Dating a ML - share some stories!!

I see this differently . I've been down it with FS women - actually high paid escort and none Asian.
No I wasn't the drug dealer. Contrary to what most thought.

If your asking on forum in my honest opinion. your not ready. You really do have to not give a flying fuck - about the fucking. the dick touching the whole lot. in fact you need to be on a level of it's the job. Similar to say someone who works in a garbage land fill and has smell that does not get out of them or - if they work in the sewerage treatment facilities.

You have to not even see the relationship on anything but company first. I always found it easy myself. because my life was at the time - totally similar hours and downfalls from smell - to seeing things you don't want to see. Plus the other jobs I've done - consider it dead body recovery - they smell bad and so does picking up the brains of dead motorcyclists. For the forensic unit.

Another planet. Most people think they can handle it. oh it's easy, but once you get into the deep stage, if will get to you. even the past.
I think it never got to me because I might have been monogamist at the time more due to the reason we met in first place. but I didn't see myself in a relationship - yet I never looked for another.

I think it's something only an experienced and person who has no issues about it can handle. I have heard and seen and met many who have been in the relationship with W/L . the Men who didn't know before and after finding out were better off. Those who knew, the ones that didn't OD or go off mad. Never stayed with them as far as I know. sometimes the Girl OD.

trust me stay away from the ones who say they are gay but like fucking men. the gay lover may come after you. they be lesbians and they can hit hard. Or if your big like me go straight for the boys. not light smack - hospital grade

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Originally Posted by Christmas

Mm k... I have no idea where do i begin! too many stories i've seen, heard, and done.

My first boy friend in Aus was customer when i worked @m8.
Even though he was married guy, we were going out for more than a year. I'm sure he is member of this forum, because he mentioned it sometimes, so i won't describe in very detail just in case.. he notices me and sends me creepy PM... lol
He was professional ML sniper. so his ex was ML as well, we worked at same place, it was so much thrill... A year later we broke up naturally because I left Aus for a while, it wasn't tough because i didn't love him anymore anyways, lol good chance to break up indeed... what could you expect from married guy.

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He's a lucky guy to have you for a year. Some of us can only dream about it.Lol.

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Originally Posted by garfield

He's a lucky guy to have you for a year. Some of us can only dream about it.Lol.

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No need to dream, we all know where Garfield can meet Jerry !!

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Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR

No need to dream, we all know where Garfield can meet Jerry !!

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True �� and also i think i was lucky to meet him. He taught me many things include English..

There are so many beautiful women out there and a lot of them working ladies, a working lady is so independent and are used to spending lots of money so the up keep if you don't want to work is high they are high maintenance.

Unfortunately if you want to have them to your self you need to be financially well off and I often wonder can they just accept having sex with only one partner.

1 whole year with a girl no matter how hot, pretty, and sexy she is my idea of hell.
For me 30 mins with a girl is a honeymoon, 45 mins a happy marriage, and after 1 hour it's time for a friendly divorce ;)
But hey, I'm a weird guy with commitment issues ;)

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Originally Posted by rooter

1 whole year a girl no matter how hot, pretty, and sexy she is my idea of hell.
For me 30 mins with a girl is a honeymoon, 45 mins a happy marriage, and after 1 hour it's time for a friendly divorce ;)
But hey, I'm a weird guy with commitment issues ;)

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No problem, that's just you and no one girl can really satisfy your cravings.
Some other people like to connect with girls emotionally and that takes a bit of investment.

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Originally Posted by Christmas

True 😁 and also i think i was lucky to meet him. He taught me many things include English..

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Was he a Cunning linguist :)

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Originally Posted by Bigfoot

I see this differently . I've been down it with FS women - actually high paid escort and none Asian.
No I wasn't the drug dealer. Contrary to what most thought.

If your asking on forum in my honest opinion. your not ready. You really do have to not give a flying fuck - about the fucking. the dick touching the whole lot. in fact you need to be on a level of it's the job. Similar to say someone who works in a garbage land fill and has smell that does not get out of them or - if they work in the sewerage treatment facilities.

You have to not even see the relationship on anything but company first. I always found it easy myself. because my life was at the time - totally similar hours and downfalls from smell - to seeing things you don't want to see. Plus the other jobs I've done - consider it dead body recovery - they smell bad and so does picking up the brains of dead motorcyclists. For the forensic unit.

Another planet. Most people think they can handle it. oh it's easy, but once you get into the deep stage, if will get to you. even the past.
I think it never got to me because I might have been monogamist at the time more due to the reason we met in first place. but I didn't see myself in a relationship - yet I never looked for another.

I think it's something only an experienced and person who has no issues about it can handle. I have heard and seen and met many who have been in the relationship with W/L . the Men who didn't know before and after finding out were better off. Those who knew, the ones that didn't OD or go off mad. Never stayed with them as far as I know. sometimes the Girl OD.

trust me stay away from the ones who say they are gay but like fucking men. the gay lover may come after you. they be lesbians and they can hit hard. Or if your big like me go straight for the boys. not light smack - hospital grade

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Dang that's a lot of info to process. Interesting stuff

I think a lot of the comments are interesting. A lot of them are based on assumptions and speculation because as humans where there is lack of information we fill in the gaps ourselves.

In my experience, I visited the same Korean ML for a year and then we took it to the next level and started dating. You don't really know if it's real or not until you leave the confines of the room. It's their job to be friendly, sensual, etc. one thing leads to another and I assumed the connection was real.

She then changed jobs and became a WL. I was comfortable with her line of work and accepted it, but she found it difficult to understand why I was so accepting. We were a couple for 6 months or so, we went on a few holidays together etc. normal couple stuff. Very quickly in the piece she told me she loved me and wanted to make plans about marriage etc. I thought it was very fast...but happy to go along.

I was starting to suspect that I may not have been the only person she was seeing. I was right! Eventually she told me via text that she no longer loved me and didn't want to be together. It came down to me not financially supporting her and therefore in her mind having to continue being a WL that was the issue. We are now friends again. My assumption is that the other guy(s) she also had relations with eventually got over her and didn't want to continue. Hence she has wanted to spend more time with me...but I've been very standoffish.

I had another encounter with a Korean ML from another shop. This girl was much younger. We had a bit of a connection and things progressed faster...and she asked me to ask her out. We went on a few dates and I thought things went ok. Once again though it came down very quickly to me financially supporting her so that she wouldn't have to be a ML. I somewhat agreed, but she had some other guy she was crazy in love with who was engaged to another chick and she decided she wanted to be with him. We no longer speak.

I think it's naive to think that everyone is the same just because they have the same job etc. But you do have to wonder why you have been 'chosen' by the ML/WL. I agree as humans we crave connections. But I think people sometimes have alterior motives, which is fine...as long as you know and are comfortable with that.

You only live once.

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Originally Posted by loaded

I think a lot of the comments are interesting. A lot of them are based on assumptions and speculation because as humans where there is lack of information we fill in the gaps ourselves.

In my experience, I visited the same Korean ML for a year and then we took it to the next level and started dating. You don't really know if it's real or not until you leave the confines of the room. It's their job to be friendly, sensual, etc. one thing leads to another and I assumed the connection was real.

She then changed jobs and became a WL. I was comfortable with her line of work and accepted it, but she found it difficult to understand why I was so accepting. We were a couple for 6 months or so, we went on a few holidays together etc. normal couple stuff. Very quickly in the piece she told me she loved me and wanted to make plans about marriage etc. I thought it was very fast...but happy to go along.

I was starting to suspect that I may not have been the only person she was seeing. I was right! Eventually she told me via text that she no longer loved me and didn't want to be together. It came down to me not financially supporting her and therefore in her mind having to continue being a WL that was the issue. We are now friends again. My assumption is that the other guy(s) she also had relations with eventually got over her and didn't want to continue. Hence she has wanted to spend more time with me...but I've been very standoffish.

I had another encounter with a Korean ML from another shop. This girl was much younger. We had a bit of a connection and things progressed faster...and she asked me to ask her out. We went on a few dates and I thought things went ok. Once again though it came down very quickly to me financially supporting her so that she wouldn't have to be a ML. I somewhat agreed, but she had some other guy she was crazy in love with who was engaged to another chick and she decided she wanted to be with him. We no longer speak.

I think it's naive to think that everyone is the same just because they have the same job etc. But you do have to wonder why you have been 'chosen' by the ML/WL. I agree as humans we crave connections. But I think people sometimes have alterior motives, which is fine...as long as you know and are comfortable with that.

You only live once.

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Great sharing, thanks.

I see not much different between ML and normal ladies, normal ladies also looking for partners that is financially stable. In generally, woman see man as providers and choices partner that best provides for them and family.
Remember most of these MLs you are dating are at their prime age, mid 20s to early 30s. They only have a few more years to play with their looks and sex appeals and they will try to get the best deal possible.
Very rare I see true love in these days, as girls usually expects this at early age with their boyfriends but boyfriend cheated on them and hurt them lots so they don't trust man or love that much anymore.

i use to date a ml n i deluded myself thinking we have a future. in the end i can't process her profession n caused alot of pain for both of us. the moral of the story is don't date one.

its so fucked up that in a normal relationship i go to massage places to cheat. however in a ml relationship i can't go to massage places cheat n have to date a normal girl to cheat but by definition you can't cheat on a ml... does that make sense?

So is it safe to say that for this type of relationship to work, she would have to stop working as an wl/ml?
And naturally, that means you will have to support her.
I think that's only fair. To be honest, that sort of "deal" would make me feel even better than if it was a non-wl girl. The feel good factor comes from knowing that my financial contributions to my girl is making a world of difference in her life. With a non-wl girl, it's more about her being lazy and not wanting to work. With a wl, I'm saving her from having to sell her body.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

So is it safe to say that for this type of relationship to work, she would have to stop working as an wl/ml?
And naturally, that means you will have to support her.
I think that's only fair. To be honest, that sort of "deal" would make me feel even better than if it was a non-wl girl. The feel good factor comes from knowing that my financial contributions to my girl is making a world of difference in her life. With a non-wl girl, it's more about her being lazy and not wanting to work. With a wl, I'm saving her from having to sell her body.

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in many cases I think it's not much difference between non wl and wl. In only rare cases a girl has absolutely no other choices but to sell their bodies. Like for example needing large amount of cash in short time for medical fees etc. In most cases they could just opt not to work in this like other non wl. Of course it will mean less pay for most and hard jobs or not being able to achieve their goals like a nice car, apartment or big savings but rarely it's a matter of life and death that giving them financial support is saving them. It is pretty much the same as non wl, not having to work as much. Just in this case the work is in flesh industry

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

So is it safe to say that for this type of relationship to work, she would have to stop working as an wl/ml?
And naturally, that means you will have to support her.
I think that's only fair. To be honest, that sort of "deal" would make me feel even better than if it was a non-wl girl. The feel good factor comes from knowing that my financial contributions to my girl is making a world of difference in her life. With a non-wl girl, it's more about her being lazy and not wanting to work. With a wl, I'm saving her from having to sell her body.

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I think women want independance no matter what profession they have and don't necesarily want a guy to financially support them. I'm not sure of the cultural differences in expectations between east and west.

I think partners want to contribute equally to a relationship, it's up to hat couple to determine what that means and what is acceptable.

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Originally Posted by loaded

I think women want independance no matter what profession they have and don't necesarily want a guy to financially support them. I'm not sure of the cultural differences in expectations between east and west.

I think partners want to contribute equally to a relationship, it's up to hat couple to determine what that means and what is acceptable.

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You are thinking like aussie or ABC. The girls from overseas I've mostly spoken to are expecting man to pay.

Once i fell in love with this korean ML, i asked for a date...But she rejected me by saying im too old, well im just 26 years old... And then i think i made a mistake to have fun with another ML the same place as she worked for.. Turned out now,i think she hated me and doesnt want to give a service anymore... Shame on me...

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Originally Posted by junejune

Once i fell in love with this korean ML, i asked for a date...But she rejected me by saying im too old, well im just 26 years old... And then i think i made a mistake to have fun with another ML the same place as she worked for.. Turned out now,i think she hated me and doesnt want to give a service anymore... Shame on me...

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26 and too old? I've seldom seen any ML genuinely in early 20s, almost all ads of ML are is fake and youngest is still around mid 20s. I remember one ML who looks really like a young girl was telling me she's now in her 30s but she still looks like 19, whereas some other girls in the same shop is much younger but looks more mature or old.

Why would her be angry, she must also have crush on you!

How much does a ML make a day? For a $60 massage and $50 tips per hour, would she make $75 an hour?

Say she has 8 customers a day, that would be $600 and no tax?

Now how can you stop her from working beside covering her loss of income?

One way that I can think of is to start your own massage shop, preferably in a shopping centre and employ her to run it.

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Originally Posted by tpol

How much does a ML make a day? For a $60 massage and $50 tips per hour, would she make $75 an hour?

Say she has 8 customers a day, that would be $600 and no tax?

Now how can you stop her from working beside covering her loss of income?

One way that I can think of is to start your own massage shop, preferably in a shopping centre and employ her to run it.

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They don't earn that much a day, as customer varies, some just go for massage or clothed hj.
Average is like 250 to 350 a day.

I know someone who bailed out a ML and he is giving her 1000 per week.

IF you have that sort of money, you could easily house a young ML and free fuck every night. Quick good deal actually.