Easy way to avoid trouble when you want to see someone and in a relationship
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Easy way to avoid trouble when you want to see someone and in a relationship
I've never had trouble picking up really good sorts at clubs, bars and restaurants. I have a pretty good strike rate with the Asian ladies. I am relatively good looking for a wog and I do have a bit of coin behind me which I do not flaunt. However I do seem to struggle in getting the same level of interest from girls in the massage space. Not sure how to interpret this.
Long story short...the times when girl I liked and I were single and available never really matched...and never been able to find love now that she's married. The WL visits keep my needs fulfilled I guess
Possibly the girls enjoy seeing the handsome guys more, give better service, and hence these guys can't resist more...
For me punting gives decent sex consistently without all the games and wining and dining, sure you can take you time more not paying for it, but WL generally give great service if not tired etc etc.
Punting is just easier in terms of satisfying yourself and not having any baggage after
For me, I lack the social skills, but I wouldn’t classify myself as handsome, even with a 6 pack. Of Nuggets
Not sure if I’d call myself handsome. Good looking enough perhaps. I punt because it’s fun. And I like the illicit thrill and variety.
Growing up had a sporty body, blonde hair blue eyes athletic build. I would not say I am handsome but had enough women to know I was getting more than the average guy. Also had jobs where came into contact with lots of females think gyms, lifeguard etc.
My old man was into sex in a big way and I think I must have inheritted some of his genes - dur.
Also I was introduced to sex at a very very early age - not abused but led astray by girls usually a little older who knew much more than they should have at that age.
If you ask me punting is in a man's DNA - go foth and multiply - and once you get a taste well you know the rest.
I actually think now I'm older it would have been better to be less exposed to sex and actually have less experiences. For me if a girl grabs my cock its ho hum.
I was no stud but if it was on offer its hard to say no. People will repeat pleasureable experiences. Agree with ego arguement too. Punting is a way of feeding our masculine insecurities and makes us think we are lord and master.
Why do guys punt - why can't people stop eating pringles - handsome or otherwise.
Well punting is like cardio day for me. I prefer buying an hour of fun and sweat like a pig than going on a treadmill in a gym.
Also handsome man is still a man. We get excited to do a stranger who is paid to serve instead of serving the other half at home.
The only downside is punting requires a condom which feels different but what can you do lol.
I had fwb while having a partner but things are just too complicated to handle and the emotional stress is no good. Punting is no strings attached and you get to choose
Getting rejected by uglier girls and some demand a lot of things. I agree to the comments above, mind you that I am in my early 30s, started like 7 years ago.
No strings attached, both parties know what to expect, multiple options, convenient time
Also, it is safer for men with the current #MeToo and other anti-men views around
A factor for me is time picking up someone takes time, it rarely works like in movies I buy a drink for them wink wink we go back to my place. I don't remember who said it but you paid for sex for the sex part but for them to leave afterwards.
easier and cheaper for a punt then the process through apps and dinner etc etc
That's why we should have a system like in Thailand, Phil's etc - a venue where you go to meet girls, they go to pick up guys, everyone knows why they are there. Cut out this BS.
Beach Club in Kl used to be like that - a club for one reason and if you were white and ok looking you'd have 20/30 sweet Viet girls front you, sometimes even fight over you.
Well that's how it used to be in 2014. Alas now no BC.
4FoW2
I don’t pay them to come over; I pay them to go away.
I don’t pay them for carnal encounters. I pay them to leave.
You don’t pay a call girl to do what she does. You pay her to leave afterward.
less effor than dating, and financially probs more worth than giving gifts and dining out every now and then lol. And you get to see and touch all different kinds of girls from diff backgrounds.
Still can't get over the break up with my ex more than 2 years ago. Can't move on but too lonely, esp with the lockdown so I'm just looking for some physical connection, a bit of curdling/touching
Not much into the body fluid exchange though, I'm very horny most of the time but just don't enjoy sex without the connection
Getting a FWB rarely ends well. With a punt, it's just a no strings attached, you both get what you want and you go...
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agree, definitely for convinience. even hollywood stars pay for sex.
I would hardly say im the most attractive man on earth but i do remain fit and like to take care of myself. Its definatley easyish for me to come by sex with dates and sex from friends and I usually fuck 2-3 girls concurrently at work and parties most of the time but i dont like the effort and BS associated with dating or clubbing to obtain sex. Not to mention the insane cost of associated with going out for dates or clubbing in the hopes of sex.
In my head i also would rather save the money and blow it on myself as a treat. Heres how i do the math in my head for dating and why i prefer punting even as a reasonably attractive man:
Typically most girls generally dont fuck on the first date unless your dealing with a more slutty girl. But im speaking more so professional women with careers etc. Usually speaking from my experience most girls will kiss but sex isnt on the table at least for 2-4 dates.
Each one of these dates isnt free, its costs money. You start off with getting ready for the date. Usually if punt, i have a shower i pop on a hoodie, some footy shorts, a little deoderant and spend $3 on the train getting to the brothel. I walk in, unload and leave. But if have to get ready for a date, i have to generally drive which means $10 in petrol, the tread on my tires etc. Then you pick up the girl and get some drinks. Generally speaking girls will get you to cover the bill but sharing also works. Lets say you buy 3 rounds of drinks = 6 drinks total. If each drink is $10 thats $30 you spent on yourself and potentially another $30 for her, not to mention you didnt even get to get drunk and you harmed your body for no reason. Add in paying for dinner thats around $50 and youve already racked up close to $100 for that date. Multiply that by 2 and your looking at a quarter grand just to have mediocre sex once!
The alternative math is for clubbing/bars:
Lets say you start pre-drinking with your friends, Lets say you only bring a six pack of pre-mix drinks + a couple of extras, Thats around 30 dollars. Then because every is so drunk you all share an uber to the club. If you take an uber to the city alteast for me that $40 and if thers 4 friends that $10 a person. Then if you want to go to mainstream club like IVY in sydney your looking at $10-$30 minimum to enter.
Then you start by buying a couple drinks for your self and each drink in a club is at least $15. Thats $30 just for you. Then if you try and chat up a girl shes not gonna leave the club without a couple drinks, add an extra 30 right there from your wallet. If you split an uber with her back to your place thats $20 give or take. Add all that up your looking at around $120 mimimum for a big night out. And all of that and you may still not even fuck.
The last thing i'd also add in about going for a punt even though you can pick up girls is that punting releives that urge and desparation to fuck. Women love to be the gate-keepers of sex and hate desperation!
If i punt more often i'm less likely to try extra hard to get a woman and therefore the demand vs supply for sex equals out because i dont need a woman to have sex with me, i can just punt instead
So everyone “pays”
If you are a bit disillusioned you could use tray but it’s pretty individual
I’d say convenience and ease - a brother cut out the bullshit but done enjoy that part of it
What about Ugly guys why do you punt, because money makes me more handsome for an hour.
God made man, money made them equalQuote:
Originally Posted by suckitbaby
I think some guys do it for the thrill
I am just as lazy as the next guy and prefer to pay a fee for someone who is supposed to know what they're doing. This becomes more relevant as you get older of course. Anyway, being a half decent looking dude doesn't make that much difference. Sometimes it actually has a negative effect. You get rejected because they think you are going to be a hard job so they take the ordinary looking dude instead because they think he will probably cum easier and have lower expectations.