Cannot lie, been a gift giver all along. Many regulars through the years have got chocolates or flowers on the birthdays. Some get Christmas gifts but usually if I have one coming back. Always played the game under my rules. If they ask, I listen and it is usually a no. If I am happy with our time then I buy. To me it is nothing different to giving gifts to all my family and friends. And giving is always better than not giving 😎