posted by RLC

I have dated massage ladies over the years. The following is based on my experiences:
1) They are in debt for a range of reasons but the common element is they have been scammed/cheated out of money and now have to repay
2) They have all tried other lines of work but decided it was too much effort and so chose to do massage
3) They all want to stay in Australia
4) All of them had children back in their home country
5) 4 of them were married to some dude who they said was madly in love with them but once the visa kicks in for them to stay intend to leave the guy the next day. One girl said she told the guy he was too big for her so just gives him a hj while she sucks and f@cks across Brisbane. To ensure she has only limited contact with him she picks shops away from where he lives and stays at the shop overnight as much as possible.
6) All are insanely insecure. Last one, she asked me to help one of the other MLÂ’s with some advice. I did and she flew into a fit of fury because I was apparently too attentive to her friend another time on which I ended it, she recommended one of her colleagues while she was away because I had genuine soreness. The massage hit the spot, and because I tipped her well for a good job she declared it was proof I was in love with the other woman.
7) They all wanted babies- pity I have had a vasectomy that was cleared and in over a decade no pregnancy scares.
8) They all after a month or so begin the emotional control and shaming stuff to try and manipulate you.

This is just my experience and of course is not representative necessarily of all MLÂ’s

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I might be wrong, but that sounds like you had your experiences mostly with the south-east Asian ML variety.

I've had a couple of ML GF's. Both a bit "strange". eg, texting while having sex.

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Originally Posted by VFlowers

I might be wrong, but that sounds like you had your experiences mostly with the south-east Asian ML variety.

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You are 100% correct. 5 Chinese and 1 Korean.

I did feel sorry for one of the guys who had married one of the Chinese ML I was seeing. There was multiple occasions I had just blown a load into his Mrs at the shop and when I left I would see him sitting in his car waiting for her. One time he was standing just up from the shop waiting for her as I walked out having just cum in her mouth. We locked eyes as I walked past. I was driving off when I saw her come out, plant a deep kiss on him then skip off with him. She said he believed her when she said she offered no extras as he was naive and stupid and this allowed her to keep most of the money as he thought she was earning very little. Needless to say when she started bs with me it ended fast.

Yes. RLC they prey on naïveté.

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

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Originally Posted by Gentlemanscarfacethird

Yes. RLC they prey on naïveté.

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

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You are right about arms length. I made the mistake with the last one of half believing she was genuine but bits of her story slowly unwound, parts she didn’t realise I had already worked out. Let her get a little too close in hindsight.

I married a ML a number of years ago helped her with PR. We agreed that after we were married she would not provide FS. However, some time after marriage, I discovered she was still doing FS so I told her to leave. She then tried to extort $200k from me> Took her to court - the judge was very scathing but didn't depart her FFS.

So not learning from my first mistake, I started going out with another asian ML. However this one worked in a few shopping centre shops and so I thought all was good. Although she was often cagey about telling me exactly what days she worked at which shops. Until I discovered she was working a few days a week at a well known RnT shop in CBD. So trust blown and relationship ended.

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Originally Posted by RLC

You are 100% correct. 5 Chinese and 1 Korean.

I did feel sorry for one of the guys who had married one of the Chinese ML I was seeing. There was multiple occasions I had just blown a load into his Mrs at the shop and when I left I would see him sitting in his car waiting for her. One time he was standing just up from the shop waiting for her as I walked out having just cum in her mouth. We locked eyes as I walked past. I was driving off when I saw her come out, plant a deep kiss on him then skip off with him. She said he believed her when she said she offered no extras as he was naive and stupid and this allowed her to keep most of the money as he thought she was earning very little. Needless to say when she started bs with me it ended fast.

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No, LOL, I am actually 100% wrong. SE Asia doesn't include China and Korea, that's East Asia. Was thinking more Thailand, Philippines etc. I'm really surprised to read that 5 of them were Chinese.

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Originally Posted by VFlowers

No, LOL, I am actually 100% wrong. SE Asia doesn't include China and Korea, that's East Asia. Was thinking more Thailand, Philippines etc. I'm really surprised to read that 5 of them were Chinese.

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Interesting as the Chinese all played the same/similar game to what I have read of other groups so just threw them in there with the rest.

Maybe I'm naive but I would have assumed most MLs dont date their clients but this thread implies it happens often. I guess they see a guy with money to burn and go for him when he expresses interest?

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Originally Posted by half

Maybe I'm naive but I would have assumed most MLs dont date their clients but this thread implies it happens often. I guess they see a guy with money to burn and go for him when he expresses interest?

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I have visited shops over the last 2 decades at least 4-500 times I would guess and it’s happened about 6 times for me.

Unless you are open minded enough to be ok with the girl servicing other guys (because 9 out of 10 will), then just remember, she's not really your GF, it's just your turn.

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Originally Posted by Up2me

Unless you are open minded enough to be ok with the girl servicing other guys (because 9 out of 10 will), then just remember, she's not really your GF, it's just your turn.

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Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me

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Originally Posted by Gentlemanscarfacethird

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

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I think could also apply for the massage girls to remember also. Us punters have our baggage and secrets also.

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Originally Posted by Amazoneddy

I live with a girl reviewed in these pages. It’s fantastic seeing here everyday. In the shower, in bed. Yes guys pay to see her. I know what she does with cocks. At times I get jealous about full service customers. But it’s just a money transaction. I see the girl over dinner, hear her thoughts and dreams. I met her as a customer. I wanted more. She tells me what happens, so I trust her. Some days I get stressed about the sex. But I see her undress at home. Go out with her. The sex is great.

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This is cope level 10

Only a fool would take a sex worker seriously.

I started talking to a ML, she wanted my number so I could see in her in other shops. She started messaging me and telling me where she was working and we started to get friendly. About 2 months in she started messaging me that we should move n together and split the bills to save money. Needless to say i quickly shut down the idea. But they always have an ulterior motive.

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Originally Posted by nervous

I started talking to a ML, she wanted my number so I could see in her in other shops. She started messaging me and telling me where she was working and we started to get friendly. About 2 months in she started messaging me that we should move n together and split the bills to save money. Needless to say i quickly shut down the idea. But they always have an ulterior motive.

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I had one who delegated me the simple task of solving all her life problems for her. Bit of a nasty one she was. She hated her husband, hated the house she lived in, claimed it was cheap and tacky- sent me a video of the place and my thought was it was a livable decent place albeit a fraction small. Red flags everywhere all take no give. Her only redeeming feature was swallowing after bj and natural anal.

I tried Anonymous Sex Dating for Local Discreet Hookups when I was looking for something private yet social. The anonymity made it feel safe, and people were straightforward and playful in their messages. I met someone whose humor matched mine, which kept the conversation flowing and fun. It’s a unique mix of casual connections with lighthearted interaction, making the whole experience enjoyable without pressure.

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Originally Posted by pepkoakrapovik

I tried Anonymous Sex Dating for Local Discreet Hookups when I was looking for something private yet social. The anonymity made it feel safe, and people were straightforward and playful in their messages. I met someone whose humor matched mine, which kept the conversation flowing and fun. It’s a unique mix of casual connections with lighthearted interaction, making the whole experience enjoyable without pressure.

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lol. I think that trying to pick up ML’s at a shop would be more worthwhile to be honest.

Great thread….I too have been talking to a ML & gotten closer but after reading ppls comments I am going to step back, haha. Its hard when they give u a gf experience & u see them multiple times but its just a job for them after all is done

One ML said to me recently that her boy enjoys bareback privileges at home as though it were some kind of reward.

Another mentioned that her man gets none at all, since he sleeps in and by evening she’s too sore to offer what’s left.

It’s hard to see how any of this serves the supposed “benefit” of these cuckolds, or wittols, to revive an old and fitting word.

For my part, a financial exchange for a sexual one is the furthest I’d wander from my own boundaries or values with these women. They are artists in their craft and experts in prancing and dancing their way through the circuitry of male emotion leaving both fascination and ruin in their wake.

Dated a few over the years. You get to know how competitive the shop life is. How cold some of the MLs really are and how disappointing some punters behave. The ones I dated was before the laws changed. But you can never truly trust a SW. They are so used to getting 4 pines for a nhjbs that they expect you to pay for everything. The younger ones do it to pay for visa/school and holidays, the older ones some married with kids do it for the tax free income.

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Originally Posted by CatWizard

One ML said to me recently that her boy enjoys bareback privileges at home as though it were some kind of reward.

Another mentioned that her man gets none at all, since he sleeps in and by evening she’s too sore to offer what’s left.

It’s hard to see how any of this serves the supposed “benefit” of these cuckolds, or wittols, to revive an old and fitting word.

For my part, a financial exchange for a sexual one is the furthest I’d wander from my own boundaries or values with these women. They are artists in their craft and experts in prancing and dancing their way through the circuitry of male emotion leaving both fascination and ruin in their wake.

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Well put..........

Totally agree, the scene's changed a lot. These days I stick with online setups - they're cleaner and safer. Met some surprisingly real women through pawg hookups, and it's been fun without all the fake promises. When everyone's upfront, the connection just happens naturally.