Why young, attractive men still come to brothel?

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Originally Posted by caramellochoco

Some get a thrill of going to a WL. It's very different being with your chick, or a girl you picked up, as opposed to someone who's job is to please other men. Some guys get off doing the social taboo.

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Definitely agree with this, part of it is the excitement especially at a new place.

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Originally Posted by Christmas

I repect you and uncle ahlungor. I know some people who think like you. But i ...to be honest don't really understand. Lol

In what point sex and kinda-sorta-sex (bj, hj) is different?! And you mentioned even nude...!! Grrrrr ...!!!!
If you were my bf, I'd kick your ass so hard. But as i said, I repect your opinion.. Hehe...

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Ok . There is a very simple straight answer to this : in the universal animal kingdom , the sole purpose of sex is to reproduce !

Men - of course has added many extra aspects to sex (sexual inter course that is !) it's a pleasure thing, it's a life style thing (think massage and RnT !) but ultimately sex is the process to make a baby ( and lets not talk about Ivf at this point )!

So , call me put my head in the sand if you like - but cock into pussy is the only way to reproduce and that's sex! That's my point ! Any other way - it's not sex and therefore Not cheating from me to my Mrs and I can live with myself!

And of course, when I did go to 5 Star or fuck some of my massage girls ~ I was cheating then, guilty as charged, but not when I see Mimi, Vicky or Rebecca ..... Haha

There was a xxx rated movie by Samantha Strong, it's called save my cherry or something, Strong was not really my type but the theme of the film caught my attention : she was still a virgin (as if !) and she must remain a virgin in order to marry this rich man or something like that so she can't have sex with her sweetheart boyfriend !

But he was horny and has needs - and yes, you guess it, she will give him hand job, blow job, let him fuck her tits and her ass, just no entry to the pussy ! There you go!

The difference between sex or no sex!

Just my two cents

Cheers

Hey brother Ahlungor

I think a Forum Rule should be 'brothers shouldnt judge another'

Your opinion is your opinion

Cheers !

visting ML or WL while attached?
I think HJ, CBJ are lesser offences. with daty or sex you may be pleasing another woman and even paying for the privilige! but HJ or CBJ may just make up for not getting enough at home. so long as yur partner gets plenty from u already. be safe dont bring any nasties home!!!!

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Originally Posted by Christmas

young guys prefer massage parlour than brothel

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massage parlour tabs(trendy asian bitchs) tend to be younger, more naive n fun to chase. in a fs shop theres no chase n feels like a transaction

They do it because there is no obligation and chase attached. Simply pay and have sex with a WL that you would more or less have to chase hard to get when out and about.

For those that are arguing that its not cheating, imaging you found out your partner was getting her pussy fingered or giving a bj would you not classify it as cheating? I sure would.

Any sexual act is cheating.

I wonder how many of the guys responding to this thread view themselves young and attractive.

lol u mad bro? im actually old so yeh

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Originally Posted by beta101

massage parlour tabs(trendy asian bitchs) tend to be younger, more naive n fun to chase. in a fs shop theres no chase n feels like a transaction

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Yeah I know. I sometimes miss that time... I think I had more fun in massage parlour.

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Originally Posted by Debo

Any sexual act is cheating.

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yay~

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Originally Posted by Christmas

Yeah I know. I sometimes miss that time... I think I had more fun in massage parlour.

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thats cause u made everyone fall in love with u in massage parlour :')

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Originally Posted by Christmas

Few years ago, when I was not WL, I totally misunderstood this industry. I thought only someone who has disabilities, comes to brothel to release their desire. Now i know how silly I was.
Yet many charming, attractive, young guys prefer massage parlour than brothel, I sometimes find real gem among customer.(hehehe…) and ask them “Why?”

They could cruise chicks at pub, make girl friends or even fuck buddy very easily. I am not talking about only their appearance. Some of them have nice sex skill, they talk very sweet, humorous, smart,(which personally think most attractive) and so on…

First of all we should know men’s, and women’s sex drive is totally different. I don't think I’m only woman that i can put up my horniness. I sometimes, get horny like the other human-being, but I do not wake up at middle of the night, drive few miles away, purchase, and at last having sex.
The men, when they are horny, they should do something. you don’t have to wear a nice suit when you come to brothel. shorts and thongs, that’s it. Even if you are super attractive and charming in some way, you can’t have just having fun and go back to sleep or go back to work. (FYI : many shops are busy at 12pm-1pm) It’s convenience.

Also, attractive guys are of course popular to the girls, they don't want mess their reputation. They “could have” had sex with many girls but they don't want ruin their relationship as a friends. Furthermore, some of YAM(Young, Attractive Men) they are too busy at work or whatsoever, they think “being in relationship” is such waste of time, money, emotion.

There still are many reasons that I couldn't write here all. Important thing is everyone, even YAM also come to brothel. Eric @rockdale485 still message me like “you want to come? there is super hot guy with awesome tattoo and two-block hair cut here.” then even if I'm at school… I'm very often tempted....!

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I think guys like the simplicity of paying directly for sex, rather than playing mind games and paying for sex in other more emotionally draining ways ...

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Originally Posted by vvillie

I wonder how many of the guys responding to this thread view themselves young and attractive.

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Not in the slightest. Maybe I was young once but never attractive

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Originally Posted by beta101

lol u mad bro? im actually old so yeh

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Why would I be mad? It was a legitimate question.

Picking up girls at bars/clubs isn't easy. It's easier to just pay for it.

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Originally Posted by daveo123

Picking up girls at bars/clubs isn't easy. It's easier to just pay for it.

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Also less hassle the next day

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Originally Posted by vvillie

I wonder how many of the guys responding to this thread view themselves young and attractive.

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A young and attractive guy will probably be out there chasing and fucking hot chicks - why would he be a keyboard warrior ??

Corrections , a young and attractive guy will probably be chased by many hot young chicks and cougars !! Too busy fucking or deciding who to fuck !!

Just a thought

Cheers

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Originally Posted by kaylie

to me, seeing hot young ml and having hj (even nude) is not cheating, but i wouldn't have fs when i am married or in relationship with another other than my partner.
Some people think even hj is cheating - i don't agree. Anyone care to discuss?

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i did not have a sexual relationship with that woman ....

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Originally Posted by vvillie

I wonder how many of the guys responding to this thread view themselves young and attractive.

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I am not but I got money ... does that count as something ...

Sounds very prickly when one says it I know ...

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Originally Posted by harmony

Q. Why do young attractive men still come to brothel ?
A. Because young, attractive women can be found at brothel

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Completely agree. I remember when I first started punting. Where did we find all of the good looking, slightly naughty women? Working in the strip clubs, RnT and brothels. I'm not as young as then, even though I look pretty young and this is one thing that hasn't changed... Naughty YAW still work at strip clubs, RnT and brothels...

I find that dating women is tedious. There's always this getting to know each other stage and all of the questions. At least with a sex worker, I know straight away if she's good in bed or not...

I'm an ugly old bastard so realistically there is no way I could ever fuck the quantity, quality, and variety of young chicks that I do if I wasn't paying for them.
But even if I was young rich and handsome I still reckon I couldn't do it.
And even if I did the amount of time energy money stress effort etc required would be enormous.
And then you would constantly be dealing with "day after" phone calls, clingy girls, lying, making excuses etc.
it's just not worth it.
Punting is so easy and hassle free.

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And no one has mentioned dating sites yet
A lady in my social circle came out of a marriage last year, and her nephew set up a profile on RSVP in January 2015

She told me that she would get 20 men a day trying to contact her, so in a fortnight she got around 200 different men trying to contact her
It was funny, she told me a story that for the first few men, she would bring her nephew with her !

That is pretty much the most mainstream dating site in Australia
She paid nothing to register with the site, and nothing to reply to some/most of these emails
So for women, put up a good profile photo, and you have no worries meeting guys
The third guy she chose to meet, developed into a relationship, and I presume she didnt contact the remaining guys (typo corrected)

It makes me laugh every time I read journalists saying there is a "man drought". hahah
The articles are often written by fussy female journalists, interviewing fussy females
(example below)

Im not against single women, far from it.
Im just commenting on the demographics on some websites :)


http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/new...-1227290466148
Single in Sydney: Is a man drought in NSW to blame or are women too picky?


Yvonne Allen, who has been matchmaking for almost four decades, said her male clients longed for an old-fashioned girl.
“I don’t believe there is a man drought, but women have become too challenging for men to want to commit.
Men are pretty simple creatures, they want to be attracted to a woman who has a feminine side,” Ms Allen said.
“These days women earn extremely well and men need to feel needed and a lot feel emasculated, it’s a challenging era.”


Lucy A*, a 36-year-old PhD student, said she was proudly picky.
'Maybe I am a little too fussy, but the men out there are not what I’m looking for, and all the good ones seem taken', she said

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Originally Posted by Christmas

If you were my bf, I'd kick your ass so hard.

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That sounds tempting! :)

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Originally Posted by harmony

And no one has mentioned dating sites yet
A lady in my social circle came out of a marriage last year, and her nephew set up a profile on RSVP in January 2015

She told me that she would get 20 men a day trying to contact her, so in a fortnight she got around 200 different men trying to contact her
It was funny, she told me a story that for the first few men, she would bring her nephew with her !

That is pretty much the most mainstream dating site in Australia
She paid nothing to register with the site, and nothing to reply to some/most of these emails
So for women, put up a good profile photo, and you have no worries meeting guys
She chose one guy to meet, and that developed into a relationship, and I presume she didnt contact the other 200 guys

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Wait, so she only met one guy out of 200, but told you a story that for the first few guys she met she brought her nephew along with her?

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Originally Posted by Sergaent Brody

i did not have a sexual relationship with that woman ....

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It depends on what the meaning of the word 'is' is