Dating a ML !

You met her on Tinder, just bang her.
Don't take it too seriously mate.

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Originally Posted by Rickyon

She's early 20s (as am I) and living by herself, still in university but she didn't want to talk about her work.

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You guys are still puppies. Charmed I'm sure. :red_heart:

Not cheating. It's her job, you knew what you were getting when you signed up so...?

why ask these dumb guys. ask your cock!

you guys are so skeptical! this sounds so cute to me!
there's a still hope, my ex offered me 0 money when he wanted me to quit, though, I still quit because he just wanted so ~ :T
but now I'm getting inked on my thigh, says "I HATE OOOO" ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

anyway... what was the question

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Is it normal for me to be a bit possessive?

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It's super normal, who on the earth wants to share his girlfriend with others.

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is it a bit selfish to ask her to stop working

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fuck yeah it's selfish now I'm thinking that, my ex wanted me to quit because He wanted so, not because of my bright better future, but anyway now I'm like happier than before so I can't blame him much.. if she has a goal, (let's say graduate uni by herself?) and you can't support her, then.... let her go.
don't stop her unless you'll sign the contract that says "you and her never break up until both die"

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in return i'd stop punting? Because it feels like we're cheating on each other.

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means you're still punting? because you know that she's ML? oh?????wtf? what?

Dating a WL can be a different exp for everybody. Most date for fun and no strings
attached. I dated a few when younger however one stood out and grew strongly
attached to. Yes looks and wonderful sex initially then i realized we had many
common interests and could talk about anything . We even started talking about
a future together but being young and shallow i was hesitant to introduce her to
family. After a lot of heartbreak she ended up going back to Korea and though
we promised to keep in touch we never did.
Do i have regret ? Yes i have never met a girl like her since and i wonder how
things would have been different if we married or is everybody destiny
set out for them ?

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Originally Posted by insanekicker

Good on you, "rich people" don't need to punt. To put your salary into perspective, 300k pa is nothing. Cristiano Ronaldo - just his base wages is 300k. Euros. Per week.
Punterman2 modesty is a virtue. It goes a long way in life.

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So does envy. For example, it makes you want to post garbage on a forum to take down someone you envy.

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Originally Posted by Rickyon

The problem is i'm not sure if I'm going to continue this relationship. It's been 3 months with her. I'm still punting and she's still giving guys extras.
Is it normal for me to be a bit possessive? is it a bit selfish to ask her to stop working and in return i'd stop punting? Because it feels like we're cheating on each other.

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I'm struggling to correlate between her quitting her job and you stopping punting. One is her source of income, the other is your source of enjoyment, how do you replace one with the other?

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Originally Posted by Rickyon

Before I start, I'd like to just state I would never ever reveal the identity of the woman in this story. She's mine haha.



So about a month ago I was on tinder doing my usual swipe lefts and rights when this gorgeous girl came up and super liked her straight away. She was way younger than me and still in university. She swiped right back, we ended up talking, we went on a date and I got to know her a bit better. She's early 20s (as am I) and living by herself, still in university but she didn't want to talk about her work. Eventually I went back to her place and we had a good session (It's nice to take a break from punting every now and again and get a freebie haha).

We started talking again and I found out that she works as a ML. She told me which shop and her nickname and she actually has a few reviews in the after reports section! Turns out she was quite popular. I actually regret not posting more during my lurking days so I can see the ML section and probably see more. Honestly it's a bit of a turn on knowing that I get to bed her where as many other guys have only fantasized about it.

The problem is i'm not sure if I'm going to continue this relationship. It's been 3 months with her. I'm still punting and she's still giving guys extras.

Is it normal for me to be a bit possessive? is it a bit selfish to ask her to stop working and in return i'd stop punting? Because it feels like we're cheating on each other.

I guess I'm posting this here because I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are haha.

Oh relationships can be so weird sometimes.

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My experience is in this thread. Not dating but seeing outside of work and fucking.

I have decided not to do it again

http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.ph...heir-own-homes

Punterman2, to be fair, you aren't single - you are married and all. So you are tied with responsibilities and your opinions would not be the same as that of an unmarried guy. Yet, your opinions are valued.

Now, below is not directed at any forum members.

Single guys dating single MLs, is more a social norm, with the obvious exception - her work. And so it then depends on how committed both are in the relationship. Some people do meet in unusual circumstances.

Whilst, there is Probably a higher chance that the relationship with a ML (can't speak for WL) won't work out long term, sadly, there is no guarantee a relationship with a non-ML will work out either. I mean heck, what is the divorce rate in Au?

I have had my share of punting - the rnts and more. I don't say I am proud of the more stuff, but to me it felt like a necessity at the time, yet a learning experience on life - I don't endorse going to brothels but I can understand. And then to be fair too, going out dating girls (non MLs and WLs) with the Intent to have pleasure with them, and then later dumping them, is arguably more a dog thing to do. Like how common you see couples on the streets and you kinda wonder, girl are you sure he is not using you?

Any update Rickyon on your story ?

What's the latest development in this love story? Is there a happy ending? :question: