I've had this happen to me with one ML also. Even stupider was I visited her for a second time to do the same thing. Nothing came of it and she is no longer working as far as I knowQuote:
Originally Posted by Shivere
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I've had this happen to me with one ML also. Even stupider was I visited her for a second time to do the same thing. Nothing came of it and she is no longer working as far as I knowQuote:
Originally Posted by Shivere
If I was ranking best punts of all time, a lot of them would fall in this category.
In some cases, the girls might not have a condom or cannot bring any personal items into the room when providing a massage. It could be the case that she asks 'condom' in order to ascertain whether you have a condom available.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4647
Would love to hear a story..Quote:
Originally Posted by Punterjoe
For those who had bareback years ago during the early 80's. On your next regular visit you were told condom is now house policy, how did you react?
I can go back to the 70's and I have said before that a condom was basically an extra charge at times. There was no need to go to shops. Mostly streetwalkers and plenty around the Cross, Palmer and Riley streets. You were sucked or fucked in some of the craziest places. Wild times 👍
does anyone actually have the balls to try tis even during covid times hahaha
big risks vs big rewards?
each to their own.
i wishe evryone happy, safe punting
Covid isn't even the top of my list of things i would be most worry about for BBFS.
You mean you can’t get COVID if you use condom, not BBFS ? ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by the_boss_king
Not sure how a condom will save you from covid, it's airborne..Quote:
Originally Posted by the_boss_king
I started using hookers in the mid 90s, and condom rule was so strict, couldn't even get a WL to lick the shaft and MLs would be careful not to get a drop of cum on their hand.
BBBJ was unheard of. I did have one weird on happen tho, was at Tiffanys and mid sex, a young crazy 18 year old ripped the condom off, sucked me for a minute then put another one on. I asked her why and she said she was horny and wanted to taste my cock.
Strange how quick we forget. Many of us older boys played in the "Aids" era. Mid 80's and with nothing like media or social media screaming things at you, we just continued along doing our thing. We thought the problem belonged to the other team and all was ok. The Grim Reaper changed us all forever. No, Covid worries me at times but it doesn't scare me like aids did. Happy and safe punting to all👍
Was it the Grim Reaper or was it Rock Hudson that changed the entire public perception of AIDS? Before his death, everyone thought it was a disease that only affected gays and druggies. All of a sudden, you have a stud of a movie star, appears to be a straight guy, who's caught the disease and died very quickly.Quote:
Originally Posted by trampslikeus55
So the public went "right you can get it even if you're straight" and started the safe-sex movement.
Now here's the twist. It was only after his death that it was revealed that he was actually gay. But by then, the safe-sex movement was already at full steam, not even this revelation could make the public go back to that old idea that the disease mainly affected gays and druggies. Condom use was here to stay.
My point is, if you're going to do BBFS, you ought to be more worried about all the other STIs than AIDS. The chance of catching those are far more real!
Ha ha ha,
I don’t think there’s a girl or a punter that hasn’t done BB in a shop at some time or other.
Don’t make a habit of it - it’s a numbers game before you get something I suppose - but I think your not an experienced punter, or you’re up tight or inexperienced - if you haven’t accidentally or otherwise gone all the way BB in the shop at some point.
That said, if you have a wife or girlfriend at home, always rubber up out of respect and safety for the love of your life (also, if you have someone at home, why the hell are you punting in the first place?)
Later
i feel like their was a misunderstanding in that last post.
when i referred to covid, i just meant its more dangerous now contracting anything from anyone.
and yes its an airborne disease, but if punting you'd still be in the 1.5 meter radius, where its contagious.
Should I consider myself lucky or just very inexperienced of I have yet to encounter any WLs who willing to do BBFS? Maybe the shops I go to just happens to be very uptight as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by hexenducation
Rock Hudson wasn't straight...Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Did you read the post?Quote:
Originally Posted by Vader
Yes, did you read the post?Quote:
Originally Posted by blitz
But his post implies that things changed because everybody thought he was straight. Fair point to your post though.Quote:
Originally Posted by blitz
i dunno, i'm even worried to go BB with chicks i date until i know then better.
You never know who or what they have been doing.
Also don't do BBBJ with ML/WL for the same reason that i might get an STI
Lucky, inexperienced or smart - take your pick - and agree, most WLs would prefer and should insist on covered blow job and full service - the risks of BBBJ are different to BBFS for both worker and punter, but there are still risks of serious illness. Plus it’s illegal to offer natural anything in licensed sex work, although you wouldn’t know it from many of the shops...
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Originally Posted by Kiryu0
how about kissing? there are risks of herpes which is incurable.Quote:
Originally Posted by limbi8888
I get the sensing that most punters would like the GFE experience and hence would paint, kiss or engage in BBBJ.
Funny you should say that, I think punters fall into three categories: sensitive types who want the GfE, legends in their own mind who love the PSE, and those who see sex work for what it is: a simple transaction made complicated by past experience, hopes, fears and the dance of pleasures that is a complex intimate connection between two animals with different and sometimes complimentary needs...
A few years ago at a primarily MILF shop I did it maybe 4 times. Same women twice each. It wasn't really discussed...it was just like a continuation of foreplay where she was either on top or I was behind and we were rubbing on each other and it just happened. Initially I was worried as the ladies were quite popular but I tested clean.