Falling in love with Massage therapist

Love is a big word. Enjoy the intimacy and fantasy of love but be aware at some point, it will end.

I remember doing 3 loads of washing while the ex was out with the kids one sunday, hanging it all up on the line and those stupid trestles she bought while vacuuming and mopping in between loads. When she got home she looked around and the first words that came out of her mouth were "You didn't separate the whites and the colours did you!?!?!?"

And this is why men punt 😂

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Situation pretty fucked up
Fyi guys:
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).

Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.

Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.

One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .

Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.


I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. 🥹🥹

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Originally Posted by snot77

jeezus, Fox are we married to the same woman ???

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Originally Posted by DireStraits

Hahaha, you just described mine too!

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Its uncanny isn't it lol

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Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22

Bro, here’s the deal: you’re out here thinking you’re falling for this girl, but lemme break it down like this – you’re not in love. You’re in emotional confusion, because this situation’s all kinds of messy, like when you’re on a smooth ride, but the GPS sends you through the worst possible neighborhood.

Let’s keep it real: she’s got a boyfriend, you’re sneaking around, and now you’re feeling some type of way because of the “nat sex” (which, by the way, always gets dudes caught up – it’s that mind trick, man). But here’s the kicker – you’re in a transactional setup, and she’s playing two roles: one for her boyfriend, and one for you. Now, that sounds like a business deal to me. If you’re paying for service, don’t expect to catch feelings. It’s like buying a cheeseburger and proposing to the cook.

In the immortal words of my man, Meng, “Even if she leaves her BF for you, how long until you’re the next dude hiding texts?” It’s like swapping places, but this time you’re the sucker in the cycle. And don’t even start with “she’s Japanese so she’s honest” – bro, honesty ain’t got a nationality, it’s got actions. And these actions? All kinds of red flags.

You’ve got a therapist? Nah, man, you’ve got someone getting paid to make people feel good. You’re the customer, so don’t confuse that good feeling with love.

Here’s the advice: you need to detach. Take a deep breath and realize, you’re not her savior, and this ain’t a rom-com. The best thing you can do for your own sanity is to hit the brakes, pull a “Forrest Gump” and run, because if you don’t, you’ll end up more messed up than when you started. She’s gonna keep living her life, and you’ll be sitting there all twisted up.

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Fyi guys:
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).

Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.

Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.

One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .

Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.


I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. 🥹🥹

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Originally Posted by F0x

Remind me not to hang around the Thai girls you know!

😂😂😂

I do think this is a big case of Baader-Meinhof syndrome.

Look it up.

Trust me happens all the time. You then start seeing everything they do as something money hungry or ruthless, because thats all your looking for.

It's like when you have a Wife or missus who only ever sees what you DIDNT do. They don't give a shit that you fixed that door, built the storage shed, lugged a fucking 30kg bag of rice in for her, or made sure the smoke alarm batteries were changed.

Nah she'll have a colossal whinge over the fact you out your single coffee mug next to the sink without washing it.

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This ain't just the Thai girls I know. Its all of them.
I read it up. Its interesting, but no way bro, this ain't Baader-Meinhof Syndrome 555

There's truth to it & its a fact. I pretty much lived in Thailand. You can't make this shit up LOL Every Thai girl is all about money. Doesn't matter if theyre a "normal" girl or a bargirl/ML/WL

Its embedded in their culture. Theyre all about "showing face" & "saving face". And the biggest way to "show face" for a Thai is to have money & to show it to everyone

So basically how a Thai girl thinks, is "What can this Farang do for me & my family?"

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Originally Posted by mn69

This ain't just the Thai girls I know. Its all of them.
I read it up. Its interesting, but no way bro, this ain't Baader-Meinhof Syndrome 555

There's truth to it & its a fact. I pretty much lived in Thailand. You can't make this shit up LOL Every Thai girl is all about money. Doesn't matter if theyre a "normal" girl or a bargirl/ML/WL

Its embedded in their culture. Theyre all about "showing face" & "saving face". And the biggest way to "show face" for a Thai is to have money & to show it to everyone

So basically how a Thai girl thinks, is "What can this Farang do for me & my family?"

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Look, I haven't been to Thailand for anything more than a tourist visit, so you do have more experience than me I'll give you that, but I do still think it's a case of BM.

It's very easy to interpret behaviour or actions any way you want, and this is especially true in heightened emotional states. I.e that Hyena laugh your missus has sounds like the bells of the heavens if you are in the honeymoon phase.

You don't care that your best mate completely fucked up your living room while on the piss because you love him as a mate.

In this example:

Thai girl comes over and she is friendly chatty and warm
Oh shit she is trying to get in good with so she can take my money.

Thai girl comes over and is shy, introvert bit withdrawn etc
Oh shit she's all quiet and stuff must be plotting to take my money

Thai girl is dressed in normal clothes
Oh shit she isn't dressed in high fashion, she probably wants someone with money to get her good clothes etc

Thai girl is dressed like she's at a Billionaires yacht
Oh shit, she dressed to the nines. Must be a gold digger needing a sugar daddy.


See how easy it is to just keep on seeing things in a certain way?



I have a new regular ML actually who is Thai, and she shared some stories about her bar girl days etc. When it came time to tip, I gave her standard. She thanked me for coming and have me a hug on the way out etc.

Next time I went to see her, no change in her attitude or demeanour just because I didn't give her more. She was due to be on holidays, so I ended up tipping her more so she had a bit for holidays. She was over the moon, and asked me immediately if I wanted round 2 then and there. I wasn't up for it due to time but thats been my experience with Thai girls.

Honestly not really had a Thai girl be money hungry to me, so as I said, I don't want to meet the ones your seeing!

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Originally Posted by mn69

This ain't just the Thai girls I know. Its all of them.
I read it up. Its interesting, but no way bro, this ain't Baader-Meinhof Syndrome 555

There's truth to it & its a fact. I pretty much lived in Thailand. You can't make this shit up LOL Every Thai girl is all about money. Doesn't matter if theyre a "normal" girl or a bargirl/ML/WL

Its embedded in their culture. Theyre all about "showing face" & "saving face". And the biggest way to "show face" for a Thai is to have money & to show it to everyone

So basically how a Thai girl thinks, is "What can this Farang do for me & my family?"

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It’s almost as if you’re saying they’re all very superficial :-)

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Originally Posted by mn69

You can't make this shit up LOL Every Thai girl is all about money.

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That's why Thai ladies are my least trusted. Me and my mates were playing pool at a bar in Sydney CBD and a group of young Thai ladies come up to us. This is when I was in my 20's. Fantastic, we just went along with it. One of them seem very friendly to me, she was cute and went over to play the pokies so I followed her. She mentioned Sydney was boring as bat shit compared to Bangkok, her English was poor. I mentioned to her maybe I give you some luck and entered $5 into the machine as a gift. Her whole demeanor changed form there on and triggered her happy side. I had her for that night and it was the easiest hookup for only $5 hahahha

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Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212

Fyi guys:
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).

Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.

Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.

One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .

Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.


I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. ����

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Mate, you’re not in a good place and not thinking clearly. You need to understand that this type of situation rarely ends well. You may be really into her now, but her job will get to you. Especially as you continue to develop feelings. Ask yourself this question, will you ever trust her? She went bare with you. Do you think she won’t do it with others if the price is right?

Im not going to judge you nor is it my place to do so. Ask yourself this question. If a friend were in a similar situation, what would your advice be? As for her job. You say she is always booked out and you are constantly checking the roster. This will only escalate.

Does she like you? Perhaps. But 3-4 messages a day, her job and having a boyfriend mean the odds are stacked against you. She will be seeing a fair few guys a day. She could form a connection with any of those guys as she has with you.

Do yourself a favour by taking a step back and think about what you are potentially getting yourself into. You are going to drive yourself crazy, otherwise.

Finally, all the reviews you read about her, are just the tip of the iceberg. Most punters don’t post reviews.

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Originally Posted by Johny77

Mate, youÂ’re not in a good place and not thinking clearly. You need to understand that this type of situation rarely ends well. You may be really into her now, but her job will get to you. Especially as you continue to develop feelings. Ask yourself this question, will you ever trust her? She went bare with you. Do you think she wonÂ’t do it with others if the price is right?

Im not going to judge you nor is it my place to do so. Ask yourself this question. If a friend were in a similar situation, what would your advice be? As for her job. You say she is always booked out and you are constantly checking the roster. This will only escalate.

Does she like you? Perhaps. But 3-4 messages a day, her job and having a boyfriend mean the odds are stacked against you. She will be seeing a fair few guys a day. She could form a connection with any of those guys as she has with you.

Do yourself a favour by taking a step back and think about what you are potentially getting yourself into. You are going to drive yourself crazy, otherwise.

Finally, all the reviews you read about her, are just the tip of the iceberg. Most punters donÂ’t post reviews.

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Thanks for your advice bro . THANKS TO EVERYONE AS WELL FOR THE ADVICE. Really open up my mind.

But yeah . Im trying to pull back . You know how it feels that when you r kinda “fall in love” . Ive been punting for more than 10 years. And this is the first time i can tell and feel what “GFE” really is. Never meet someone like this before.

The part i dont get it is. What actually her feeling to be peg by at least 5 guys in a day? Let alone , im sorry to say . But some old fat blokes. While shes young and demure. Hahaha. I cant position myself to fuck a guy that doesnÂ’t match my criteria just for bucks. Maybe NHJ . And no way i can do BBBJ for someone that dont match my criteria.

I realized she just in for the money. But the stupid me cant accept that. Well thatÂ’s proving shes doing a good job. Fact is . She is booked out for two days in advance 😂
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I think the OP needs to hit the dating apps and get a real GF. This will fuck him up.

Date someone who's body count isn't the same as the Israeli Palestinian war.

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Originally Posted by Meng

I think the OP needs to hit the dating apps and get a real GF. This will fuck him up.

Date someone who's body count isn't the same as the Israeli Palestinian war.

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Come on bro. You can't be that naive. Do you really believe "normal" girls on dating apps have less body counts

Modern women, especially in the West probably have way higher body counts than the WL's/ML's

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Originally Posted by mn69

Modern women, especially in the West probably have way higher body counts than the WL's/ML's

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thats kind of nonsensical, working 5 days a week, 8hr shifts with upto 7 guys per shift.... you do the math. Even if its 1 guy per shift, still 5 a week every week.

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Originally Posted by mickeymouse

thats kind of nonsensical, working 5 days a week, 8hr shifts with upto 7 guys per shift.... you do the math. Even if its 1 guy per shift, still 5 a week every week.

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I think you underestimate these modern girls on Tinder, instagram, Tik Tok, OF & the hookup culture. They start young too

ML's/WL's also only work short term then get out of the industry. By the time a "normal" girl is late 20's to early 30's and looking to settle down. She would've clocked up a body count higher than ML'/WL's. And the poor unsuspecting guy who ends up marrying her...

The fact that she is popular and fully booked as you say- speaks for itself

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Originally Posted by Meng

I think the OP needs to hit the dating apps and get a real GF. This will fuck him up.


Date someone who's body count isn't the same as the Israeli Palestinian war.

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Feel bad for my GF . Cause actually i have a GF . I know its fucked up .

Can a sex worker who is getting serviced by 20-30 guys a week still want more when she gets home?