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is it generally an un-written rule that if a Caucasian girl meets you, you will have to fork out $500 ? for $500, is it also assumed you're going to get something, or do they ask something even if you meet for just drinks ? i'm new to this SB thing and trying to work out the proper etiquette
It’s up to the girl but I always ask what does the 500 get me and how long they will normally tell you what the expectation isQuote:
Originally Posted by Gavinator
does she ask for it right away when u ask to meet, or does it happen during ? and the meet is at your place, or will she ask you back to her place and then ask for $500 ? sorry, i'm a newbie at this and don't wish for any awkwardness.
I'm down to 30c from a 100c and nothing - most popular person on the site by over 30 messages now - dont know how anyone finds real girls on there for less than a couple of hundred dollars
I commend you on your ability to weed out the real ones :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Rusty Russ
I was about to buy credits on Secret Benefits and you have just made me have second thoughts. thank you for that though, you might have saved me some money. it sounds like more trouble than it is worth.Quote:
Originally Posted by joeblow251
I vary rarely answer if the girl msgs me firstQuote:
Originally Posted by joeblow251
If I see a girl that I like I look at their profile then favourite them if they then visit my profile and favourite me i will msg them
This seems to be the best method I get shitloads of msgs from gorgeous girls but I never answer the msg if they haven’t viewed my profile, I also have in my profile written what I am looking for - you can’t say sex anything like that but you can get the msg across using emojis and hints
And then at the end of the day I guess if they find some attraction they will answer my msg or not
So I guess it’s like them walking if they dont like what they see and read
did you put your pictures up ? did you do the verification video ? i have not done any, but still got 4 messages. should i pay to read them messages ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rusty Russ
I definitely wouldn’t read msgs from someone if they can’t see you why would they want to ?( would you want to read the msgs if the girl didn’t have pictures?)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gavinator
It’s like punting there has to be something to make them want to contact you what you have put in your profile and the the pictures you use
Yes I have pictures and a verification video on there
I have a few pictures well dressed so they can clearly see my face
As I said earlier it’s mostly common sense
When you get a reply just chat to them normally ask them what they are looking for and what kind of reward they require and what you get for the reward
are there any on there that might not be after a reward ? or are they all money-grabbers ?
What else would they be after?
Money rules on these sites
They are all after money. You might get an odd 1 o 2 that just want to be treated to a nice night out at a good restaurant or a wine bar. Clothes etc.
But think about what you are looking for.
\Its sex isn't it?
And just to reiterate.........DON'T pay them to just meet up for a drink or chat.
Message the ones you like. Tell them what you want and ask them what they are looking for and if its way too ridiculous....say bye bye.
If they are reasonable then negotiate a bit. You will be surprised.
This is my advice from SA. Have not really been on other sites
should i respond to those who are not verified ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rusty Russ
The verification only proves the photos and the girl are the same personQuote:
Originally Posted by NuruGuru
You just have to go with your gut feeling
Verification doesn’t mean they will respond to you msging back
over the last few days, i have had an extensive and exhaustive look at profiles on Secret Benefits. a lot of young girls in here, great bodies ... all looking for sugar daddies. no one wants to work hard, everyone going for the easy money, selling their looks like hookers to the highest bidder, some of them having more than one sugar daddy ... this world is fucked ...
if you have a hot girlfriend, and if she disappears on you for a few hours some days, you can be sure you know what she is up to.
i just tried to buy some credits on Secret Benefits. apparently you can only buy credits now with Bitcoin ? wtf ???Quote:
Originally Posted by Rusty Russ
It just let me use my debit cardQuote:
Originally Posted by Gavinator
It took a couple of goes for me for it finally to go through - the bank was declining it as it was protecting me - me thinks the bank knows 90% are bots on the site :)
i also just tried. Bitcoin is the only payment method available, please contact support to arrange payment by Bitcoin.
Maybe with all the problems with credit cards they have swapped to bitcoin only - shows how dodgy they are - I know some have gotten some decent girls off the site - I'm yet to get a reply from any that I replied too when they initiated the contact - with only 30 credits left wont be doing any more with the site - good luck everyone else that tries
i've just tried again right now, and it is Bitcoin only. nah, i'm giving up on the site.
Send them an email - they changed it to some other method for me - that new method didnt work either, then they put it back to CC, then it finally went through - not sure why they dont have any of the optionsQuote:
Originally Posted by Gavinator
i'm not desperate to join Secret Benefits, esp after i hear the response from the girls is slow or even non-existentQuote:
Originally Posted by joeblow251
So after a couple of heated phone calls last night it seems that someone put an add on Locanto with Sally’s phone number and I got the blame she said she reported it to the police and also reported me for this thread
But I have never said her real name or given her phone number to anyone despite the numerous pm requests
This post doesn’t worry me because there is nothing that isnt true that I said about her and only gave her username on secret benefits
The thing that pisses me off is that fact I gave you guys a good tip and some retard t msg her on secret benefits and told her about the thread
She did tell me the names of a couple of people who msgs on secret benefits and gave the tread about her
So no more leads from me
nothing for you to worry. do you think QLD cops will help queers, tranny and faggot type people ?