Story with a WL

Just calm down and don't hurt yourself!

I had a ML "girlfriend" for a while. I was lucky. Only lost $1,000 or so. Could have been worse. I know some guys have happy relationships?

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Originally Posted by harry444

I had a ML "girlfriend" for a while. I was lucky. Only lost $1,000 or so. Could have been worse. I know some guys have happy relationships?

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Did she approach?

Hard to call them a girlfriend if you still think that spending money on them is a "loss". That's classic transaction mindset, meaning you still consider her a whore no matter what.

When guys believe they can change a prostitute, massage girl or stripper into a really good girlfriend then they're living in a fantasy world or just desperate and lonely. Many of these girls have personal, financial or mental health issues. Some carry baggage such as kids from previous relationships, secret boyfriends or other guys following them. Best to look outside for a genuine girlfriend or you will lose big time or be a wreck in the end.

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Originally Posted by cuteguy

When guys believe they can change a prostitute, massage girl or stripper into a really good girlfriend then they're living in a fantasy world or just desperate and lonely. Many of these girls have personal, financial or mental health issues. Some carry baggage such as kids from previous relationships, secret boyfriends or other guys following them. Best to look outside for a genuine girlfriend or you will lose big time or be a wreck in the end.

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My biggest fear would be they're ability n instincts to be a proper nuturing mothers. If you had kids n neither of you had the skills the whole shit cycle starts all over again. Kids being the innocent victims.