yeah, but this was a private meet at Christmas or Vitamin place, where Christmas was the one looking for BBFS and DATY.
It sounds like BongKong wont even DATY his girlfriend if she ever was a WL/ML. I also agree that both sides should get tested for everything, Vitamin is a punter after all. If he was going on about HSV,
'Condom use also reduces the transmission risk significantly.[39][40] Condom use is much more effective at preventing male-to-female transmission than vice versa' (
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex#Management)
I also dont blame the health services not checking for it unless asked. It is so common, stays with you for life and is more expensive to test than some of the other more severe asymptomatic STIs such as chlamydia or gonorrhea which can be treated.