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I know. I mentioned that I can't expect him to change his behaviour in an earlier reply. I still hoped that information and peace of mind might get him to take some basic action.
It's possible to let comments about BBFS slide, but the more that happens, the more normal or accepted it might seem. I don't want to see that occur, hence why I'm making a little effort. Infection rates are already on the rise because of similar attitudes, which is concerning.
You might not care about him, but what about the ladies he sees? What about the other people who see the ladies after him? The thing with Russian roulette is it's only meant to be dangerous to those who choose to take part. Punterman's behaviour is like putting more rounds in the cylinder and aiming it at others who aren't playing.
I always ask the WL to put on a hardhat, goggles and hi viz before placing a rubber on my lil fella. Workplace safety is no joke.
I wished everyone had the same attitude, but that's not realistically achievable. The best we can hope for is increasing awareness through education and a change in culture.
We're very close to gonorrhoea being immune to every effective antibiotic. There's only 2 left and we have to use them both simultaneously when treating gonorrhoea to buy us more time to find something else (it might not be enough). Attitudes should change rather quickly if we get to that point.
There's no doubt you're right in thinking we're bashing our heads against a brick wall here. He might have to learn the hard way: by impairing his health at worst, or dissolving his marriage at best. I would've mentioned these things affecting others, but that doesn't appear to concern him. The only way someone like this has a hope of changing is if they suffer direct repercussions.
Thanks Dr Chips,
For all your good advices here and elsewhere !
I think bbfs must be taken very seriously and I think it's not something the forum and all the responsible shop owners would tolerate in general.
But very unfortunately and the sad reality is that there are punters who are actively out there looking and hunting for this kind of unsafe services and they either don't care or worst still , happily spreading things around if you know what I mean !
Let's all be very careful out there !
Cheers
Ps. I don't know about you guys, if I ever hear winds about any WLs or MLs who would offer bbfs, I stay the hell away immediately!
I mostly see privates and when booking ask how much extra for bbfs. If they reply with a number I do not visit them. It is reasonable to assume that even girls who do not offer in this manner will do it at times, however if anyone can just pony up $50 extra.. no thanks.
You're welcome, AHLUNGOR. Thank you for your kind words.
There is hope for those who may be ignorant to the risks involved. Those are the ones whose attitudes might be changed, one way or another. The people who knowingly spread infection, well… there are a few choice words for them.
In regards to BBFS being on offer, our reactions are identical. My reaction is the same if I discover drugs, particularly IV drugs, are used by a WL; risks of HIV and hep C skyrocket immediately.
Unfortunately, viruses and bacteria don't respond to bribery.
They could charge as much as they want for BBFS, it doesn't matter. Wealthy people have STIs too.
Punterman, I too was addicted to bbfs for a while. Actively went looking for it. But after a while, I developed a way to fight it. Here's how I did it:
- get yourself some Japanese 0.01 condoms. There's a Japanese make up shop on George Street in the city that used to stock them, not sure if they still do.
- switch to rnt only for a while
- limit your fs punts. I think I started having the urge for bbfs when I was doing fs too often. Something like 4 times a week I would get some. This was during the hey days of Moc. It got to the point where I couldn't stay aroused and hard enough for good sex. I was just too jaded, seen all of them done all of them. No girl was hot enough to get me going! Cutting down was the best thing I did fort myself! Good luck buddy. To all the other forum members, stop lecturing him like a parent to a child. Not gonna help.