No one should be laughing at you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Devilex
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No one should be laughing at you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Devilex
Just an update / warning to other punters thinking of seeing girls outside the shops.
After saying I would not do it again, I have been doing it with a 24 year old for the last month. Seeing her in hotels free of charge apart from renting the room. Having meals with her, texting her each day etc
Again, it is now starting to turn against both of us. I have built up feelings for her, she for me but again it cannot go anywhere and it plays too hard on your emotions. I feel jealous when she works and I am not with her, thinking that she is fucking other dudes, she gets jealous when she hears I have punted with other girls or the girls in the shop where she works tell her about their previous sessions with me. When I see her the session gets too emotional for us both.
I thought it would be fun. It is at the start but can't end well. Even if I could be with them and I was not married could I be with a girl that goes off to work and sucks and fucks punters all day. No. The jealousy would kill me.
My advice again. Don't do it. Go to the shops. Fuck. Leave.
Yawn....................
So that is twice now he has warned others not to see WLs outside of the shop, like he does!
WTF Soon he will be telling us not to coerce WLs to do bareback sex ...
This bloke is a machine
WL or not, a woman will ALWAYS have drama & baggage. WL drama is heaver, that's all. If you're willing to put up with it & all that, go for it. To each their own.
Don't come down too hard on PM2, he is only trying to impart some of his wisdom learned the hard way! Sad thing is that even though we have been warned some of us will make the same mistake by fooling ourselves into thinking it will be different for us only to find out that he was giving good advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
Yeah not nice laughing . Was in same situation yrs ago late 90's and it was moreQuote:
Originally Posted by Devilex
simple times. Pre 9/11 and no social media presence. However so called friends
can just be as thoughtless. When i started to get serious with a WL relationship i was told
i was crazy , insane am i on drugs and you will bring discredit to your family. Years later
these so called critic's or arm chair experts when they ask me why i ain't married
tell them i shouldn't have listened to you and that shuts them up.
Everybody different though and every situation should though be taken on a case by case
basis and with caution. :D
I just read that other thread, I don't really see anyone laughing at you. If anything it was more showing concern :/Quote:
Originally Posted by Devilex
So did you end up getting a divorce or are you still living with your wife? and is your ml in another state still?
You got to have some sympathy towards the WLs, as some of them got into the industry as a desperation to pay off debt, etc. Not all are gold diggers.
ML in another state, still living with wife no divorce.Quote:
Originally Posted by harrycd
Didn't realise so many people were having this issue. Think its just a spur of the moment thing where when you first see them it feels exciting and what not. Then after a few weeks reality hits you and it starts going south.
Yes i have . Many men like to have their man cave but i have seen many private
BDSM mistress whose dungeon is really extravagant and they have spared no
expense. I mean everybody has their hobby and yes i collect whips and use to
have a massive BDSM dvd collection though now i usually just download them now.
Still i am always looking out for the latest fad to be punished by and if you have
any tips why not share it ?
User name checks out
I see one recently. Originally said x amount per hour but we ended up just chilling and cuddling and fucking again but i couldnt come the second time. ended up staying in total like 2.5-3 hours. Not sure if I should tip extra or not but she seemed cool and didn't usher or hint for me to go out. definitely want to visit her again and she said to msg her whenever...
this girl probably gives the best bj ive had in a looooong time. probably at top of my list along with saki and strawberry from ginza.
There's nothing wrong with seeing a girl at her place. It's convenient (straight after work), cheaper, more comfortable (not rushed and no one around) and sometimes the girl is not a clock watcher which means you can stay longer without worrying about time.
I had one experience where the girl invited me to her unit which she shared with another flatmate. The problem was that there was only one bedroom and both girls slept in the same bedroom with an adjourning ensuite (bathroom). We would stay in the bedroom for a few hours (even though the original plan was just for one hour) where we enjoyed each other's company, had some wine together and made out. Then her flatmate would come in and get really cranky because she needed to use the bathroom. She didn't want to walk in and access the toilet while we were in the bedroom together. One time when I was leaving she told me she wanted to kick me out, however her friend told me not to worry about it. She had to pee badly and that's why she made this remark to me. Later, I saw her on the street and she said hello. We are on good terms.
Mate, I think the flat mate also likes you. Time to try for the girl & flatmate threesome. Let us know how it goes.:miao:Quote:
Originally Posted by cuteguy
Did bring it up but the girl who invited me back to her place made it clear that she was not into threesomes. :cry:Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackToad