Sure man, like you said: some of them are nice :)
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To be honest, I even talked to her about kids. I mean I really want to be a father and have a son one day.
But I guess being a heavy smoker and financially unstable, I don't have much to offer in a marriage relationship in terms of health and financial stability?
I tried to talk to her and her friends but I think people are starting to pity me. :(
As someone who used to work at crown back in the days, uni days.. There is no policies as such where it prevents us to say no when someone actually asks us out.. not a rule where we are not to give out our number.. I did give out my number a couple of time to a customer.. But having said that we have to maintain a good customer service such as small chit chat and eye contact as such.. Anyway you be the judge and good luck..
Update:
Saw her tonight when her table was empty so I walked over to talk. I sat down and we started talking, then some others came over to play. She said something like "oh, now people are coming to play" (meaning she was feeling lazy) and I said "it's alright, I'll play" and she told me not to and to save my money.
We kept talking throughout as the other people played, until her rotation ended and she went on a break.
I'm just wondering if it is a good sign that she asked me NOT to play? I mean, what dealer tells a customer not to play? And what if her supervisors over heard her??
will ask again dude
Just be upfront dude... please.
Next time when you're alone at the table.... say to her 'look at my eyes..... what does it say?..... it says I wanna fuck the shit out of you'.
who knows she might like bad cunts, and not soft cocks.
But the fact is very hard to get a ML or WL go out with you :) ML would be a little bit easier.
From my experience, it all comes back to money with ML's / WL's. Sure, they might go out with you and would have sex with you - but inevitably it comes back to them wanting money. Most of them see us as walking penis's with wallets.. Sure, they are nice about it - but thats what their job entails.
The lady in question is not a WL or ml though !
Well how can I put this ....
If you are both saying ie "all ML & WL" are only interested in money - then you are wrong !!
I have and are "experiencing" multiple exceptions !! :) :)
All girls (ML/ WL or not) have a variety of interests for you to stimulate ...
- humour
- consideration
- each experience of life & love
- appreciation of arts
- appreciation of food
So they have these interests if you have something to offer in these and related stimulus - and no money ever changes hands!
But -- if all you have to offer is money ... well that's all they can take isn't it ..
That's your shortcoming mate not theirs !!
So 5 Star is spot on -- if all you have to contribute between you both is to treat them within the boundary of ML/WL experiences - that is all you get ie being treated like an ATM
But it will be you who squandered the opportunities to expand the basis of interaction not these delightful creatures :)
I used to date WL back in the days!
I rarely used my money on her.
We just enjoyed each other company.
And one day we went to casino, and she won some money, she even wants to share it with me!
Of course I didn't take it.
Outside work they are just a normal girl who need some love and affection!
If you like her ask her again she can only say no. What have you got to loose?
Pride is the sign of a foolish man.
With WL, I have found you can ask her out if you have proven yourself as a regular and that you will treat her nicely.
Small gifts here and there will do the trick too.
I hope your Pride will keep you warm at night and company watching a sunset or looking at the stars together !!
Get real mate - life isn't supposed to be safe it's for living and taking worthwhile risks
So as the saying goes-- "take a spoonful of concrete and harden the fuck up !!"