Originally Posted by 
cumquat
				 
			here’s a scenario for those who know . 
 Just had an awakening And feeling like I’m in  an AA kinda space  as typing…. 
I met a couple months ago a  very cute late 20’s  WL . Initial Thougt was a clear transactional event . Contact /sex/chat=money …  the second booking became Sex/chat/food/sex =money 
Third meeting no direct money just paid indirect costs = meals , snacks , drinks , cigarettes , coffee machine , other play things .. and so it flows 
Now having known her a couple months doesn’t appear to be working  in a trad. sense and we’ve had discussions on intimacy, expectations, time together , interest and reciprocity.
So, I find myself two months later been able to see her any much time I like when I am,  In the same city , though the last month been averaging 2!days a week 
She refers to her place as my home . I am given a key , while I’m in city so can come go as needs. I haven’t paid her any direct cash for more than 5-6 weeks 
What’s going on here ? Have I unwittingly reverse engineered an SB/SH tryst ? 
Did I get lucky ? Or should I move this across to one of the other maudlin /vaudevillian  threads …Honey,  I’m dating a (insert title here) 
The above is factual