Are you addicted?

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Originally Posted by firekombi

No wife, no gf, just loaded and free. What a life. You can stop any time, but I doubt you will or want to.
And I think that is the tricky bit when it comes to addiction...
Then, you suddenly sound like "I am reading this magazine for the articles"

As for me, still new to this "hobby" for the lack of a better term, so I feel there are still much for me to explore. Definitely pricey, definitely good sense of adventure, definitely fitting for mid life crisis.

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Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad. I probably punt as often as I do because I have no relationship or connection with anyone in my life and it temporarily fills that void.
Haha yeah it's funny I say I can stop anytime but atm I don't want to cause there is no reason to, so then people probably think 'that's something someone with an addiction would say' :shout:

Use to do once a fn with recent cost increase everywhere hhave had stretches where I go once a month or more

Addicted for sure. Enjoyment not as exciting as back in the early 2010s. The girls back then were so much better in many ways, looks, services and prices. Not much to talk about with the stock these days, shops and girls getting greedy with their pay rise.

New month so I will try to punt only once, twice max, getting expensive!

im one of those long time luker type. after reading several threads from regular punters, Im curious to know whether you lot get yourselves regularly tested particularly the ones that do regular bbbj? i recently got a bbbj from a pcd girl. initially i opted for cob but because she was so nice to me i got desperate and went bare. Im waiting for 3 weeks to get tested :| this is first ever bbbj punt.

I think we are all hooked for life
This year I noticed I’m happy to wait for those golden opportunities only and not go out of my way.
Also i now no longer settle for less I’ll happily walk or repeat a visit to an already proven quality punt
I’m happier and so is my wallet

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Originally Posted by firekombi

4 good ones to 1 bad one? or 1 in 4 is good?

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I would say three average, one really bad, and one really gooood! The good ones keep me going.

I'm hooked but not in Australia. In the last few years I've just been a sex tourist in Thailand, Vietnam, Sth Korea and Japan. The type of services just ain't available in Sydney. I only visit shops in Sydney because my big brain didn't think straight.

Like another punter said, the quality (both looks and/or service) just isn't what it used to be. Girls are just greedy and want the most money for least amount of work. For example Gigi at Dreamgirls wanted $200 on top of $100 shop fee for FS. I said thats more than Ginza and so I rejected it. She bagan haggling with me but I felt so offended already and just gave me the minimum that I paid for. She wasn't too happy later and gave me black face. in the last dozen or so punts, only Milin at SBM had me repeat her services. In the past I had a few girls that I would repeat on rotation but not anymore.

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Originally Posted by goodadventurer

Yeah, it called STD, lol.

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HPV or genital warts could sideline one for a long time!

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Originally Posted by Candy1234

Addicted for sure. Enjoyment not as exciting as back in the early 2010s. The girls back then were so much better in many ways, looks, services and prices. Not much to talk about with the stock these days, shops and girls getting greedy with their pay rise.

New month so I will try to punt only once, twice max, getting expensive!

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All we need is a few expensive dud punts to kick the addiction.

These days I have to pay $150 for a few minutes of DATY.

Back then there was no limit to how much you want to DATY and it followed with FS.

Addicted? For sure. But with somewhat in control still. I go once or twice every 3 or 4 weeks now.. as opposed to 2-3 times per week. Expensive hobby. But I’ve always had one anyway.

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Originally Posted by blidbla86

Sometimes in the past I would have shit punts and think man what I waste of money. I only go to ginza now and haven't felt like that there. As for am I addicted, I go a lot but no I can stop anytime. I have no wife, no gf and a lot of free time so I like the social interaction

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I feel you bro. Hahahaha
Social interaction
Sometime I go crazy with the same girl and mutiple visit and hours

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Originally Posted by blidbla86

Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad. I probably punt as often as I do because I have no relationship or connection with anyone in my life and it temporarily fills that void.
Haha yeah it's funny I say I can stop anytime but atm I don't want to cause there is no reason to, so then people probably think 'that's something someone with an addiction would say' :shout:

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Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt

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Originally Posted by 4m3L

Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt

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That makes three of us.

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Originally Posted by 4m3L

Bro can dm you? We’re on the same page. Fuck life especially having day off nothing to do that’s why I keep punt

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Haha sure i don’t mind

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Originally Posted by Linza Giz

Just my work bro. I paid off my house and my work pays well. I have shares overseas and sell them but the taxes here are crazy so I like to spend what I have

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How do you avoid paying the tax by spending the money? Doesn't sound like you get paid in cash.

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Originally Posted by ergoproxy

Addicted? For sure. But with somewhat in control still. I go once or twice every 3 or 4 weeks now.. as opposed to 2-3 times per week. Expensive hobby. But I’ve always had one anyway.

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Yea that's me too these days, just try to go once or twice every 3-4 weeks, still keeps it semi exciting, and I just stick with the ones I know that can deliver, or use this forum if I am wanting to try someone new who comes highly recommended.
But definitely had my post-nut clarity moments of like ...''should've gone to Ginza, that would've been way cheaper in comparison.''

I find this as well..
I use to wonder why do i spend more when a brothel is cheaper & easier tbh.

From reading the comments here, it seems that going to massage shops and brothels is not only a sexual outlet but to connect with a human female for an hour. It's an emotional need. Some blokes here have no family or social contacts, while I guess many others are in a robotic marriage that expired long ago.

Correct me if I am mistaken. I wonder if any men here would reply and say: "I am in a happy relationship which is very exciting sexually, but I also need to go to shops every now and then for variety." ☹️

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

How do you avoid paying the tax by spending the money? Doesn't sound like you get paid in cash.

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I can't say how I'm doing it on a public forum bro. But it's nothing illegal or anything like that. I can just say that the more I spend. The less tax I pay. Because I use the salary money to pay for all legit expenses that then lowers my tax rate. I have a good accountant let's just say that

Addicted ?!?! Most likely , realistically part of my lifestyle . Still have a social life , hobbies and a share mix with punting. Never married , single , had past relationships but I think a monogamous relationship is not for me .. I get bored too easily and repetitive , predictable routines definitely drive me nuts. Sex is there with breathing , sleeping and eating , can't do without though am particular with who .

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Originally Posted by firekombi

No wife, no gf, just loaded and free. What a life.

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Originally Posted by blidbla86

Pros and cons to everything, coming back to an empty house and being alone the majority of the time is pretty isolating and can feel pretty bad.

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What I thought of as bragging turned out to be more of a cry for help, maybe not, but...

That is how I tend to over read things.

May you find good counsels in the comforting bosoms of your fav WLs.

Yeap I’m definitely addicted. I used to punt 1-2 a month but more recently have been 4-5 times a week and sometimes drop in as part of my bedtime routine. I’ve been in a happy long term relationship for decades but unlike some, I don’t think sex makes or breaks a relationship and neither does my other half. Truthfully I just appreciate I live in a city where I can legally fuck as many 18-23 year olds as my heart desires but it does get boring sometimes. Money always a consideration but since my early days of seeing high end privates, $1-2K a week now goes a lot further since switching to mostly brothels.

I try to see different girls each time and rarely repeat but I know it’s become a problem when I look at the roster of certain shops and realise there is hardly anyone I haven’t already fucked.

That said, to me it’s just a fancy wank to empty the balls, not for companionship and whilst I agree standards used to be way higher across the industry there are a few places which get good quality girls and I’m sure I’ll stop eventually either due to my age or due to a dip in quality. Take Ginza for example, when I started there it was mostly C girls which just dont appeal to me. Now it’s full of J girls which I have always liked and convinced this won’t last forever and when Japans economy eventually turns a corner they’ll be gone and we’ll all be craving the good times.

As someone else mentioned I find punting overseas much more exciting due to the novelty value but feel blessed living in Sydney as it’s better than 99% of the rest of the world.

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Originally Posted by sloaneranger

to me it’s just a fancy wank to empty the balls, not for companionship

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Hahaha, that’s a brilliant way to think of it.

How much were you paying the single mum each time for BBBJ and swallow?

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Originally Posted by goodadventurer

I do it for a couple of years now. For some time I found a young oz single mum who gave me BBBJ and swallow regularly, but my stupid ass ruined that relationship. Surprisingly I found her on Locanto where 99.9% of ads are scam. I was depressed and and was punting much more aggressive like once a week (couldn't afford more, haha). Now I do more research before visiting a girl and still my success rate is around 4 to 1. I don't think I can stop it soon.

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Been addicted for years now. As long as you dont catch feelings by having regulars and its in your budget then I dont see the problem. Its just an expensive hobby.