If you're keen on playing the revenge game, there are way nastier things you could do to make her lose business or even her job. And it'd be pretty easy to do, not that I'm saying you should...
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I went through this with an ML. I wouldn't say she took me for granted but the service changed, not necessarily for the worse.
The first time I railed her with my finger in her ass, licked her asshole etc. She later told me she doesn't like assplay and would prefer I stop which I did.
But the familiarity meant the service was different in other ways which I liked. It's all about what you're after.
Couldn't have said it better myself - here's the summarised version for the op
1. The constant no's? a SIMP-tom she’s got zero respect for him
2. Her chronic lateness? a SIMP-le sign that his time is worth jack shit to her.
3. Letting rough blokes smash her, then serving him the scraps? SIMP-ly insulting
4. Rocking up with pussy pain but still pocketing his cash? Flat out disrespect. He dropped his boundaries, and now she's SIMP-ly taking advantage and seeing how far she can milk the bloke.
Maybe the girl don't like him anymore.
But seems he still persisting her ..why not take him for granted, easy money. If he move on, I don't think she's care . Clearly this is not a regular look after theirs Value regulars.
I got a regular ml for yrs, then she increased her prices, I thought that too much $$$ . So I had moved on. I don't think she will missed me one bit. We some time over flattered ourselves. I guess she has putting up with me for while finally decided to increase...once the bond is broken , it's good bye.
Not to that extreme but I have stop seeing regular cause before she used to give me hard massages which is why I see her.
Knees the back, back cracking. Love getting stretched out and calf pains like im seeing physio.
Full service was nothing to boost about. Basically star fish but I like thr massage that's why I come back.
Eventually her massage wasnt hard anymore. She end up talking more.
I reduced our session and rarely see each other. Sometimes she messages me with tempting pictures to get me back in
Exactly.
She moves up-market, you just become a gap-filler, if that. No problem, both move on, it's just business.
Her shine is eclipsed by another, you stop booking. No problem, you don't need to wear a bulletproof vest when you're out 'n about. It's just business.
I had one regular for a number of months, LT every Saturday night. I knew she was new when we met, why she needed a mentor for the negotiations. I was her first customer in country (she told me 6 months later). Then, one week, when I SMS'd to confirm the assignation, she was busy. OK. Same the next week. 3rd week, I simply asked if I was wasting my time. "Yes, sorry; good business". She could do better consistently. No problem, just business. So I became a gap-filler: afternoon delight, ST. Worked for her, worked for me; just business.
PS: When I was relocating back home, I messaged her, asking for one last time, LT. No problem, she agreed, inserting me (pun intended) into her schedule for that night at my LT rate. We had a blast. Still, just business, with respect.
It's just business.
It's just business but when she couldn't even do her business then what's in it for me right?
Thanks for the input everyone. I've decided to move on from her and I'll find someone else who will value my time and money.
For anyone PM'd me asking about her, it's an ML in the city area, not a WL
A few people PM'd me and said they faced the same thing lol. Glad we can share our experience here.
Consider a restaurant you patronize. You have a reservation, get a window table, week after week. Then, the table becomes not-a-window table. Then, you get a "You'll have to wait for a table..." and you see other people arrive after you get tables. And when you do get a table, it's in the alcove by the kitchen. And your order takes a long time, arrives cold. It's just that your business is not all that important to the restaurant's income. What do you do?
She COULD do her business, just not with you. What's in it for you? Knowing it's time to hit the bricks. Time to dine elsewhere.
Sums it up just nicely mate - thanks...
Not all of them like regulars. They see 10 men everyday, 50+ men weekly. You're not special bros. Unless they don't have many customers, Losing you costs them nothing. Always remember that. Move on!
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Oh so others have also experienced this decline in service with the same girl lol.
Is it a well known shop?
So many choices.
I too have recently just started to switch up my punting to different shops and seeing whats out there.
Sometimes one forgets how much goddamn choice we have.
I mean, there shops EVERYWHERE.
Good luck.
Oh contraire Rick , if you're onto (or into haha) a good thing stick to it . Better to have a good connection and excellent service. Nothing worse than trying new WLs /MLs and being sadly disappointed let alone visiting unhygienic and shabby dumps .Yeah occasionally might find a good one but after a long arduous disappointing search.
Some guys spend a small fortune on their girlfriends and they’re not even “solid”. What’s the difference? If you’re getting out of it what you want then the spend is justified. Sometimes I think of it as charity and is there anything wrong with being charitable or generous? They can’t all have a great day at work so why not help them out?
Charitable....an interesting choice of word to drop in a joint like this. Ain't nothing wrong with being generous, but the real question is whether you are giving out of kindness, or cause you’re angling for something in return?
Selective Charitable: Only generous with certain chicks hoping your wallet buys you a bit more than the standard service
Opportunistic Charitable: generous when you smell an opening.....a tip here, a gift there, hoping it lands you an extra round, some GFE, a CIM surprise, her real phone number, boyfriend status etc.
Altruistic Charitable: Generous across the board, no strings attached MILFs, GILFs, old Asian boilers, chicks with dodgy hygiene, overweight, the lot and you don’t expect a thing in return. Now that’s the purest form of punter charity right there.
Some updates:
I haven't visited her again and she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch. Glad I cut heroff. Without this forum, she'd probably still be milking me dry.
I've found a new girl that I like at a different shop. Fingers crossed. I know better this time.