Falling in love with WLs

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30-11-2020, 09:08 AM
warwick1

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Originally Posted by liminal

Awww. Sad story bro which high class parlour was this

"High class parlour" , classic oxymoron....................
30-11-2020, 09:22 AM
manjuice333

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Originally Posted by aussiegaigin

Many guys have this problem with women who aren't MLs or WLs.

This too I know as I’m also married, which is why it didn’t end too well for me hahaha but that is another story..
30-11-2020, 10:30 AM
AHLUNGOR

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Originally Posted by Andrewwoody

I "saw" a fairly high class ML for about 7 months. We met through mutual friends, had a brief fling but then she never returned my messages (I am married, which she knew). Then bumped into her about six months later when she had just started working as a ML, and she suggested we met at the parlour to be discreet. We did this for about 5 months, each time spending a few hours at the parlour, drinking wine, having dinner and eventually a massage, which after a couple of bookings turned into much more. It was the most expensive date in Sydney, but I enjoyed it and could afford it.

These experiences were interspersed with some genuine dates and I never really knew whether she was genuinely interested or just wanted a regular source of cash. There was never any chance of it becoming a serious relationship - there was a 16 year age different - but it made me feel unbelievably alive. One day I told her I loved her and she went absolutely mental, and later blocked my number. I've not seen her since. I've not been back to the parlour since then either.

The whole experience probably cost me $15-20k. I'm sure her motives were almost entirely financial, but I had a lot of fun, and in the end it's only money.

I'm a bit wiser now, and would not do something like it again, but have no regrets.

So, it’s a bit like a sugar daddy case, if you can afford it, and it didn’t ruin your marriage, and made you feel great and Alive ! Why not !

Good on you !

Cheers
01-12-2020, 10:17 AM
krnboy

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Originally Posted by Sneaky castro

I do not have a problem falling in love with WL. I don't really understand this. I thought the point of going to a parlour was to leave your emotions behind and just fuck like rabbits and leave. No strings attached.

Some people can be emotionally unstable and can fall in love easily.
01-12-2020, 11:17 AM
manjuice333

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Originally Posted by krnboy

Some people can be emotionally unstable and can fall in love easily.

It’s happening to me right now.. Damn Jap girls got me again!!
01-12-2020, 02:27 PM
Labia Vortex

When I become a little too comfortable with a WL I know it's the beginning of an Alice down the rabbit hole experience and I back off
Too complicated....I want/ need simple in my life
01-12-2020, 02:29 PM
rooter

Falling in love is not a problem, as long as you can fall out of love.
01-12-2020, 02:43 PM
Raybo

I love them all, then time is up, I leave and life returns to normal.
01-12-2020, 03:11 PM
cato

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Originally Posted by Ads890

Just found out my On/Off Thai Gf for the better part
of 4yrs has been Offering much more than just
Therapeutic massages to customers. Strangely Im
the Cunt for accuse her do - quoting her own words -
shit work like that.
So present her with 3 photos recently advertised in
Sydney. After 4 years be very intimate with this girl
even with face covered or blurred in 1/3 photos.
Her birthday suit alone is enough for positive id.
The other 2/3 photos are clear face photos and no
attempt to hide her identity but still she strongly
denies any wrong doing.
And I agree.. if this is what she wants to do and she
do so safely. Go for it Sweetheart.
Im sure I'm not the 1st and definitely won't be the
last guy to fall head over heels with WL claiming
only to be ML...BUT .. with all the lies told to family
back in Thailand or friends, bfs or even husbands.

Honesty and respect is key people.
Treat all people. The same way you wish to be treated.

Can I ask: when you say 'therapeutic massages to customers' do you mean she used to work in a totally legit massage shop, or were there happy endings involved?
01-12-2020, 03:12 PM
rooter

I think I will add a new stanza to my classic mantra.
Pay. Fuck. Love. Leave.
01-12-2020, 08:16 PM
asiafever

https://youtu.be/r8MhDEOswo8

Be like Tommy here.
01-12-2020, 08:28 PM
asiafever

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Originally Posted by manjuice333

It’s happening to me right now.. Damn Jap girls got me again!!

Duuuuude.
No.
Say it ain't so.
I thought you got out.
You were my beacon of hope. I've been holding strong thinking "My man manjuice can do It, so can I!"
Now I see this, and within 20 minutes I'm looking to book privates while texting the 22 year old ex and wanting to message a certain Viet massage establishment....
I'm in relapse!

But yeah, Jap girls will do that to you...
01-12-2020, 10:08 PM
woods23

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Originally Posted by krnboy

Some people can be emotionally unstable and can fall in love easily.

Yep. I Once I saw this girl she was extremely cute nd gfe. 20mins later I told her " I'm in love with you " she just laughs thinking I'm lying but I wasn't ;)
01-12-2020, 10:41 PM
sporty32

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Which shop and which girl? I'll go talk some sense into her for you.

Ouch !!! that was a low blow !!!
02-12-2020, 10:00 AM
manjuice333

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Originally Posted by asiafever

Duuuuude.
No.
Say it ain't so.
I thought you got out.
You were my beacon of hope. I've been holding strong thinking "My man manjuice can do It, so can I!"
Now I see this, and within 20 minutes I'm looking to book privates while texting the 22 year old ex and wanting to message a certain Viet massage establishment....
I'm in relapse!

But yeah, Jap girls will do that to you...

lol mate, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak! Just when I thought I was out they pull me back in.

If I'm a beacon of anything it is sexual addiction and despair, not hope. Did I say that out loud..?

lol relapse indeed! I wanted to check out this Jap girl and got hooked after the first visit.
04-12-2020, 10:02 AM
asiafever

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Originally Posted by manjuice333

lol mate, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak! Just when I thought I was out they pull me back in.

If I'm a beacon of anything it is sexual addiction and despair, not hope. Did I say that out loud..?

lol relapse indeed! I wanted to check out this Jap girl and got hooked after the first visit.

I can't blame you, I have the self restraint of an untrained labradoodle... as well as affectionate as an untrained labradoodle... Which I guess makes me one of those "easy to fall in love with someone" type people... slash labradoodle...
Hence my 2-3 visit policy. It just makes my life easier.
There have been exceptions where I've seen a girl dozens of times and had no thought of anything other than our sessions, but if I've recognised a trend in my behaviour then best not to push it.
04-12-2020, 10:58 AM
manjuice333

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Originally Posted by asiafever

I can't blame you, I have the self restraint of an untrained labradoodle... as well as affectionate as an untrained labradoodle... Which I guess makes me one of those "easy to fall in love with someone" type people... slash labradoodle...
Hence my 2-3 visit policy. It just makes my life easier.
There have been exceptions where I've seen a girl dozens of times and had no thought of anything other than our sessions, but if I've recognised a trend in my behaviour then best not to push it.

lol I’m slipping again, this Jap girl.. I think part of the reason is she reminds me of the last one and the other is I have enjoyed being inside this girl perhaps more than any other I can think of. It’s a powerful drug. I’m truly a ‘crack’ addict.

I know exactly what you mean mate. I’ve had heaps of girls I return to as regulars cause I like my sessions with them, and usually their anatomical structure lol, but there’s no attachment.

Anyway, I’m chasing the new one. She hasn’t said no yet. In fact, she agreed to a date but it’s been hard to pin her down.

I might relent for now.
04-12-2020, 09:04 PM
niva321

I fell really hard for a WL a while back. I question what went on between myself and her but during that time I was a bit depressed and the attention was addicting.

I can say now I have a healthy relationship with a wholesome good girl. And making progress in various areas helped build my confidence and now I think I’d be immune to the charms of a WL chasing me outside the shop.
04-12-2020, 09:34 PM
harrycd

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Originally Posted by asiafever

I can't blame you, I have the self restraint of an untrained labradoodle... as well as affectionate as an untrained labradoodle... Which I guess makes me one of those "easy to fall in love with someone" type people... slash labradoodle...
Hence my 2-3 visit policy. It just makes my life easier.
There have been exceptions where I've seen a girl dozens of times and had no thought of anything other than our sessions, but if I've recognised a trend in my behaviour then best not to push it.

I feel you bro, I was like that with one WL and decided to stop seeing her, now I knew she had 0 feelings for me but I was like a jack russell (fuck labrapoodles). I normally don't feel that way with WL's so this was a one off.
04-12-2020, 10:24 PM
asiafever

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Originally Posted by niva321

I fell really hard for a WL a while back. I question what went on between myself and her but during that time I was a bit depressed and the attention was addicting..

Yes. Exactly. Had a very similar incident. It was pure escapism.
04-12-2020, 10:37 PM
asiafever

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Originally Posted by harrycd

I feel you bro, I was like that with one WL and decided to stop seeing her, now I knew she had 0 feelings for me but I was like a jack russell (fuck labrapoodles). I normally don't feel that way with WL's so this was a one off.

Haha not a fan of labradoodles?
05-12-2020, 05:46 PM
B J Hunter

For 55 mins every session there is no talk or look of love between myself and my girl. But when I reach into my pocket she locks sexeyes with me, she comes up close and touches me in that special way, she’s all bouncy and tells me how much she enjoys my company and tells me to come back again and see her again, she can’t wait. I pull out... a pineapple or 2 and she’s like a lovesick puppy. Ahh the feeling of true love!
06-12-2020, 12:26 AM
Nelly69

Reading this thread is really screwing with my head! I used to think how do you fall in love with a sex worker, they are paid to pleasure a man and how can you feel comfortable when you know they have sucked 100's or 1000's of dicks....

So, I've been seeing a ML outside of bookings for the past few weeks, I've known her on and off for about 5 years and have always had a spark with her. Lately I have gotten to know her personally on some dates which is completely different to the persona she puts on in the shop. I am find her to be sweet and genuine. (I know, I know....) At the moment I can't stop thinking about her and I am sure there is a mutual feeling between us. I see AR pop up on her and my mind just go crazy and pretend its only her job and it doesn't mean anything... I am using all my will power and trying my best not to fall in love, but part of me is saying. fuck lets do it, you haven't had any luck with normal woman (ex wifes)! I have enough money so she can stop working which she doesn't know about. but I don't want her to be with me because of my money...

fuck, I don't know, never thought I would ever be in this position, I am thinking about how am I going to introduce her to my family? what if someone i know was her ex client? How would I deal with that?

So I feel ya! Maybe I need another life, or maybe this Covid thing is really getting to me...
06-12-2020, 08:10 AM
Niceguy11

Even though I have regulars, I don't feel that I am falling in love with them. One example is this WL I have been seeing since 2018. Every time we have sex, its not GFE but always PSE but everything else. Afterwards we hug and talk, have a shower then I'm on my way. I don't know why, but I would never fall in love with her.

On the other hand, this other WL that I was seeing was more honest and truthful with her feelings and for some strange reason, that is the reason why I was attracted to her. Whenever a WL is honest, and I can tell they are being honest, then this makes me more attracted to them in a weird way. Maybe because they are being honest I don't know.
06-12-2020, 10:34 AM
asiafever

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Originally Posted by Nelly69

Reading this thread is really screwing with my head! I used to think how do you fall in love with a sex worker, they are paid to pleasure a man and how can you feel comfortable when you know they have sucked 100's or 1000's of dicks....

So, I've been seeing a ML outside of bookings for the past few weeks, I've known her on and off for about 5 years and have always had a spark with her. Lately I have gotten to know her personally on some dates which is completely different to the persona she puts on in the shop. I am find her to be sweet and genuine. (I know, I know....) At the moment I can't stop thinking about her and I am sure there is a mutual feeling between us. I see AR pop up on her and my mind just go crazy and pretend its only her job and it doesn't mean anything... I am using all my will power and trying my best not to fall in love, but part of me is saying. fuck lets do it, you haven't had any luck with normal woman (ex wifes)! I have enough money so she can stop working which she doesn't know about. but I don't want her to be with me because of my money...

fuck, I don't know, never thought I would ever be in this position, I am thinking about how am I going to introduce her to my family? what if someone i know was her ex client? How would I deal with that?

So I feel ya! Maybe I need another life, or maybe this Covid thing is really getting to me...

Never read reviews. NEVER! Nothing will fuck you up quicker, trust me on this one...

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