lol fair call Benny - cheers mate.
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I have been chatting to a girl in Brisbane. When we moved to kik she tells me there are two of them. The want 500 each to come and spend 2-3 hours. I was very excited but after chatting to the one who had the SA account I kind of like this girl and would rather meet her one on one instead of double. I hav enever been with two but not sure now as I prefer intimacy rather than fuck fest.
I will give feedback if I meet them.
to be advised in future....
I’m not good at writing reviews but here I go. Had my first meet last Friday. I can say that’s it’s completely different compared to going to brothels. We meet up in the hotel room the afternoon I was quite nervous at this stage as I’ve never done this sort of things before. But at the same time I was excited at meeting this South American girl. Once in the room she also told me that she was nervous and only meet one other time for dinner and nothing else. Seems genuine but who bloody knows.
Anyway we started chatting about what she does for work and what are her hobbies. Told me she was studying to become a psychologist and working as a nanny at the same time She ask me what I do and if I have a partner/married which I replied yes to the latter. She even mentioned that we should organize to meet up early to get away from the misses. Lol. So she seems keen to meet this old man.
At this stage I was feeling hungry too so I ask her if she wanted to have lunch in the room which she replied sure if you want too. Damn.. I was thinking is this how all meet ups end up. It was so relaxing without the rush that you get in brothels.
After we had our lunch that’s when the play time started. I won’t go to too much details but damn… that body of hers is hot. Just think of those South American body curvy and a nice ass type.
We probably spend about 3.5 hrs together and not once she mentioned about money to me. She said that it’s up to me how much I want to give her and would never ask for more of gifts at all. So I paid her $700 that’s with me paying for her Uber ride as well,even thought she didn’t want to take it.
She mentioned that 2 weeks ago prior to our meet up btw.
All in all it was nice to see a lady that you can converse/click with. She was just down to earth/understanding about everything we talk about. Damn… have to be careful not to fall in love with her.
Thanks to Bennyb n Riff888 for guiding me along on this SA journey.
Btw I’m meeting up with her again this Friday this time will be for about 5-6 hrs, will update again how this plays out.
Bro Benny/Riff888 how much you reckon I should give her this time round.
Cheers guys hope it was too long to read.
Well done Shiba! Happy to see you had such a good time. She sounds like one of the good ones.
If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take from when you guys first messaged, to meeting in person?
I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.
Hi heianth dont be discouraged by the slow response. I ad the same thing. What I undertsand is lot of girls are sitting overseas and kind of not really into meeting. Specially the new profiles that pop up and the girls are 18-22. They look really hot but either are testing the waters or only enjoying the excitement of teasing men. Just be patient and also try to be discreet. Sometimes when I have mentioned hotel or something leading to sex some of them block you straight away. They are here for geting rewarded to get intimate woth older men but still dont want to be seen as escorts. Maybe try changing your filters or try girls older than 24-35. They may be more confident and willing to meet. There are plenty of girls who dont hide the fact they are in financial trouble and need help quickly.
Good luck .
True they may be professionals or would have learnt that they are not going to get more money out of you if they stay longer. They are very strict with their timing. So are some other girls. I had acontact with one whos says she can only spend 2 hours no more. I thought this is back to brothels where the girl has a timer and goes off 10min before the hour finijshed for you to take a shower anb be out.
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Appreciate the pep talk John. I've changed my profile to help set (more) expectations so-as not to waste time and I've learned from reading these posts to aim for mid-20s etc. My profile and all intro messages I've only proposed a meet-and-greet first, to see if we gel well and minimise the pressure. Glad to hear this is a hazing period but will keep at it till my subscription ends and then back to the ol regular life :D
Great question - I engage with ones where they have something interesting in their profile (About Me + Seeking) that I can work off. Age is a factor as well and the ones that pop up on the top of my list are early 20s so I may have to be really strict now and look for 24+ like John suggested.
@Heianth Hi mate, with this particular girl it took 2 days until she actually wanted to meet. We took the chat off line and from there she wanted to see photos of me which I send. After looking at my photos she agreed to meet up at the hotel to my surprise.she did cancel on the day that we where suppose to meet due to that time of the month and she was so apologetic about it told me to meet up the following week, which we did last week.
Don’t be discouraged by the lack of engagement, like all the bros mentioned here, the girls usually pick and choose to see who they want to see or are busy with other SD. Just need to be patient if they don’t text back jus keep looking there’s plenty of women in there.
I’ve been in SA for 3 weeks and I only manage to see 1 for meet ups the rest jus bn texting with them. Mind you I’m more looking to the Asian women more except with the current one I’m seeing, she’s an exception due to us clicking.
As long as your upfront to them about yourself and don’t bullshit to them you should be good mate.
Currently I’m texting 3 other girls since yesterday 21-26 age bracket 2 replied back now jus waiting for them to get back to me.
Good question, we’ll for me would be someone that I can click with when msging with them. Asking them to be transparent, honest, discreet and upfront 100% of the time they will be discreet. Ask what they are looking for if they do want to meet up. Eg short/long term arrangement etc. it might not work with everyone though. Just be yourself about it when you do happen to meet the girl, because these girls knows when your bullshitting from miles away.
I’m not the best to ask this type of questions though as I’m only new to this SA game. Bennyb n Riff888 can share more regarding this.
What did she wear to the hotel?
$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?
upfront about sex thing?
I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.
No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh
Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.