20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnJones
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20k won't last long with kids & if his punting $150 to $230 on a weekly basis. He must have an agreement with her on an amount he can withdraw weekly.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnJones
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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Quite frankly it’s no one’s business what a guy gets up to in their own private time.
If they want to plant flowers on the side of the road so be it. If they want to punt so be it. If they want to sleep in bed all day so be it.
I never ask a partner what they’ve been doing and as such I expect the same courtesy.
My reasons are very similiar, although with different emphasis over the years, particulalry 30 years ago compared to more recently. You can let relationship sex slip into the mundane or the once in a while category, even with a head turner wife and lets face it, a good WL experience when you find them can be bloody good, plus addictive.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
And yeah, I'm selfish with a yolo attitude as I get older.
Of course I would.
I'm with bro abracadabra. Here's to YOLO
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Originally Posted by jedibear
You mean like this girl? I am a big fan of her look. Big, big fan.
Hate to break it to you bro, that girl's got make-up on. Lipstick, and I sense some toner there as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by asiafever
One time he was punting weekly for a month then he decided to cut down. Maybe that's when the wife confronted him about the missing money. He wasn't someone with a functional brain as he got fired for stealing stock from his workplace at an attempt to start his own business. He was given the option to return all the stock and leave or sent to jail for embezzlement.Quote:
Originally Posted by JSteel96
Yeah I'm well aware, but that's the look, the "nude" look, or the "natural" look, as opposed to the "heavily made up" look of say this girlQuote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
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yep those kind of withdraws from a joint account his wife would spot. Is he still married to her? Stealing stock to start up a business is a stupid thing to do. I guess he must have returned all the stock. I would be surprised after that incident if he was still married to her. Punters if married have to be smarter than using a joint account to punt.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnJones
Fair enough. I personally like both. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a genuine young hottie who looks great in that minimal make-up look, sometimes I go for that heavily made up doll. The latter usually transpires after I've been out ogling at party girls on a Friday or Saturday night, hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by asiafever
Oh absolutely, both are hot in my eyes, just different ends of the spectrum. I would drop kick a kitten for either girl to be honest.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Unfortunately they're still together. Then again the wife isn't too smart herself. She was an international student desperate to stay here and the husband at the time they've met actually had an ABV gf and was about to get engaged. He broke up with the ABV for her, probably because she was giving him more attention and sex compared to the ABV.Quote:
Originally Posted by JSteel96
Some couples are attracted to each other because of their mental capacities. Those with higher mental capacities tend to live their relationships in a more constructive way, therefore it is not wise to take advice from people with lower states of mind. For example, if a wife were to allow the husband to punt when she's not sexually available she would've communicated in one way or the other what she expects - no BBFS, only certain price points allowed etc., rather than throw tantrums like lower mental state couples do. The highest state of minds would of course take a hint that they should abstain until the partner is ready for fun times again.
The benefits of having a constructive relationship is that when they have kids, the child will pick up the habit from their parents and learn how to be constructive and communicable themselves.
"Then again the wife isn't too smart herself.".... Excuse me, did you actually intend to explain this statement of yours?Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnJones
Cos I don't see any part of what you wrote explained that she "wasn't too smart"...
Would you like to be ignored instead? Because the explanation is already there, you just couldn't read it properly.
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Originally Posted by JohnJones
I often wonder the same thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
There’s no way JJ is an AI chatbot on some sort of punters forum learning curve, is there?
If you want an intelligent chat, be constructive rather than accusative. This is why I offered the choice to be ignored - I don't need to entertain negativity.
She wasn't smart because she was after a man who is already about to get engaged. That man is also empty-headed and aggressive. I was the only person he didn't dare get into a fistfight with only because he knew I could hurt him badly if I want to.
If I was her I would've been a little more patient and not steal someone else's bf.
One more thing to add: do a quick search on "constructive vs destructive relationship".
One is encouraging and engaging, the other is draining and lacks respect.
The way I learn constructive relationships is through many years of practicing the Four Brahmavihara. I don't expect my future partner to be perfectly constructive but I want her to know that there's an alternative to becoming destructive and draining.
If you can apply this to yourself, people around you will see you change and you'll be a magnet that attracts all kinds of good things in life.
What a lunatic.... I think I've said this about this guy before but here I am doing it again, lol!