Sugar dating

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Originally Posted by rooter

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

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Mate it’s definitely different style of punting. The goal is still to get laid. But costs a lot more also. The girl expect a certain amount. Then the cost of dinner and drinks. This girl I met in Brisbane ordered 2 x cocktails at $20 each and two deserts after dinner. We complain about extras charged by Caucasian girls for DFK or bbbj. Hahah

I was having doubts over the weekend as I could not get a girl to meet me in the day. So I went to 42 Buffalo Road. Booked a Asian girl for 250 had two pops. Taken care of my blue balls but was missing that intimacy I had with the 2 x girls in Qld last week. I regretted the decision.

For some of us who enjoy the chase as well as flirting and then making it out with a decent looking girl. It works. But like punting there are abs ones where you don’t connect or have a cancellation. It’s sucks.

out of date now..

out of date now..

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Originally Posted by hogansheros_breakout

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

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I had the same thing. This girl wanted to order 2 x cocktails as she was not sure which one to have. Then with dessert wanted to try two but did not even touch the second as she was full. But then wanted to gome home early as she was sleepy. I think she would be the proffessional know how to wiggle out. Thanks for sharing guys its normal and the girls try tricks.

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Originally Posted by hogansheros_breakout

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

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Thanks for input! Will be prepared next time!

I do throw the box as well. Moreover I got comment on what I have to buy for next visits as SB like it flavoured and particular about some brands! Hmmmm

out of date now..

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Originally Posted by hogansheros_breakout

the idea of someone buying two cocktails is crap. if the girl doesn't respect money then I move her on. that's why she's fucking guys for money.

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Yes mate but I am new to this and she was my third girl I met. We kept messaging each other before the meeting for week or so. On the day on the meet I am not sure if its true she had to take her cat to vet and she found she had cancer. So I went little easy and hgave in. But what pissed me off is after round one she says she is sleepy and wants to go home. I wil give her a second chance. Next time call her to the hotel and order take away. She is really tall and young.

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

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Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into

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I can't agree more. I always have a pre-meet. Even if it is just drinks at the bar before going upstairs. Although preferably I would have at least a longish evening over dinner and drinks before going to bed. I personally like the dating and seduction aspects of it - so I keep in vague on text about what is coming next - I like to let that unfold on the evening or in the pre-meet

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided

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Beyond the fact that I would like us to get intimate if we both click with each other, I don't push hard on this. Again, I like the journey of discovery and, If I can get them in the right head space, then all the good things follow. I want to open them up sexually and get them to do more than they have done in a long time, not the half arsed stuff they have been doing with their 20yo boyfriends and tinder dates.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option.

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Again depends on what where and how. If punting in your own city yes. When I am interstate I am bringing them back to my corporate hotel and making a big deal of it for them. Dayuse is great because you can cancel up to an hour beforehand.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

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Remember if you talk to them like escorts, that's probably what you will get in return. Some are escorts obviously, but you can weed those out.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms

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Well that's because they are not WLs. And you are the experienced, thoughtful man they thought they would find on SA. Not the tinder date down the road?

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner

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You are spot on here. My time is just as valuable. If not more. I'll be considerate but I don't give people money for chat.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly

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My thoughts are slightly different. I'm probably punting different girls. I like ones who are already working - usually early in their careers and want a bit of fun on the side. I prefer to take them to text or WhatsApp - that is what most normal non-punting / non-SW girls are using. I appreciate WeChat is more commonly used amongst Asian men and women.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

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I'd experiment with some different approaches. I have probably had some of the kinkiest D/s, DDlg, powerplay since I started punting Sugarbabes. Genuine kink is as mental as physical. I find it really depends on where you take their minds.

(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

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Originally Posted by BennyB

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?



Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)


(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

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:) Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

:) Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

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Having good people to do the work helps and I enjoy the topic so I make the time on various forums.

Re returning to the city - having a normal routine should make a big difference. Have a think about how you can build in some time buffers so your wife / partner doesn’t mind if you are not home for dinner each evening.

I'll up this info as it is now out of date....

Well I’ve taken the advice of some on this forum and started to hit up some Asian Sugarbabies. There are some intriguing combinations coming up in search and a range of demands from some girls.

The most interesting have been the Australian born girls of mixed ethnicity - sometimes dual Asian or Asian / Caucasian combinations.

I’ve found these the ones I’m most comfortable with as language is not as much of a barrier and they seem to get my sense of humour.

Reviews will go on a site where reviews are permitted but I’ll try to provide some insights here too.

One thing I can feed back is that the ones who are asking for weekly allowances and high numbers seems to have dependents offshore that they are shipping funds to.

The Australian born and educated ones are mainly hot uni students or working entry level jobs and the pricing is PPM and much much better.

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Originally Posted by BennyB

Well I’ve taken the advice of some on this forum and started to hit up some Asian Sugarbabies. There are some intriguing combinations coming up in search and a range of demands from some girls.

The most interesting have been the Australian born girls of mixed ethnicity - sometimes dual Asian or Asian / Caucasian combinations.

I’ve found these the ones I’m most comfortable with as language is not as much of a barrier and they seem to get my sense of humour.

Reviews will go on a site where reviews are permitted but I’ll try to provide some insights here too.

One thing I can feed back is that the ones who are asking for weekly allowances and high numbers seems to have dependents offshore that they are shipping funds to.

The Australian born and educated ones are mainly hot uni students or working entry level jobs and the pricing is PPM and much much better.

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Nothing's stopping you from putting reviews here mate.

Just putting a girl's username, age and background are not breaking any rules.

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Originally Posted by Riff888

Nothing's stopping you from putting reviews here mate.

Just putting a girl's username, age and background are not breaking any rules.

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You should go back and read my post and the post of the senior members who explicitly counselled against it.

This is open forum. People who are not even members can read this including journalists, lawyers, cops. Even the girls themselves.

If you think that has no consequences then I hope you and Aus99 have excellent lawyers.

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Originally Posted by BennyB

You should go back and read my post and the post of the senior members who explicitly counselled against it.

This is open forum. People who are not even members can read this including journalists, lawyers, cops. Even the girls themselves.

If you think that has no consequences then I hope you and Aus99 have excellent lawyers.

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Fine, put it in the private section.

Girls have been doxxed many times on this site and no one on this forum has been liable.

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I'll up this info as it is now out of date....

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Originally Posted by Riff888

Fine, put it in the private section.

Girls have been doxxed many times on this site and no one on this forum has been liable.

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Good luck with the “no one ever…” defence.

Sugarbabies are not sex workers. But you just identified a number of them as such on a sex worker forum.

I won’t be taking legal advice from you and nor should Aus99.

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Originally Posted by BennyB

Good luck with the “no one ever…” defence.

Sugarbabies are not sex workers. But you just identified a number of them as such on a sex worker forum.

I won’t be taking legal advice from you and nor should Aus99.

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There was a girl recently doxxed on this forum. I know her well. She went to lawyers and the police.

She showed them everything on this forum as evidence.

The police and lawyers said, there's nothing they can do since no threats or nude photos with her face uploaded on this site. There's nothing they could do even though she knows who it was and he made public her phone number and address and posted a private picture.

You must have a law degree as well.

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Originally Posted by hogansheros_breakout

it's against 'his' rules of generating traffic and reviews on his 'hidden' forum. I'll DM you my personal experience on that hinted review forum.

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That's mate, yes it's just a useless site with too many rules and limited access to anything unless you pay subscription fees.

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Originally Posted by Riff888

There was a girl recently doxxed on this forum. I know her well. She went to lawyers and the police.

She showed them everything on this forum as evidence.

The police and lawyers said, there's nothing they can do since no threats or nude photos with her face uploaded on this site. There's nothing they could do even though she knows who it was and he made public her phone number and address and posted a private picture.

You must have a law degree as well.

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For a guy who claims to be in a forensic field you must either be very junior or just not very good at what you do.

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Originally Posted by Riff888

That's mate, yes it's just a useless site with too many rules and limited access to anything unless you pay subscription fees.

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Lots of very happy Sugarbabe punters on there though. And lots of Sydney Sugarbabe reviews the last time I looked.

No fees to pay. The only way you pay is through making a review contribution. Some of the really high up intel requires a subscription - like the Sugarbabe bareback forum. Once I achieved access to that I paid a tiny amount for six months access (a fraction of what it would cost to find and secure a bareback Sugarbabe punt). But you don’t pay for access and you don’t pay to review.

No one - including shop owners who subsidize this site - cares about Sugarbabe reviews on here because it doesn’t add to the income stream.

Re the rules on TNT - well there’s only 3 or 4 rules I think. One of them is not to be an argumentative dickhead. So it probably wouldn’t suit you if you joined up there.

Now who has an Australian born Asian girlfriend who can share some thoughts about cultural differences and how to understand what matters to them?

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Originally Posted by BennyB

Now who has an Australian born Asian girlfriend who can share some thoughts about cultural differences and how to understand what matters to them?

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So from being Caucasian SB only to an Asian SB expert in what, a week, 3 days? You're so super Benny [emoji1787]

Tell them the price son! It's $120 for 5 months access.

Secure a BBFS? These girls are not WLs like you said. They will not offer that to every man.

My first SA experience was BBFS and CIP with a 23 year old Italian girl whom I'm still seeing. I asked a guy called BigJoe or something like that on TNT about her and there was no intel on her at all on TNT.

Plus it's easy to change your username on SA. So you might write a review, the girl then changes her username. So you try to search for that username but it doesn't exist anymore.



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Never said I was an Asian expert at all Riff. I said I was interested in expanding who I punt. For a forensic specialist you struggle with basic comprehension.

There's also no price - Your $120 for five months was a subscription offer for guys in the general forum who did not have any reviews of WLs and wanted to join. Some other member here corrected you about 50 posts back, but Captain Forensic seems to have forgotten it.

I thought you were in another state getting your brains fucked out of you Benny.

But no...your here 24/7 shilling as usual.

You should go on mastermind Benny, your subject can be "I know every fucking thing and anyone who disagrees is a dick"

You and your imaginary lifestyle are legends (in your own mind).