Originally Posted by
holi_day
it will never work out due to the circumstances you both met.
A women will not stay in a normal relationship with someone knows her past life as a sex worker, never.
I have fallen in love years ago with a girl that we met at hotel sauna club back in China. I was so madly in love with her. Although I clearly knew that it won't work out, It took myself 5~6 months to recover after I separated from her.
Not all sex workers are bad. There are many girls that I met in brothels, massage polars etc. I can tell could be a perfect partner for me if we met in normal life. But because they knew I went to brother and I knew they work there, it will not work out as a normal relationship.
I have seen a Japanese girl for many times. She worked at one of the most famous shop. After we met 13 times, we started dating outside. But we have been keeping the boundary very clear. We never have sex outside. She never asked for any financial gifts. She insisted to pay some of the bills so that she didn't owe me anything. We just spent some time. She was alone in Australia. I wanted some dating fun outside of sex. We got what we needed. If I wanted sex, I went back to the shop to meet her. That's been our happy relationship until she went back to Tokyo. I am sure if I travel to Tokyo, she wouldn't mind go out for a dinner or something with me.
Although you may say you don't mind what she did before, but she does, definitely. You can't fix that. So just keep the good memory and move on.
