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Mental thing does come in play. When I have distractions (e.g. if I am filming) or I am with a super beautiful girl and have high expectations of performance, I get limp.
I was rock hard when I saw J Ivy. She makes me pressure free and I was like releasing the beast...
You're 20. Like I thought, young and immature (just a fact of life). What are you doing looking at P4P? You should take your time, your money, your energy and be out at the bars, clubs, events, looking to date, to score. You don't have to have a gf, just some who are also looking to have some adult fun. Those are much more fun than P4P as they're real, not business. You go to school - check your classmates. Work - your colleagues. Mix, hit the events.Quote:
Originally Posted by iikaannn
Prostitution might be legal, but there is a societal barrier to patronizing. Why we use handles, why so many are interested if a shop has a back door, is too public.
Seems you're not ready to cross that line, your brain telling your body "no". I'd listen. Once you cross that line successfully, it can become all too easy to continue; it's no longer that big a deal (never was, but you know, social conditioning has some reasoning...) IMO, you need real life relationship experience to give you a foundation so later on you can keep sex and relationships in perspective. Horny gives you energy, courage, to break out and extend yourself. It's just all TOO easy to take that extension to a P4P shop rather than taking ego risks ("The Agony of Defeat" making "The Thrill of Victory" all the MORE sweet). And with too much P4P as a base, that real relationship, too hard, too much work, just make a booking. Bad habits hard to break.
Some providers are damn good actresses (that's what they're paid for), and without real life perspective, some punters lose track of reality. You're a train, rushing down life's track. Without past relationship experience ties, those rails can come lose, and off the track you go. Not saying it'll happen, but you're missing some great things in life by taking the easy way.
You've got your whole life ahead of you. No rush for anything.
When I was 20 the less sexual experience the girl had, the more I desired and wanted her, whereas the bicycles really turned me off. Was totally a mental thing. Maybe subconsciously you know 746 penises have already been there so there's no conquest to be had.
Younger is more prone to anxiety and like I said once it's in your head it's all over.Quote:
Originally Posted by iikaannn
As other people said - no jerking, go a week without punting, find a girl you like and relax, don't be tired, don't be dehydrated and all that.