I'm allowed to blow $300 a month on the pokies, that night determines my next punt.
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I'm allowed to blow $300 a month on the pokies, that night determines my next punt.
Why do men feel like they have to tell their partner what they’re doing with their money??? It’s your money and you do what you want with it. Your “woman” does not need to know anything about your money.
Let’s face it MOST women sponge off men anyway so they should be thankful for the handout and keep their greedy prying eyes away from men’s bank accounts.
You give them a credit card so they can “drain you” and leave it at that. The rest of your money is none of their business.
I think its easier for tradies. A couple I know do work for cash, not sure if they use a portion of it for punting but they could easily tell the partner they got paid 500 when in reality they got 800. Still not a huge amount to play with but I guess its possible.
I’m leaving.
Hope that alleviates your sadness.
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Cash has always been King for me. While I do the usual "Tap n Go" transactions occasionally, I prefer cash most of the time.
Each fortnight (payweek) I get a a fairly large sum from an ATM & keep in my safe at home to use as I need it. Works for me...
We have a joint account for the majority of bills. I put $300 a week into it for "housekeeping". I pay the mortgage and home insurance from my account. My awesome boss pays me any overtime in cash. I also buy and sell bicycle parts and do bicycle repairs for cash. We have a "purple bin" system in Southern Sydney. $60 to get setup and then they do the return and earn for you, not a big earner but it all helps. I am always scrounging for extra dollars.
Hi there, just in case you are not aware, they are not talking about just a partner or girl friend, but the wives they are married to, with whom you share the house, the kids and everything you own, whether she has contributed into that or not, it's the law and how family life is build around. the Mrs has every right to check on the joint account and check your credit card statement etc. whether she does it or not is a different story.
Cheers
I grew up poor so I established early on id always have a few hundred on me in cash at all times. If it ever spiked like when my son made a comment once I had like 500 on me I'd jokingly say it's my cocaine and hookers money. All lies have an element of the truth and since I don't do blow.... I was admitting what it is just they thought I was kidding
Become the guy that pays everything in cash. Say restaurants and shops give discounts for cash
I wrote an app that debited cash out of my account every month. it deducts as a "license fee" like a proper business.
That $$$ just goes to a random debut card (like revolut) that my gf has no idea about.
Can share details if needed
In news today they said use of cash is stable the past few years. Thought of all you fellow creeps when I saw the piece! Lol!
Of course I use cash for punting well as groceries at paddy's markets.
Increase in number of RnTs is definitely sustaining cash usage !
Sorry I have to chip in here. I'm not saying we have to go back to the 1950s when husbands ruled the house, but anyone who has relinquished their autonomy to the point that they get audited on their relatively minor spending by their wife has really taken a wrong turn somewhere in life and should retrace their steps and fix it... whatever the cost... otherwise you are trapped in a living death. The only exception would be if you are one who lets her earn all or most of the money and are leeching off her...if that then fair enough that's part of the deal
Negotiate with the ML/WL for payment in kind instead of cash for service.
Ask to wash her car or mow her garden or drive her kid to shcool or take care of her old mother instead of having to pay her cash.