Originally Posted by
ellison
Its always fun on these threads, waiting for the first person to lay judgement. We are all hear to learn and support.
For some men punting keeps marriages together, and quite a few guys on here tell me their wives agree they just dont want sex anymore
Generalisations, but men love sex well into their 60s - 70s. Its a direct measure of their potency. Money and security are important but not fulfilling on their own. Women will often settle for security and family, and thats job well done for them in 90% of cases
Im trying to work out what lady I want to stay with longterm.
The main reason for long term relationships is to raise children, not necessarily to have a sexually compatible long term relationship
We would all love a lady with lots of money, nice body, who will never lose interest in sex. But its hard to predict a womans likely long term desire
My instinct is to find an intelligent lady, who looks up to me, and I can sense she has a long term need to pamper her partner. I obviously would look up to her as well, if she has those right qualities.
Many intelligent women unfortunately wont look up to you after a certain time, this is an issue.
Unfortunately, maybe 20% of couples, if that, are good matches for each other. Am I too pessimistic?
