Regular taking advantage of me

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Originally Posted by pmmeyourknee_

It's really fucking sad out there! So many lonely simps being taken advantage by these ladies. They're laughing at you, trust me I know.

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Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

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Originally Posted by Incognito

Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

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Absolutely 100% true I can confirm. Imagine giving them sweets after cumming inside their mouth :shout:

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

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A smart WL /ML would pretend to be your friend so she can get away with anything.
End up using you . Can't do this can't do that it's ok you still pay without the service . Because they make believe you are friends. Alot of punters will fall for this.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

For anyone PM'd me asking about her, it's an ML in the city area, not a WL

A few people PM'd me and said they faced the same thing lol. Glad we can share our experience here.

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Oh so others have also experienced this decline in service with the same girl lol.

Is it a well known shop?

So many choices.

I too have recently just started to switch up my punting to different shops and seeing whats out there.

Sometimes one forgets how much goddamn choice we have.

I mean, there shops EVERYWHERE.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by RickyPunting

It's a WL and u keep seeing the same one? That's the fkn headline! FFS get variety not the feels.

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Oh contraire Rick , if you're onto (or into haha) a good thing stick to it . Better to have a good connection and excellent service. Nothing worse than trying new WLs /MLs and being sadly disappointed let alone visiting unhygienic and shabby dumps .Yeah occasionally might find a good one but after a long arduous disappointing search.

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Originally Posted by Incognito

Yea mate, I get some girls telling me how needy some punters are. Gifts, packed lunches, cakes and sweets and even paying for some of their bills. Like WTF

Then again it not my time, energy or my pineapples. So whatever LOL

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Some guys spend a small fortune on their girlfriends and they’re not even “solid”. What’s the difference? If you’re getting out of it what you want then the spend is justified. Sometimes I think of it as charity and is there anything wrong with being charitable or generous? They can’t all have a great day at work so why not help them out?

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Originally Posted by justincase

Some guys spend a small fortune on their girlfriends and they’re not even “solid”. What’s the difference? If you’re getting out of it what you want then the spend is justified. Sometimes I think of it as charity and is there anything wrong with being charitable or generous? They can’t all have a great day at work so why not help them out?

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Charitable....an interesting choice of word to drop in a joint like this. Ain't nothing wrong with being generous, but the real question is whether you are giving out of kindness, or cause you’re angling for something in return?

Selective Charitable: Only generous with certain chicks hoping your wallet buys you a bit more than the standard service

Opportunistic Charitable: generous when you smell an opening.....a tip here, a gift there, hoping it lands you an extra round, some GFE, a CIM surprise, her real phone number, boyfriend status etc.

Altruistic Charitable: Generous across the board, no strings attached MILFs, GILFs, old Asian boilers, chicks with dodgy hygiene, overweight, the lot and you don’t expect a thing in return. Now that’s the purest form of punter charity right there.

Some updates:

I haven't visited her again and she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch. Glad I cut heroff. Without this forum, she'd probably still be milking me dry.

I've found a new girl that I like at a different shop. Fingers crossed. I know better this time.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

And your order takes a long time, arrives cold. It's just that your business is not all that important to the restaurant's income. What do you do?

She COULD do her business, just not with you. What's in it for you? Knowing it's time to hit the bricks. Time to dine elsewhere.

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Originally Posted by pmmeyourknee_

Not all of them like regulars. They see 10 men everyday, 50+ men weekly. You're not special bros. Unless they don't have many customers, Losing you costs them nothing. Always remember that. Move on!

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Unfortunately what you're saying seems to be 100% accurate. Good one

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

Some updates:

I haven't visited her again and she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch. Glad I cut heroff. Without this forum, she'd probably still be milking me dry.

I've found a new girl that I like at a different shop. Fingers crossed. I know better this time.

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Good on you mate. Hope your new girl services you well and don't fall into the trap of letting em take your business for granted.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I've found a new girl that I like at a different shop. Fingers crossed. I know better this time.

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Don't go making the same mistakes now.... keep seeing different girls....

Who doesn’t take advantage of someone?

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

Some updates:

I haven't visited her again and she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch. Glad I cut heroff. Without this forum, she'd probably still be milking me dry.

I've found a new girl that I like at a different shop. Fingers crossed. I know better this time.

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It's just business, nothing personal.

Happy fucking at your new locale.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I haven't visited her again and she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch. Glad I cut heroff. Without this forum, she'd probably still be milking me dry.

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Bitch? Really?!? Why, because she didn't fulfill your fantasy of messaging you, asking about you, that she missed you, so you could message her back with a "F*ck off BITCH"? What exactly did she owe you sans pay?

WADR, I think you still don't understand the methodology of P4P. That's the trouble with punting when you don't have any (or many) IRL experiences with RL relationships, thus mistaking sex for a relationship. You were nice to hear, gave her gifts, tips, put up with substandard service, and for that she owes you what? That's on YOU.

You work for a living? Have a job? Great boss, gives you overtime, achievement bonuses, performance awards... Great. But if you get a better offer from another boss, are you going to stick around? You get complacent, slack off, boss fires you... seems to me that job AND salary wasn't all that important to you. Just BUSINESS.

Even if you don't have a job, certainly you've gone to a restaurant. The waitress who always greets you, gives you a great table, chats with you as she takes your order, brings your food... that's her JOB. Doesn't mean she wants to see you outside the restaurant. When you walk out the door, you're out of her world, and she's on to the next customer. That's her job. It's BUSINESS. You might THINK you have a relationship, a connection... and that's where real life experiences help you differentiate between fantasy and reality.

No, they're not all out to get you. You can have a connection with an acquaintance, just like those work colleagues, other students. You might have lunch together, but how many are you going to invite home for dinner?

You condemn a great actress playing a part in a play that you've bought a ticket for, when after the show's over, she doesn't continue in character? You enjoyed the performance, sent her a bouquet... so what? It's her job; I'm sure she's pleased you were happy. But when another show comes along...

It's not personal. Cuts both ways. What exactly do you own a provider who's given you a great time, free extras, but you're just not that interested after awhile? Continuing repeat business, or do you just move on? It's BUSINESS.

My advice? Lose the entitled attitude, have a good time, enjoy the company. But DON'T mistake it for real life. It's called a gfE for a reason; it's not a GF, no matter how much you want it to be.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

Some updates:

she didn't even reached out, clearly she didn't give a single fuck. What a bitch.

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Woah you seem crazy here mate. Maybe its a good thing she didnt reach out to you

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

My advice? Lose the entitled attitude, have a good time, enjoy the company. But DON'T mistake it for real life. It's called a gfE for a reason; it's not a GF, no matter how much you want it to be.

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Good advice.

Last week I saw a really nice girl for the 4th time. I give her her GFE extras money, and generally an extra 50-100, and we have had great sessions.
So she comes in, we hug, she explains how glad she was when she saw it was me who booked her.... Nice, I thought.
In the shower, out. Onto the bed - I lean in for a kiss.....
'So, do you want the girlfriend experience..?'
I'd forgotten to pay her.
My fault. Just totally slipped my mind - the money was in my pocket of my duds.
Paid her, and had a good session.

But - it did bum me just a bit..... it shouldn't have of course.

Be careful guys!

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Bitch? Really?!? Why, because she didn't fulfill your fantasy of messaging you, asking about you, that she missed you, so you could message her back with a "F*ck off BITCH"? What exactly did she owe you sans pay?

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Originally Posted by 1inchguy

Woah you seem crazy here mate. Maybe its a good thing she didnt reach out to you

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I never messaged her "fuck off bitch". Things just ended in silence. Don't forget she was the one manipulating me. I didn't do anything to her

We had been messaging before. It would take her less than 5s to send a message. If I'm not worth even 5s, then I will just disappear as she probably wishes

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Why, because she didn't fulfill your fantasy of messaging you, asking about you, that she missed you, so you could message her back with a "F*ck off BITCH"?

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I never messaged her "fuck off bitch".

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Read it again: I said your FANTASY... perhaps you do have a difficult time distinguishing fantasy from reality.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

We had been messaging before. It would take her less than 5s to send a message. If I'm not worth even 5s, then I will just disappear as she probably wishes

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Bold added for emphasis in the quote. before, and probably? Learn to read the room. Clear that she wasn't interested, so why should she message you? Do you message girls (I assume there's some) that you no longer see, will not see, just to say "hi". Why? You're clutter. Most punters don't want unsolicited messages and most all girls understand that.

So do you always immediately answer your messages even when you're working? You're FIRED. There was another punter on here that rated his friends by their response times. I guess we all have our own criteria. I just never consider myself the center of the universe (more an outside moon with little gravitational pull, but then, I'm never offering a PERMANENT orbit).

It's a gfE. You want a GF? You're looking in the wrong places...

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

Things just ended in silence.

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Old soldiers (providers, punters) never die, they just fade away.

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Originally Posted by bung72

'So, do you want the girlfriend experience..?'
I'd forgotten to pay her.
My fault. Just totally slipped my mind - the money was in my pocket of my duds.
Paid her, and had a good session

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Happens to all of us. Reminded me of the time, a girl I'd seen a couple of times. Great service. This time, we finish, she cleans up, I dress. Say goodbye, heading for the door. She asks if I've forgotten anything. I check; no, have my sunglasses, phone, bag. I'm good to go. She asks if I'm sure. I say Yes, I'm sure. "My money..." I sheepishly (baa baa) said sorry, paid her. That girl done did fucked my brains out.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I never messaged her "fuck off bitch". Things just ended in silence. Don't forget she was the one manipulating me. I didn't do anything to her

We had been messaging before. It would take her less than 5s to send a message. If I'm not worth even 5s, then I will just disappear as she probably wishes

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I think what people are trying to gently point out is that you are being overly emotional about this, and it isn't healthy for you to feel this way.

It's easy for me to say this because I'm not in your position, however I get it. I have definitely been cut up in the past in situations like yours, just as some of the girls get jealous and possessive of their customers. It's the nature of this industry.

The reality is there are tons of great providers out there, and the advise you have consistently been given is to look for her and move on from this one without regret or anger. And it is good advise.

The message game… you need to have an IDGAF attitude. Yes they live on their phones and yes they choose if and when they respond to your message so you treat them the same way. Let them hang.

For example one WL I previously wrote about made me wait, so now I’ll txt her once every week or two about something totally irrelevant to punting or dating and yes she’s waiting to go out on a second date but I can’t be bothered to set to a time or a day. So now when I send a txt within 5 minutes she replies back…. She can wait.

Another ML has gone off the radar because I stopped replying to her daily broadcast which she no doubt sent to others. She thinks I’ll chase but I won’t. That game of hers isn’t working now. Yes we dated and was good company but I’m not playing her game. She can wait too. Nothings changed in her life, same friends, same clubs she goes too, same same same. Been there, done that and unless she’s got something different to offer why go back?