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It's a painful thing but it's time to move on. I think coming to a forum of degenerates may be a bad idea but a few of them did tell you to find some help too. find a hobby other than this hobby. Maybe a girl will fall into the picture. You don't want a working girl. They are broken wonderful creatures who will take all your money and leave you wanting to give them more with nothing in return.
I think it's fair to say that nobody on this forum wants to be like OP. This is like our worst nightmares realised... Someone who fell down the slippery slope and got completely addicted to the paid sex.
I mean even if I had millions or billions I wouldn't want to go through life like that. It's not just about the sex, it's about time, life. No amount of money can replace that. You only have one life, don't spend it all on hookers.
I have had a shop stuff me around...told me to go, arrived and told to wait 1.5 hours later or try some other boiler. I left, went to another nearby shop and had the best root. I hate when a booking gets stuffed around, and definitely won't be back in the first shop.
OP, you're a good man, but don't be taken advantage of. Go take your dollars elsewhere and don't let yourself be taken advantage of
Actually for this guy this would actually work well.Quote:
Originally Posted by youngheart
It would seem like a personalised transaction, he gets sex and she can take his money and it can seem like he is helping her and can even fix things for the SB and drive her places that sort of thing.
What do you actually do during these long bookings?
After 2 shots I wanna fuck off. 1hr max...
Well said. 30 minutes for each shot. If I only want one shot then 30 mins max...Quote:
Originally Posted by Rainyex28
Post nut clarity sets in and I wanna fuck off
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I don't think so. I get the feeling that there must be more to the story than what OP has written. I mean, I don't think he's just a normal bloke who likes to do long bookings and just have lots of vanilla sex. My guess is he's probably a demanding customer with unusual requirements. Whatever that may be, but it's probably something that would wear out a WL. If true, it rules out going with SBs for him. Gotta remember that SBs aren't nearly as hardcore as these cougar type WLs that work the joints he seems to frequent.Quote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
The fact that the shop literally booted him out even after he was ready to pay for extremely long bookings, as low as the hourly rate may be, adds weight to this theory.
That's an interesting point.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Also having " couldn't get a fuck in a brothel " on his personal sexual CV is pretty amusing to the rest of us.
This is the saddest thing I've ever read lol
Go and touch grass OP.
Make some friends
Didn't see realise he had that in his profile. Now it really does look like he's very out of the ordinary to say the least!Quote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
OP: as others here have said, go and see a Counsellor & you will get sorted.
Believe me, I know! I went through a pretty tough time many years ago and as it was affecting my work, my boss at the time told me I needed counselling. Only took a few sessions and well and truly sorted me out. I cannot recommend it enough!
You can thank us later mate...
Yet you are still punting it seems ? HahaQuote:
Originally Posted by schloong
OP answer the questions:
What do you do for a living?
What do you do with the women during these long stays?
The fact is that all addictive behaviour whether its punting, booze, gambling, gaming etc is masking or distracting from underlying issues. Which is obviously the case for the OP.Quote:
Originally Posted by John11
Its possible to return to the behaviour once you've dealt with the underlying issues. But if its draining your wallet and sending you insane. Probably a good idea to go cold turkey for a while.
Punting is only a problem if it is out of control and done to address underlying issues like the OP in this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by John11
A few years ago I was pretty deep in it. $1200 a week plus multiple sugar babies. It was fun. It lead to meeting the WLs outside the shops which is never a good idea. Long story short I got help and introduced hurdles in my routine to prevent me from going to the shops. I didn’t go cold turkey but slowly reduced the frequency and introduced variety so not to be seeing the same girls frequently.
Fast track 2 or 3 years, I am not addicted anymore. I still punt but it is out of choice and my control not impulse or any other reason.
Cheers Boss, for sharing,Quote:
Originally Posted by ditchtheboss
When you say hurdles you mean hobbies ?
Not hobbies, girls are bettet than any hobbies and i am weak on that sense. I made commitments after work and controlled my whereabouts to avoid circumstances where u am near one of the shops. I work for myself so i am in total control of what i do and where i go so that’s easy for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Danny801
Rubbing one out also helps to control the urge
I never intended to write this response, but I think it needs to be said.
This message goes out to “Judas” out there…….Surprise!
I’m aware you went to running to “your mother” crying about my post, despite it containing no names or locations. If you need an excuse to go back tell her this, “If she wants to talk to me, I would suggest unblocking me first and would encourage her to communicate with me directly as an adult, not like a pice of shit on the bottom of her shoe or through other girls in other shops”.
Feel free to relay my words to your “mother” and receive your reward for your gossip. Just remember, I didn’t start this. Those who know me (regulars & some of the girls), both inside the shop as a customer and as friends outside, in the real world, they know my character and who I am beyond rumours and lies that is said about me.
As I’ve stated before in a previous post, “the truth will be revealed soon”.
For those that know me, or I have come across both online and in person, know & agree that “our” ( as it’s also not just mine) story and what we have been through isn't about judgment of the industry, the workers, or the clients. Its about recognising when something meant to be recreational becomes compulsive, when spending becomes uncontrolled and when secrecy starts destroying other parts of your life.
“It’s just one punters story about their personal experience to punting…….” As I would say.
Maybe the truth does hurt some after all or maybe the guilt is too much to carry? Who knows?
Cheers, good avoidance strategies.Quote:
Originally Posted by ditchtheboss
I found some cardio ofher than sex helps too. Depends if one is exercise inclined. I grew up fairly sporty but let it slip in recent years , but trying to get it back and helps to keep your mind clear of sexercising!
Hi Bravo,Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Just wanted to say thank you for your kind words of support.
Obviously, walking away is the best thing to do , which I have done . I have also deleted ALL contacts with anyone associated. So if they do reach out (which a few have already), then you know who your true friends are and who aren't as they say. In regard to my "favs, " mate, that chapter in my life has now closed, and I've moved on. They had their chances, still decided to string me along, and chose to lie to my face with a smile on it.
You're right about the "bucket list items, " and as one member (Pasion) said, "use it to travel the world instead. " Well, with the money I've saved by "slowing down," as pointed out by Double Adapter (but do you know the reason why, mate? Did you work that out yet?), I've booked myself on a 12-night tour (which I've always wanted to do but have been refused entry into the country in the past due to having certain stamps in my passport) - North Korea. Then the only one left on the list is Cuba (which I wanted to visit years ago when Fidel Castro was around, but never had a chance). I want to do China and India, but those are two countries where you need to know someone or have a friend from the country who 's willing to show you around and travel with you. I wouldn't do it by myself nowadays; traveling back in the late 90s/early 00s was a lot more fun than it is nowadays, I personally think .
On a final note, once again , you're right (along with AndrewV and a few others) about taking a break from punting and getting help. I did that way back in April this year, and finally, after six months of waiting and following up, the ball has started to roll , and appointment dates are booked. But like I've said, "all will be revealed soon..."