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Originally Posted by ABG4LYF
Depends if youve discussed boundaries with your partner.
They way I see it for myself is that there is absolutely no emotional attachment to WLs. I try not to see the same WL more than twice, even if the service was the best. It's simply a service hahahaha
Is that cheating?? i mean if you want to get into the details sure .... but if not, youre simply exchanging money for a service.
Theres no emotional attachment and theres no feelings (for me at least)
So here's is the deal. The definition of cheating is this:. to practice fraud or deceit:. So if your partner would want to know you're doing this so they can break up with you then yes it is cheating. If your partner says "I don't have the energy to have sex with you all the time you can have a girlfriend and you decide girlfriends are too expensive so you punt instead that's simple economics. If your partner full on says wear a condom and don't bring anything home anytime you bareback whatever you're cheating.
Definitely not cheating...
Thats a tuff discussion but may be best to be sure. Each person has their own values and so would say we and others would say no.
I think it's an acceptable form of cheating as there is (supposedly) much less likelihood of forming that emotional bond required in a partnership.
It's cheating if its not something accepted by the couple with communication I guess. And if the line is crossed to what's accepted than it would be defined as cheating on your partner.
Summed it up pretty much. If you have not discussed it and your partner would be pissed if they found out, or if your partner did it and you'd be pissed, yes it's cheating. Justify it to yourself however you like but that's what it boils down to.Quote:
Originally Posted by yuikara3
Coming to a forum where we talking about banging babes lixking the slit and having threeaomes surely isn't the best place to calibrate your moral compass. Most of us motherfuckers lost em or gave em to our kids
It's not likely for you to form emotional bonds with the WL only if you're a seasoned punter, done it many times, and you've become accustomed to the transactional nature of paid sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ninjas1018
That cannot be said for a big proportion of punters. Take a look at all the threads on this forum asking about realtionships with WLs/MLs. Lots of guys might not have much experience with dating or close contact with women, ended up going into a long term relationship or even got married to their "first love", only to then start punting. If they get to meet a real GFE type girl early on, that's when shit can get serious real quick.
How is having sex with another woman behind your partner's back not cheating? I reckon most partners would see cheating with a prostitute just as bad, if not worse than a fling from tinder or the like, in fact, many would see it even worse based purely on her (the partner) perceived lack of values/moral of women who sell sex for money and men who pay for it (their husband & father of the children).
No judgment here... But just call it what it is, you're having sex with a prostitute behind your partner's back.
Of course it’s cheating. But be discreet and keep it to yourself. Don’t hurt your family.
Exactly, it is what it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sydboy65
Relationships, marriages, jobs, projects etc are underpinned by legal and psychological contracts.
Legal contracts stipulate in written form the basis and conditions of the relationship. Psychological contracts on the other hand is the unwritten rules of the agreement, the informal commitments, the expectations, the assumptions, and the understanding that forms the partnership and/or relationship.
Imagine asking your employer permission to leave work for several hours a day to perform paid work for another company. I’m sure that would go down well with them.
Cheating is simply a lack of respect, integrity, and values.
However, if consent is given then technically it’s not cheating.
Physically, it's a yes. Emotionally, it's a yes. Overall in majority of cases, the answer boils down to a yes.
Well..... YMMV?😂
If you have a partner, can’t find any excuses for ‘No’, unless she/he clearly knew it.
Depends on your "contract" with your partner.. i would say if you have never discuss this before... then its best to assume that you are cheating.
Cheating is defined differently by everyone, but if you don't want your partner to find out about it then there's your answer.
"I was at the gym"Quote:
Originally Posted by priapus1966
It's not only cheating. It's a crime.
Go to the church and confess and repent your sin.
Punish yourself by working for free cleaning public toilets.
Washing the filth could also cleanse and detox your soul.
I equate punting to be at the same level as seeing a doctor or a physio for a medical problem. You go in, pay for a service, get "treated", and then leave.
I often its more moral and ethical if you treat punting as an errand. When you get horny its wrong if you start flirting with other women, have a mistress, find different girls behind your wife etc. You are establishing emotional connections with other people and when you do get caught the whole situation hurts everyone.
I know lots of my friends who punt once a month, get their balls drained, go back to their family, hang out with their kids, love their wives etc
Grief is the price we pay for love and STIs is the price we pay for b/b sex.
Punting is not cheating, it's relaxation therapy..
Punting is being unfaithful. Supposedly physical infidelity (doing it for the sex) is easier for marriages to recover from than emotional infidelity (doing it because you love them). As long as you’re not in love with your regular ML/WL(s) then it’s a less serious form of cheating.
Ask your wife or girlfriend. The only opinion that matters in this question.