How open are you about your punting life with others in your life?

I think, that if you have to think very hard about who to tell, and who not to tell, there is something 'wrong' there. Now that wrong may be due to the way society views things etc etc but there is something 'amiss'. For example, would you even think about when you discuss what you had for breakfast?

I guess it's interesting to read about the Sexual celebration etc but we live in a society and need to comply with some of the rules (otherwise it will oztrazise....:love:) There is also boundaries which you can't cross with certain people in your life. For example, you wouldn't talk about sex with your mother even if you had the sex with your wife.

So I guess, who do I tell. Well not many people at all because most won't think it's ok. But then, I don't really talk about sex with my friends. May depend on how close you are.

Do I think it's ok? Hmm.... good question. I reckon it's probably not ok as defined by society which I must live in. Do we all do things that are not ok. Yes probably. Shades of gray people. Just don't hurt anyone or yourself and you should be mostly ok.

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Originally Posted by Littlewonder

I told her I wasnt happy wanted more sex I wont give you the details of the discussion but she said she didnt want more to go and get it somewhere else. Do what _____ does which was one of her girl friends exhusband who got caught because because he put it on Amex and his accountant had a big mouth and told his girlfriend who was friends with his wife and my wife but thats another story.

Mind you at the time I only ever wanted to have sex with my wife it took me a long time before I saw a working lady but I guess I got lucky now mind you I still do it discretely and dont discuss or make her feel bad about it in any way.

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Sounds like me to a t... but I haven't had the talk yet to bring it all out into the open.

Am dicing with disaster a bit as BBBJ and DATY are my pleasures when punting, but I never have had full service sex yet, and thats a line I won't cross without at least an implicit understanding with the wife...

Just as long as she doesn't get suspicious of all those trips to Bunnings in the evening!

As Charlie Sheen (aka Carlos Estevez) says “I don’t pay them for sex. I pay them to leave.”

Thats be beauty of punting...

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Originally Posted by Sextus

We aren't paying for sex. We are paying to CELEBRATE sex. And that is a fundamental difference.

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Originally Posted by Sextus

We aren't paying for sex. We are paying to CELEBRATE sex.

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That is what is known as an epigram, a pointed saying that sums up a big topic. (Thanks, CommanderM, for noticing that.)

Another might be (in regards to tipping)

"I'd rather fail with my personality than succeed with my wallet."

Charlie Sheen is my hero....

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Originally Posted by cato

Charlie Sheen is my hero....

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Mine too, he knows fun

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Originally Posted by babelx

I think, that if you have to think very hard about who to tell, and who not to tell, there is something 'wrong' there. Now that wrong may be due to the way society views things etc etc but there is something 'amiss'. For example, would you even think about when you discuss what you had for breakfast?

I guess it's interesting to read about the Sexual celebration etc but we live in a society and need to comply with some of the rules (otherwise it will oztrazise....:love:) There is also boundaries which you can't cross with certain people in your life. For example, you wouldn't talk about sex with your mother even if you had the sex with your wife.

So I guess, who do I tell. Well not many people at all because most won't think it's ok. But then, I don't really talk about sex with my friends. May depend on how close you are.

Do I think it's ok? Hmm.... good question. I reckon it's probably not ok as defined by society which I must live in. Do we all do things that are not ok. Yes probably. Shades of gray people. Just don't hurt anyone or yourself and you should be mostly ok.

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Interesting is right, please note I am not an anarchist or rebel without a cause...
Bro Babelx, THAT IS A GREAT POST. I am sure what you say is correct and I totally see where you are coming from.....The "who to tell" conundrum is not wrong at all, the correct decision could see a closer bond cemented with a long term mate which lasts until one of you die... the wrong decision can bite you (depending on your situation) very hard. Is it worth risking the second to have a chance at the first, I think yes. Close mates, who trust and know each other well are worth the effort, they keep each other in check, force honesty give stability and help keep people sane. The relationship can be very strong coz u have no reason to lie to each other and cheating will not be a problem either..That's the why tell anyone part taken care of for me.

The views of society handed down by totally pure men of the cloth and very honest and trustworthy political leaders are a little hypocritical. Those views are then supported by men who are whore-fuckers themselves. I have no interest in trying to change society's views but before you just say that's how it is.... think about the atrocities commit(ted) in the name of the world over.... Religious leaders use the scriptures to msnipulate and control those who have faith or enough guilt to follow their teachings. I dont think a boarding school away from the city would have been a fun place 50 years ago, especially if your pastural carer was angry or well hung. .... Repression is not good.

The politicians & businessmen who are part of the "shame on you crowd" (in public) are some of the most debauched and prolific punters on earth. These high powered men are usually married to smart, cunning, well bred women who know exactly what is going on and pragmatically turn a blind eye to keep the status quo, they know they have as much to lose as the philandering guy (most times). This way society can continue the great pretend and admire the diamonds, bags and shoes on one side..... and golf memberships, private charter jets and front row seats on the other. He fucks the $2500/hour hookers and the receptionist; she fucks personal trainer and the gardener once in a while. Then at the cocktail parties and major celebrations everyone declares in public how they feel so lucky and special to be in a situation.

I would love to know the true proportion of men who obtain paid sex, and or have affairs. It would be a very interesting number I am sure, much thought and discussion would be provoked...and it would mean we wouldn't have to discuss what we had for breakfast.... Unless mum was in the room
For some reason the line from \ Seinfeld comes to mind when \ George is wearing track pants outside the house.. and Jerry declares that wearing the pants means \george has given up on life and society...

Well, most of the ML's I know have told me that most of their clients are married.

And most of the ML's are in relationships. So who to tell? Clearly, the majority keeps their sex life to themselves.

I am not married but I still keep my punting life private. My view is that there is no need to place myself at the prejudices of others.

People are very quick to judge these days, and everybody has an opinion. My sex life is nobody else's business.

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Originally Posted by CommanderM

As Charlie Sheen (aka Carlos Estevez) says “I don’t pay them for sex. I pay them to leave.”

Thats be beauty of punting...

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Gotta love Charlie

I have 3 make friends who know and who I punt with. I have also told a small number of girls. I always found they were more fascinated than repulsed by the idea.

Interesting about the girls not being repulsed, and they don't think any less of you ?
I just couldn't see myself telling any girls, I have told male friends and even encouraged them to come with me.
Many like the idea and agree but pike out at the last minute.

You have to tell the right girls. One of them was a flatmate who was very open with me about her love of gay (male) porn. Another was into very risqué things.

True what LJS mentined, I once told a female colleague that I punt coz I was sick of her telling me stories of how interesting her weekend was (rich dad has its perks). So when she asked me what I got up to, I just blurted out brothel hopping bitch!

She didn't believe me at first, and was nagging the hell out of me for details. 4 hours later, she was on heat...you guys know the end. And thanks to rich dad, I too had many memorable ensuing weekends. Pity she's married with 2 kids now.

To the wizard, I seem to have a very high hit rate of friends whom I've enticed our world of fun to. They affectionately nickname me devils advocate.

What Ive found is most girls know guys go to brothels and assume its normal, well at least the girls I know..

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What Ive found is most girls know guys go to brothels and assume its normal, well at least the girls I know..

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Whilst most girls I know do assume its fairly normal, still say they wouldn't date someone who goes to a brothel...

Would any of you guys date a girl who has paid for sex? I know a girl who was actively looking to pay for sex before she chickened out. She's not a not girl, but if she was I wouldn't think any lesser of her. In fact I'd be turned on by her filthiness.

Not a not girl = not a "hot" girl

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Originally Posted by LongJohnSilver

In fact I'd be turned on by her filthiness.

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Nothing turns me on more than filthiness!!!

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Originally Posted by Sextus

Nothing turns me on more than filthiness!!!

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That's why we love WLs. She may be a sweet innocent-seeming young girl straight out of high school, but what we know deep down and absolutely love is that her mind and pussy must be full of filth or she would never be doing this job in the first place.

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Originally Posted by cato

I am not married but I still keep my punting life private. My view is that there is no need to place myself at the prejudices of others.

People are very quick to judge these days, and everybody has an opinion. My sex life is nobody else's business.

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Not only that the ones that are likely to give you a hard time in front of everyone else are the same ones that punt and say nothing or pretend they dont.

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Originally Posted by Littlewonder

Not only that the ones that are likely to give you a hard time in front of everyone else are the same ones that punt and say nothing or pretend they dont.

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It would be good if we could all figure out some way, collectively, of turning the tables on the hypocrites.

And I also mean those who don't punt. It is they who need enlightening, not us, as I said at some detail at the beginning of this thread.

I have met so many really nice girls, with sunny personalites, their fun, their humanity. They have been nothing but good for my soul, and I hope I too have been, in just a small way, for theirs. The thought that the many, many hypocrites of society have the gall to look down on them, me, and us, not only makes me want to puke, but also makes me want to gain REVENGE on them for it!

Like a wet pussy, I want to rub the facts in their faces!

Well, maybe not like a wet pussy, maybe like some steel wool - that's much better.

even my mum knows but shes never said anything

How do you know she knows?

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Originally Posted by Sextus

How do you know she knows?

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because shes not stupid enough not to