Just keep things legal by making sure you have the other persons consent, and not fucking minors.
As for everything else, just have a good time guilt free - don't stress about it.
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Just keep things legal by making sure you have the other persons consent, and not fucking minors.
As for everything else, just have a good time guilt free - don't stress about it.
I believe that what I do with WLs is cheating, but I do not feel guilty about it, due to my circumstances at home.
I used to feel a little bit guilty that I was "exploiting" some poor young Asian ladies.
Now, I rationalise it by thinking that I am actually helping them by providing them with income.
It is like a business transaction where we both "win" and it is usually very exciting for both of us.
As I said before, if you have to do something behind your wife's back, that's cheating, regardless of where your dick ends up ! Even going out for tea with a mamasan is cheating, because you can't tell your wife about it.
But who cares ! Who's to say you're guilty or not on a sex forum, because most if not all are guilty one way or another. There's no need to find an excuse to talk yourself out of the guilty feelings and be above the rest !
I don't consider it cheating as there's no commitment with the WL it's a business transaction and its natural men just like to fuck simple
If you think a simple rub and tug isn't cheating imagine some young stud massaging your wife then fingering her and rubbing her clit until she comes.
extra charge for daty and full service with 8 inches! And the young stud is balls deep in your Mrs.
Bb sex can be paid for by both male and females.
Next thing you know your cute innocent wife is being cream pied by a younger man with a bigger dick!
But it doesn't mean anything so it's not cheating right?!?
Well if ur worried about ur wife cheating then maybe us blokes shouldn't be doing the same? Can't have one without the other
Cheating ?
I can't help but feel sorry for you guys that feel the need to cheat.
But then may be you are the lucky ones your wife or girl friend care if you cheat, may be you are the lucky ones.
For me I punt because my wife told me to up until then I never fucked anyone else, I find it somewhat sad that is the case.
However since that is the case I now enjoy the company of many beautiful women and making love to them.
So for me I don't need to cheat!
Just in case your wondering I respect my wife and her decision and I keep my punting secret to respect her request and keep it from her friends and from family.
Is this ideal? I don't know but at least it is working for me at the moment.
Of course it is cheating whether it be rnt or fs. Think if it was on the front page of a new. "Punter found cheating at brothel/massage parlour by wife." if you get caught it is how you get deal with it afterwards.
Forgive me Father for I have sinned.........
Now, can we get on with this Sex Forum just like Yellow Fever's question on which WL's provide BBBJ for the whole session.....
If some of you muppets are still torn on this subject then give Hillsong a call...
Lol, Hillsong... Where the girls don't fuck but happily give BBBJ's and anal...
Shit I have never been, sounds like an untapped resource ...Quote:
Originally Posted by jellyshots
I guarantee most wives know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Raybo
I've seen a few unhappy and unsatisfied wives for secx and hear all about hubby's extra curricular activities and the excuses that are used.
Quote:
Originally Posted by wilisno
Whether I am cheating or not, I only have myself to answer to !!
And so far I can still sleep peaceful at night .............
I like the way you think.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
But the truth is that you will only have yourself to answer to until you get caught.
Then you'll have a lot to answer for and not only to yourself!
But it's all good because you can sleep at night.
Brother A !
I have found the answer to your problems
Date these glamours, and you can spend up big !
And no sex, so its all good !
Girl Power. Converting beauty into a lifestyle.
Monica Danica Thrall, a British model with a significant online presence, including Twitter
She boasts that hapless admirers spend thousands, buying her diamond jewellery and sexy lingerie.
Her dream gifts included a matching Prada bag and purse for £1,120 and an Apple iMac worth £927.30.
Lusty fans were also invited to buy her a bespoke Debeers diamond heart pendant, worth up to £2,000, and a £437 pair of Jimmy Choo heels.
Less minted admirers could splash out a modest £32 on a pair of pink bedsocks or £25 on a dressing gown for her pet pooch.
Sizzling Danica also asked for a whopping £835.50 worth of Creme De La Mer and Dermalogica skincare products to keep her luscious looks in top condition.
And she claims men don’t get a single thing in return for lavishing her with posh presents.
If they’re lucky they might get a thank you Tweet or a chat on Skype – priced at £50 for 10 minutes – provided they don’t talk about sex.
http://i.guim.co.uk/static/w-700/h--...x-Lies-008.jpg
Says one journalist:
I've just bought a gift on the internet for a woman named Danica Thrall.
I got her a DVD of Crossroads – the 2002 film starring Britney Spears
How do I know Danica? Well, I don't really, to be honest, but I went to her official website after seeing her on Sex, Lies and Rinsing Guys (Channel 4)
Danica makes it perfectly clear how it works: I buy her stuff, and in return I get nothing, not even to meet her.
I got her the DVD, and not the Jimmy Choo strappy sandals ($695) or the Apple iMac 21.5 inch desktop computer (£927.40)
Still, even £9.99 is quite a lot to give someone I don't know and almost certainly never will
Actually, I tried to get her a secondhand copy of The Female Eunuch (£1.48) but Amazon wouldn't let me
This book couldnt be posted to Danica's address (PO Box 57994, London W4 4QG, if you'd like to send her something too).
Maybe she's put some kind of filter on, to block out inappropriate gifts.
We see Danica in the film going round a department store.
She's not shopping, though, she's just making a note of things she likes, which then go up on her wish–list, to rinse.
That's what rinsing means – getting stuff for nothing.
http://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-ra...d-rinsing-guys
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...779#post673779
And this is the documentary:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgC9Z3uzPgY
Cheating is about dishonesty. So if you have told your wife or partner, then it's not cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by H3da
No problem to me whether you're cheating or not, just replying to your comment about your idea of what's not cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
"Bb sex can be paid for by both male and females.
Next thing you know your cute innocent wife is being cream pied ..."
Your analogy is interesting
But as we all know, the odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife seeing a male gigolo, masseuse etc is probably 1:100 000
Compared to the odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife just going on Facebook and looking up an old boyfriend - much easier (odds 1:500), or getting to know the tradesman well (odds 1:1000)
These are all arbitary odds, for the point of this discussion
Because if a mans partner/girlfriend/wife was really interesting in seeing 'working men', the man could negotiate a fair agreement so he could see 'working women' as well
And everyone is happy
I like the justification ..... 'its not cheating unless you cum into a condom'! haha
To get around that, do bareback ? ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaylie
I know of a situation where a personal trainer was barebacking a few housewives at the same time.Quote:
Originally Posted by harmony
they were paying for the PT sessions and rewarded with sex while hubby was up to no good with hookers.
He was sending them home leaking.
Interesting story kuntous
I assume that the housewives werent aware that the personal trainer was also fooling around with the other housewives in the training group
I was at the beach the other day, and saw a male personal trainer teaching 3-4 women stretches, where you sit down and raise your arms and legs up
He was holding one ladies hands, and demonstrating how to stretch well
A very good teacher.
Maybe I should update my quoted 'odds'
- - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife going to a male brothel or masseuse, with 'happy ending' (1:10 000)
Odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife getting to know the tradesman well (odds 1:400)
Odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife getting to know a personal trainer well (odds 1:350)
Odds of your partner/girlfriend/wife just going on Facebook and looking up an old boyfriend, or being looked up by an exboyfriend (1:250)
These are all arbitary odds, for the point of this discussion
I have fucked hundreds of married women.
But their hubby was always around; sometimes watching, sometimes wanking, sometimes taking pics or video, sometimes joining in.
Or sometimes they would be fucking my partner if I had one at the time.
Or sometimes they would take some time out and go watch the footy or whatever and just leave us to it
It was all very cordial and civilised.
The concept of cheating didn't even enter into it - it was just good wholesome fun.
It's a transaction. You are paying for a service, so it's not cheating. These women would most likely ignore you if you met them in the real world. They only want your money.
I think you need a an ongoing relationship for it to be considered cheating.
I'm with rooter. The concept of cheating never enters into it and yes, keep the age of consent legal. Not really an issue for me with that. I tend to click with the 24-32 range.
Up until the last few days I have been seeing a sex buddy who has had an on again/off again bf. For her, she considers what she does with me as cheating from kissing all the way to sex. She's tried to justify it in all sorts of different ways and she and I have some very fun and lively discussions about it.
My viewpoint to her was very straightforward. She does what she does with me because it's fun, it's something she's not getting at home. She thinks relationships are flawed to begin with. I believe that there are women out there that you can have a deeply beautiful connection with. Everything else in between is fair game...