Falling for a WL. What do you do?

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28-08-2018, 10:17 PM
traveller1

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Originally Posted by cleetusvandamme

A Chinese girl asked me if I’d marry her friend for $150,000 a couple of years ago.

Was enough to think about it for a minute.

I was seriously considering sponsor a girl recently then I found out she was going out and sleeping with another guy argh!!!. Be careful, these girls get to meet and know many guys at work and outside environment.
28-08-2018, 10:19 PM
b00bs

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Originally Posted by LookingForTheOne

Why would you need to have money to sponsor them. If They want to stay in the country, they should pay you. I got offered $40k to sponsor a Vietnamese Massage Girl that worked in Sydney 3 months ago which I turned down being already married. She told me some girls are willing to paying upto $100k.

The downside is all of the above. She is only a massage girl but they have sex too in the right situation and feelings are the same.

You sponsor them, or they pay you for a green card. Same same. All im saying is money talks. Some of the boys here are turning down 40k to 150k. So imagine what a top earning WL is turning down.....
28-08-2018, 11:19 PM
tan30

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Originally Posted by beta101

lol give the kid a break. puppy love is cute lol

What he needs is tough love and a massive dose of another wl
29-08-2018, 12:29 AM
beta101

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Originally Posted by tan30

What he needs is tough love and a massive dose of another wl

You are right of course. But his probably getting ultra gfe from someone he likes. Not so easy to get the same high from another wl.

Source: not myself lol
29-08-2018, 12:51 AM
beta101

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Originally Posted by sombra

If it is Lily, FYI I have been fucking the shit out of her and I have a pretty huge cock as well. What's great about her is she can take the whole thing no issues.

Don't know if that helps or not.

Lol. Depends. Are u Indian n did u get dd from her?
29-08-2018, 01:52 AM
Effindahead

I am actually on the same boat as OP. Been seeing the WL for few months. Texting everyday like a couple and we know we like each other, we even said so. I know this is classic, every WL would say so. We went out once after a session, she told her boss that she is hungry and need an hour break then she asked me if i want to go for dinner and so we did. Ive been doing it raw for the last 3 meetings in a span of 2 weeks with her, asked her why? She initially said cos i wanted but then admitted by saying cos she likes me. I know that is stupid but man Come What May!
I still have doubts, questions in my mind but it is what it is, time will tell, heart may break, i may regret it later but thats consequences of tryna find the right one.
I don't see a WL like most people do. They are like us, have feelings. They sleep with different guys everyday so did millions of girls out there. You never know. Prolly the difference is not as much as WLs. You can date or have relationship with "normal girl" but if you like any WL or starts develop feelings towards her, why don't u go for it? If you are meant to be with the person then you will be.

At the end of the day, most of you may had bad experience with WLs but that does not mean one cannot have a better experience does it?

If you wanna know the girl, here is the clue
She used to work at 5star, moved to an agency then recently moved to another one. Some people say shes no longer working but she still does. She is Korean, late 20s, long dyed brownish hair with limited English.

I will update you guys on how I go with her...
29-08-2018, 02:09 AM
vitamin

I already know what i have to do
I didn't mean for the post to become so personal, and about me.

I was simply asking what you guys did when you start to get feelings.
29-08-2018, 07:01 AM
Riff888

I personally believe it can work but can you handle that she's probably slept with thousands of men?

It takes great maturity to let that go.

Then take her away from Sydney if possible and open a cafe. This seems to be a working formula.
29-08-2018, 07:06 AM
beta101

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Originally Posted by Effindahead

I am actually on the same boat as OP. Been seeing the WL for few months. Texting everyday like a couple and we know we like each other, we even said so. I know this is classic, every WL would say so. We went out once after a session, she told her boss that she is hungry and need an hour break then she asked me if i want to go for dinner and so we did. Ive been doing it raw for the last 3 meetings in a span of 2 weeks with her, asked her why? She initially said cos i wanted but then admitted by saying cos she likes me. I know that is stupid but man Come What May!
I still have doubts, questions in my mind but it is what it is, time will tell, heart may break, i may regret it later but thats consequences of tryna find the right one.
I don't see a WL like most people do. They are like us, have feelings. They sleep with different guys everyday so did millions of girls out there. You never know. Prolly the difference is not as much as WLs. You can date or have relationship with "normal girl" but if you like any WL or starts develop feelings towards her, why don't u go for it? If you are meant to be with the person then you will be.

At the end of the day, most of you may had bad experience with WLs but that does not mean one cannot have a better experience does it?

If you wanna know the girl, here is the clue
She used to work at 5star, moved to an agency then recently moved to another one. Some people say shes no longer working but she still does. She is Korean, late 20s, long dyed brownish hair with limited English.

I will update you guys on how I go with her...

Milan? She is top quality well done. Respect!
29-08-2018, 12:01 PM
woods23

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Originally Posted by beta101

Milan? She is top quality well done. Respect!

That's the biggest busllhit I had ever heard.
29-08-2018, 12:32 PM
xboyx

just go for her mate, it's an experience and good memory to keep
in a few months or a year time you may end up breaking up with her but you'll have all the fun and good memories to keep. bad things could happen but it's part of life, just always stay in control and don't lose tons of money on her

KEEP IT UNDER CONTROL while having the fun and the excitement. Life is not fun if everyone just plays safe.

PS: btw name her and name the shop, let us help you LOL
29-08-2018, 02:46 PM
vitamin

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Originally Posted by Effindahead

I am actually on the same boat as OP. Been seeing the WL for few months. Texting everyday like a couple and we know we like each other, we even said so. I know this is classic, every WL would say so. We went out once after a session, she told her boss that she is hungry and need an hour break then she asked me if i want to go for dinner and so we did. Ive been doing it raw for the last 3 meetings in a span of 2 weeks with her, asked her why? She initially said cos i wanted but then admitted by saying cos she likes me. I know that is stupid but man Come What May!
I still have doubts, questions in my mind but it is what it is, time will tell, heart may break, i may regret it later but thats consequences of tryna find the right one.
I don't see a WL like most people do. They are like us, have feelings. They sleep with different guys everyday so did millions of girls out there. You never know. Prolly the difference is not as much as WLs. You can date or have relationship with "normal girl" but if you like any WL or starts develop feelings towards her, why don't u go for it? If you are meant to be with the person then you will be.

At the end of the day, most of you may had bad experience with WLs but that does not mean one cannot have a better experience does it?

Thanks for sharing.

So do you ever see her outside of the shop apart from that 1 dinner?
as in go on dates etc?
29-08-2018, 03:04 PM
juknov

OP mentioned he has feelings. We all do.

But discussing feelings in punting is like discussing skiing in Africa. The two do not go together
30-08-2018, 12:03 AM
Effindahead

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Originally Posted by vitamin

Thanks for sharing.

So do you ever see her outside of the shop apart from that 1 dinner?
as in go on dates etc?

Not yet but we will. It is not as smooth as it seems. I have asked 6 times but she always had excuses, not that she lied but shes truly couldnt go.
I met her today, overall she told me she doesnt believe me..yet. fair enough cos i met her at the place a couple would never imagine lol
She told me she puts me in her diary. I found this out cos i told her weve been knowing each other for 2 months but she said it is only a month lol and she told non wl friend about me too. We exchange photos, not just ours but our relatives too.
Shes quite sincere which I like and I always told her not to lie and emphasize it in a way that it is ok to tell the truth
So far we are at the stage of liking each other, we know we need more time.
30-08-2018, 12:05 AM
Effindahead

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Originally Posted by icecool

It might be true as 5star said Milan is no longer working as she is getting married

But not to me lol
30-08-2018, 12:11 AM
Effindahead

OP needs to listen to "Solve My Mystery by Oasis/Noel Gallagher" and pay attention to the lyrics. Thatd help
30-08-2018, 03:56 AM
vitamin

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Originally Posted by Effindahead

OP needs to listen to "Solve My Mystery by Oasis/Noel Gallagher" and pay attention to the lyrics. Thatd help

I'm in limbo. Gonna take a break. and Sleep on it.
Not do anything for the time being.

No matter how i look at it. She's WL, the odds are very slim of anything good coming from it.
30-08-2018, 10:53 AM
Weapon

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Originally Posted by Effindahead

Not yet but we will. It is not as smooth as it seems. I have asked 6 times but she always had excuses, not that she lied but shes truly couldnt go.

What are some of these excuses? I probably would have stopped asking after the 3rd time, if i was really keen to waste a few years of my life.
30-08-2018, 11:17 AM
Jactivate

Some WLs I've seen outside of shops only really want you for Permanent Residency. Haha!
30-08-2018, 01:51 PM
Effindahead

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Originally Posted by icecool

Oh that’s bad luck . I think you’ll be more happier with her . What her plan , continues to be a WL all her life or only doing it to paid for school fee ect . There was a WL in 5 Star was only doing it to paid for her uni fees . Once she had enough she quit being a WL and went on to career.

With who? Milan? How is she? Never meet her before. And yeah, the girl said she will quit next year.
30-08-2018, 02:09 PM
Effindahead

Well i always ask her to go out on weekend. She works 5 days a week, first one was she said she needs to find a new place which she will move to in two weeks time, 2nd we were about to meet up in city but last minute she cancelled it cos her friend brought her food - this one is quite lame, 3rd she was sick for a week, 4th or 5th i cant recall and 6th for her bday, she said she had a plan with her friend
30-08-2018, 04:25 PM
Weapon

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Originally Posted by Effindahead

Well i always ask her to go out on weekend. She works 5 days a week, first one was she said she needs to find a new place which she will move to in two weeks time, 2nd we were about to meet up in city but last minute she cancelled it cos her friend brought her food - this one is quite lame, 3rd she was sick for a week, 4th or 5th i cant recall and 6th for her bday, she said she had a plan with her friend

No JOY hey? Update us.
30-08-2018, 07:54 PM
juknov

Excuses..
If she liked you she would not have excuses
If she liked you she would contact you and arrange to meet up
When women make excuses its because they dont value you, they rely on you to read between the lines and realise they dont want to see you
30-08-2018, 10:30 PM
CunningLinguist

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Originally Posted by juknov

Excuses..
If she liked you she would not have excuses
If she liked you she would contact you and arrange to meet up
When women make excuses its because they dont value you, they rely on you to read between the lines and realise they dont want to see you

Thats right. If you plan something with them then they want to break the plan because something just came up then it means they don't give a rats arse about you and you are just the backup plan if they have nothing better to do.
30-08-2018, 10:36 PM
juknov

Women often find it hard to say to a man, "Im not interested", or "I have better options"

If you plan something with them and they break the plan, 99 times out of 100 they have other priorities - either another date, or family committments.

A women who likes your company will contact you again to make up for the lost date

The problem with men they act like they have to chase, when in fact chasing often gets you nowhere

Someone else here say it right:

Be the buyer not the seller

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