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I was referring to not paying the girl just for turning up. Common girl BS is that their time is important, blah, blah and that there are many cheapies around therefore a guy should pay the girl $100-$200 just for the privilege to have coffee with her. Any SB requesting payment for coffee interviews should be immediately blocked as she does not have a provider mindset, instead she has a take first mindset.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
I assume he means he does not pay the girl to come to meet him for coffee. He does pay for the actual coffee and cake :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
That makes much more sense.. Thanks for reply..Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
I've had to deactivate my profile this week. Juggling too many of these and the new leads just complicate things as I start to think the grass is even greener with each girl.
Met up with a flirty and picture wise nice asian girl, 28. In person though she had a low level of engagement. Maybe I wasn't to her liking. Not all sweet young girls have engaging personalities and she was struggling to be at ease with this old fart. That's OK, it's not our time. I let her go her own way. Only for the cost for two coffees to find out.
A couple of Filipinas operating out of a shared house in Kelvin Grove got on my radar. They are both nice and attractive but they do share notes. They have more of an escort (by the hour) mindset. That didn't suit me.
The longer I stay on the site, the more messages I get from newbies. In the first few days of joining I was hit with all of the professional operators. After a while the pro/escort types have all moved on and the shy newbie ones will choose to send me a message. These are the ones that appeal to me. Good vibes, less limits and for me, more potential.
There are heaps of aussie girls which simply have very little appeal for me.
really thinking about to share the prescription with you
sure, prescription for viagra is what I'm using the mostQuote:
Originally Posted by 9ight
My most recent ex was found on there, started as a SB deal and developed into a full blowj relationship. She broke it off after a year and a half a few months back. Jumped back on the site for the first time the other week and she is back up there looking again, interesting she doesn't mention that she was in the process of transitioning to a male in her profile, had a laugh at the poor sucker who gets that surprise and moved on, 150 bucks for a month isn't worth it in my view.
I don't use an ongoing subscription. I find that a week is more than enough time and my dance card is well and truly full by the end of four weeks. This sub I've used for a business trip in Sydney plus home base in Brisbane. Also, when I create a new user they do try and encourage sign up at the full price, after 3-4 days they make a 20% discount offer, after another day the same 20% is offer, don't accept that and they make a deeper offer. I paid AU100. After that cancel the auto renew.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trapper
I'm wondering about how to identify your sex transition friend. I'm still worried about what I did with Russian barbie last year.
It's been a while since I posted any updates here on the SB activity. I've now allowed my subscription to expire. It doesn't matter as I keep a separate word doc with a pic of each girl I'm pursuing, their seeking.com link, phone and notes of interest about something they told me that makes me sound like I'm listening.
The 31 days of subscription gives more than enough time to cover off a wide selection of the available talent. For me I used it in both Sydney and Brisbane.
There is no doubt it does take some work to sort through the shite profiles. but some well placed questions and culling can leave you free for opportunities.
Some rough categories of profiles
Scammers - profiles deliberately setup to perpetrate financials scams. easy to spot as they are just "too easy". Their profile locations also often change without explanation. comments or questions don't make sense to the flow. Just block.
Escorts/Pros - SB sites are a legitimate place for professionals to find work. Pricing is similar to actual escort sites. For me, these girls will usually be the first to say they can host without first grilling me for a few days. They will also talk in 'hours for $xxx". Not what I'm looking for on a SB site.
Tyre kickers - girls whom have read some article about being a sugarbabe and have some magical fairy-tale dream that they truly have a golden pussy which will solve their financial problems. Once I've determined a deep financial problem or a belief around the sugar dream I let them go.
After this comes a wide variety of girls that will happily trade sex for services. It's an interesting conversation where girls will say they do PPM (pay per meet) for $500. My reply is well I'm the one doing the $500 and what are you doing? if they don't see the humour in that then they fall in the GPS column.
Thanks to a one Forum member whom suggested I investigate a particular profile I got to enjoy wonderful quality times with a well qualified lady whom didn't actually want cash and was just happy with my input on her particular situation. This is not unlike my SB activity last year where I ended up with a similar lady, similar nationality and similar situation, also doing me for free. I think there is a market for old polite beggars like me 60+where the girl gets confidence that she can end it at any time and there are not any ongoing stalking, threats or problems. They know I'm not falling for them nor have any long term plausible relationship with them. I also leave them be in charge of timings which suits their busy careers.
I shagged one girl who had a busy work life and often out of town visiting clients. The weather changed last week and suddenly she was WFH. So A girl I had written off as not my type messages me out of the blue and says she's' home for the afternoon and come over. She was a nice person but a lousy fuck. So I fucked her a few times that afternoon just to be sure. She dd ask $400
There are also hundreds of other girls there that will suit other guys. If you have money to burnt then I am sure there are girls there that you can throw it at BUT like all the tips on this forum it's about getting performance and VFM.
I'll spin up another profile in a few months. I have enough names and numbers to keep things ticking along for a while. Plus a few ML visits to keep me in shape. I do like the massage experience for convenience.
Have a great week.
So my recent experience has been great, found a strait laced person thats an absolute firecracker in bed. Went away for a weekend and drank tons of Gatorade to keep up. She’s going OS so started looking for a replacement. It was quiet, a scammer or two, block block. Then found a solid 9 on a coffee date ( I’m a 7 on a good day lol) after two paid dates she said the money made her feel bad but wanted to still see me. Now this is rare, most of them want the $ to fuck an old dude. Can confirm that most SB’s swallow and not overly fused about condoms. So having found a replacement, I have offers for coffee dates galore. Can no one pay their credit cards with their only fans account?
That's a good experience share. Just bat the non-fits away and work your way through the potentials.Quote:
Originally Posted by Puntersclub
I got a big lecture from a Sydney SB who said I should expect to have to pay more because I am old, no girl wants to be seen with an old guy. Well the experience of puntersclub seems to reinforce that there are many girls on there that just want to feel comfortable. Yes, also many girls expecting to be paid, they are just not for me.
Punter I will DM you some sweet words I heard but I don't want to publish them openly here.
Actually thinking about Puntersclub experience he does show that SB are not just point and shoot like massage shop. it does take some work.
Hey cumshot..Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
Site is only asking me for $19.99USD/30 days to upgrade.. WTF..??
There is some weird combination of signup questions that has resulted in you with a profile of a sugarbabe" seeking a "sugar mum". You will probably notice that your search for SB is not returning very many results.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
a) The time I did it and paid the subscription I contacted support and they changed my profile to the correct profile and gave me a prorate membership days. like 20% of a month.
b) If you have not paid yet, just delete that profile and start a new profile.
Thanks Cman, I'll sus it out..Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
Here is a profile that messaged my new profile on seeking. I did engage her in conversation when I had the paid subscription. simply told her I couldn't afford her. She said something like "make an offer". So I offered $300 overnight. She blocked me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6...c-eb4ad8e49359
For the newbies this is a good example of one to avoid which is why she has to message new profiles each day. I guess she only needs to get one per week.
The profile she has messaged today doesn't even have my pic. it's basically a page holder profile.
Came across that profile myself. Weird responses from “her” and I didn’t pursue.Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
Wow . 300 a month . How did you get that ? I have been paying way too much .:( sometimes 600 per meet . I feel robbed now . I have been on the site for a few years on and off now . I agree with all your observations and I have similar strategies to your to wee out scammers and escorts . But I have never found a girl that wants 300 or 500 a month or even a week . Any strategy/tips would be welcome here on finding those girls .Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot
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Originally Posted by Khanji1980
You've been on the forum for a year, on seeking for 6 months...how about explaining what you have been doing? Explain how you fucked up my simple tips (sent through numerous DMs)
I seriously doubt you even have a paid subscription (which was Top #1)
You are a time waster mate.
No need to be rude . I found this discussion about seeking only in the last few days . I have been on seeking since 2022 . Paid membership of platinum (3 months bulk buy ) 3 times during that time .Quote:
Originally Posted by CumShot