Sometimes people take advantage of your kindness
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Sometimes people take advantage of your kindness
Hookers are hookers. Its unfortunate, but you aren't going to find any loyalty or repayment - and at the end of day, they dont owe you nothing - its all transactional
Just save ur money and use it to travel the world instead mate. For 7k, you'd have a blast at Thailand.
Reminds me of that Simpsons episode where Stan Lee went to comic book guys shop but never left.
I get punting can be addictive, that’s why I only got once a month or longer. Get my fix from a girl that suits my desires then have a long break.
Dude you need serious help and you became a liability for the shop. Leave this site, quit punting and seek help pronto
I once read of a guy who worked and lived full time at a BDSM place in the city or close to the city and he did it all for free in exchange for being treated like a slave.
He did maintenance, cleaning etc and in return received their BDSM services for free. He’d participate with clients too but didn’t get paid. If I remember correctly he lived onsite in a cage. It was a 24/7 slave lifestyle arrangement.
Perhaps somone else knows of the story?
I’m trying to remember which place it was.
I find its best to keep trying new ladies, by sticking with regulars they will exploit u. It's fine to have regulars, but u dont want them thinking you're only seeing them alone.
Interesting post, bro… I recall reading one of your earlier posts, and draw a few possible conclusions; you’re either a full-blown puntaholic and need help, or you're a certified fool sitting on a sweet inheritance or you’ve hit the jackpot and got money to burn.
Overall Summary (Jan–Jul 2025)
Total Spend ≈ $53,000
Average Monthly Spend ≈ $7,570
Highest Month January 2025 – $13,690
Lowest Month May 2025 – $4,500
Average Spend per Session (est.) $250–$300
Estimated Total Sessions ~180–200 bookings
Spending Behaviour Profile
Style: Long-sessions heavy early on, then short frequent sessions during mid-year
Price Band: $150–$200 hr range dominates (ie mid market brothels)
Preferred Venues: 90 Artarmon, 19 Lipstick, Bonza, 533, 102 Liverpool
Refund Incidents: 3 documented (totaling ≈ $700)
Double/Group Sessions: Occasional (MFMF, no-swap doubles) around Mar–Jul
Top Repeat Performers
Naomi (90 Artarmon) 10+ Longest sessions, multiple walkouts, emotional rollercoaster
Miko (90 Artarmon) 5+ High-value, including NYE marathon
MiMi (19 Lipstick/78a/647) 5+ Loyal regular, consistent pricing
NuNu (Bonza/Yokos) 4+ Frequent in Apr–Jul
Karen & Cecilia (533) 3+ Mid-range go-tos in mid-year
Amy (19 Lipstick) 3+ Solid performer, reappears across months
Financial Forecast (If Trend Continues)
If the ~$7k monthly average holds steady for the remainder of the year:
Projected 2025 Total: ≈ $84k (or ~$1,615 per week / $230 per day)
Money doesn’t buy loyalty or respect.
Stop bitching and move on.
My professional diagnosis of OP is he most likely suffers from condition called "Not-Handsome & Not-Attractive"
He most likely does not look like Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, BTS Jimin, Jackson Wang or Super-Junior Siwon.
Thats why he spends all his time at a brothel and paying for transactional sex
OP you're the biggest simp ever. Dude WTF. Man the fuck up for fucks sake. You're such a fucking loser.
Its blokes like you the reason the rest of us get so many roots, bareback all inclusive for $150-170/hr.
You call yourself a punter you son of a bitch?
Just listen to yourself how pathetic you are:
"The thing is, over the 16 months of going to this shop, I have never asked for a discount and always pay full price, even though some customers from certain backgrounds get a discounted rate of $40 and up to $180 on their doubles. I know; I’ve seen, heard, and even taken payment when working as requested by the owner while helping out.
With all that said, the way I have been treated. Who do you think is in the wrong? And what should I do?
What should you do? You should MAN THE FUCK UP. Stop being the sissy simp you are and take fucken control. YOU OWN THE WHORE WHEN YOU PAY YOU IDIOT!!! Get this through your head and if you can't ask your friend to piss in your ear to clear it. OK.
"...the way I have been treated..."
Oh you poor diddums. You sound like a fucken faggot. Maybe you should try sucking dick.. just for a change. You might like the taste. Maybe it'll put things in perspective for you.
You think this is abuse? YOU THINK THIS IS ABUSE YOU FUCKEN COCKSUCKER???!!
Coming here expecting us to blow sunshine up your ass.
Apart from the last post this thread is interesting and lots of bros have made good points.
I'd add to brother aussie hot guy tho. OP considers himself kind and nice. How about obsessive and a weirdo?
Who goes to the same place over and over? I agree with the posts that say he's deflecting/hiding his clear emotional attachment to the place.
Fk n leave as the saying goes in this forum.
About the no money comment, some bright brother did the maths. Yes OP paid the whole day but if you average it out, the WLs could have earned more per customer than the average rate you paid to "book them the whole day".
To OP, think about it from their perspective. You reduced their earnings and some may be living day to day on their takings. Even if it isn't this, you're ruining their earnings. It's a business at the end of the day and you're just another cock to them.
Glad to know you're moving on but don't get attached to the next place. No girl or business owes u anything.
It's a brothel/RnT FFS.
The other advice you're getting here is a good one....treat yourself to a good trip in Thailand or Philippines.
If u have cash and crave personal connection but cannot get a proper talk relationship then a sugar baby is better for you than these shops. You buy a better GF experience that way.
Why don't you just invite the girls overnight to your place, I am sure they rather pocket the shop fee themselves and hang out at your place go for dinner etc, rather than just spend 6 hours in a room with you where they work all day.
Ive taken many girls from shops out, they are always keen to get paid and go out and about rather than stay at the shop.
OP youre needy as AF. Sorry mate but its the truth aye. Simpty simp simp to the core from what you described the situation as.
You made yourself as a doormat and what do you think would happen? No such thing as fairytale ending in this industry bro.
Also you need to find a hobby, a civvie friend (preferably a non degenerate) and snap out of this spiral that your in.
It's a painful thing but it's time to move on. I think coming to a forum of degenerates may be a bad idea but a few of them did tell you to find some help too. find a hobby other than this hobby. Maybe a girl will fall into the picture. You don't want a working girl. They are broken wonderful creatures who will take all your money and leave you wanting to give them more with nothing in return.
I think it's fair to say that nobody on this forum wants to be like OP. This is like our worst nightmares realised... Someone who fell down the slippery slope and got completely addicted to the paid sex.
I mean even if I had millions or billions I wouldn't want to go through life like that. It's not just about the sex, it's about time, life. No amount of money can replace that. You only have one life, don't spend it all on hookers.
I have had a shop stuff me around...told me to go, arrived and told to wait 1.5 hours later or try some other boiler. I left, went to another nearby shop and had the best root. I hate when a booking gets stuffed around, and definitely won't be back in the first shop.
OP, you're a good man, but don't be taken advantage of. Go take your dollars elsewhere and don't let yourself be taken advantage of
What do you actually do during these long bookings?
After 2 shots I wanna fuck off. 1hr max...
I don't think so. I get the feeling that there must be more to the story than what OP has written. I mean, I don't think he's just a normal bloke who likes to do long bookings and just have lots of vanilla sex. My guess is he's probably a demanding customer with unusual requirements. Whatever that may be, but it's probably something that would wear out a WL. If true, it rules out going with SBs for him. Gotta remember that SBs aren't nearly as hardcore as these cougar type WLs that work the joints he seems to frequent.
The fact that the shop literally booted him out even after he was ready to pay for extremely long bookings, as low as the hourly rate may be, adds weight to this theory.
This is the saddest thing I've ever read lol
Go and touch grass OP.
Make some friends