To date or not date a ML

Dating a lady of the night is stupid your wife will disagree and leave you! Just pay and go young men!

Spend a few hours in a massage parlour and see for yourself the men your favorite ML goes in and out of the room with.

If that doesn't turn you off what would?

I want to fuck m/l's & w/l's. Not date them.

If the ladies are of the ilk where they can sell themselves, provide debauched extras for more $$$ multiple times daily they'd have no qualms about destroying the sad n lonely.

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Originally Posted by cuteguy

The real problem is women's current attitudes towards men. Social media and feminism have made Western women believe they hold the power when it comes to dating and that men should bow to them even when they own nothing or very little or are single mums with baggage.

Some men fear rejection or are too intimidated by aggressive and liberal thinking women that they feel approaching a massage or working girl may be a safer way that gives them what they want.

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You gotta get with the times bro.

The main problem I see for the older punters (veterans, baby boomers, gen-x) is that they are looking for a 1980's type love/relationship in a 2020's incel-narcissistic hookup culture. The times, society, people, women, and relationships have changed. It's all fucked and we just gotta roll with the slaps.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eaDqJohZM_A

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Originally Posted by RandT123138

Ok I have been thinking about this for a week now! Last week I seen one of my regular ML's I haven't seen for a while, and she asked if I have ever dated a Asian girl before! I was surprised by her asking if I wanted to see her and if it works out to do the whole bf/gf thing! Is this genuine?

I don't know, didn't think I'll ever go down this path though or want too, she is gorgeous has a great personality though, and always really playful when I have seen her!

I need advice? Help? Haha do I or don't I!

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let's keep it simple and clear ...
any girl who is active ml or wl cannot be in real relationship. can be a good friend or a great lover but not girlfriend ... real relationship with active ml / wl doesn't exist, anyone who believe the opposite 'on this specific topic' living a lie.
but if she stops this work and change her life completely then yes can be even your wife if you 'really' like her.

if is just for a date [ as lover / sponsor / sugar daddy / papa ], have fun, go out, traveling together and nothing else ... then for sure can happen and enjoy it in full.

We should ask Violet in to do her Phd thesis on "Long Term Relationship Between Punters and WLs".

If you don't know who is Violet don't ask.

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Originally Posted by Sibon

We should ask Violet in to do her Phd thesis on "Long Term Relationship Between Punters and WLs".

If you don't know who is Violet don't ask.

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I'll pay this comment.

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Originally Posted by Sibon

Spend a few hours in a massage parlour and see for yourself the men your favorite ML goes in and out of the room with.

If that doesn't turn you off what would?

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So true. I was in a waiting room and the sight of seeing all kinda men coming and going, was quite an experience ( for a second I thought the girl whom I wanted to see was just fucking this guy who hasn't shaved for two weeks, didn't even bother to wear shoes and let me keep the rest to my self as don't want to seen as targeting one particular ethnicity) In fact, I couldn't get myself into it and I walked out.

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Originally Posted by personaa

So true. I was in a waiting room and the sight of seeing all kinda men coming and going, was quite an experience ( for a second I thought the girl whom I wanted to see was just fucking this guy who hasn't shaved for two weeks, didn't even bother to wear shoes and let me keep the rest to my self as don't want to seen as targeting one particular ethnicity) In fact, I couldn't get myself into it and I walked out.

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It’s disgusting isn’t it. Worst part is it takes its toll on these ladies. And then these slobs complain about the service. Fucken sandal wearing grots, I can’t stand seeing these losers.

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Originally Posted by personaa

So true. I was in a waiting room and the sight of seeing all kinda men coming and going, was quite an experience ( for a second I thought the girl whom I wanted to see was just fucking this guy who hasn't shaved for two weeks, didn't even bother to wear shoes and let me keep the rest to my self as don't want to seen as targeting one particular ethnicity) In fact, I couldn't get myself into it and I walked out.

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This is why I prefer morning's or early to see wl/ml.
They'll be fresh at least or no waiting to see them. However where were few occasions despite bookings I have to wait and at the massage parlour there isn't much privacy, there's a gap at the ceiling and even with load music you can still hear conversations or their moans.
So the ml I was seeing I hear her moans while I waited outside.

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Originally Posted by Ghost2hauntU

It’s disgusting isn’t it. Worst part is it takes its toll on these ladies. And then these slobs complain about the service. Fucken sandal wearing grots, I can’t stand seeing these losers.

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It's a shame isn't it, half of the ladies are stunners and have to put up with duds and losers.

I was always thinking that a WL pockets way above most people per day and they should give a good service! but that day when I saw a guy walking out with Sandals and probably unshaved for 2-3 weeks, I just told myself they should do get more money to share an intimate moment even for 30 minutes. It is not easy at all. No way. I know myself that I do present myself reasonably well and I am sure many of you do the same but there are plenty out there who believe their money should buy everything regardless of the way they present themselves

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Originally Posted by personaa

I was always thinking that a WL pockets way above most people per day and they should give a good service! but that day when I saw a guy walking out with Sandals and probably unshaved for 2-3 weeks, I just told myself they should do get more money to share an intimate moment even for 30 minutes. It is not easy at all. No way. I know myself that I do present myself reasonably well and I am sure many of you do the same but there are plenty out there who believe their money should buy everything regardless of the way they present themselves

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Couldn’t agree more. I am not Brad Pitt but I look after myself and present very well. I treat them well and don’t expect anything unusual or extreme.

I was once leaving the brothel after a great time with my regular and I heard the customer for xxx go to room whatever. I made the mistake of looking back and I saw possibly the biggest person I had ever seen , huge beard, sandals totally unkept. I am not exaggerating. I left the brothel shocked and upset for her.

To add to it I also see her outside the brothel frequently which creates a certain friendship like bond. She told me that night via text that these guys are ok because they just lay down and expect her to do all the work. She just makes sure to give them a good clean in the shower.

Not easy nevertheless

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Originally Posted by personaa

I was always thinking that a WL pockets way above most people per day and they should give a good service! but that day when I saw a guy walking out with Sandals and probably unshaved for 2-3 weeks, I just told myself they should do get more money to share an intimate moment even for 30 minutes. It is not easy at all. No way. I know myself that I do present myself reasonably well and I am sure many of you do the same but there are plenty out there who believe their money should buy everything regardless of the way they present themselves

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Some of these ladies especially the managersorore booked girls would take home minimum 800 a day so yeah these slobs don't give 2 fcks which is pathetic if U low standard of self worth. There will come a day that of you look chat and no shoes unclean there will be no entry just like no there's no indian signs on shops,there never used to be.

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Originally Posted by personaa

I was always thinking that a WL pockets way above most people per day and they should give a good service! but that day when I saw a guy walking out with Sandals and probably unshaved for 2-3 weeks, I just told myself they should do get more money to share an intimate moment even for 30 minutes. It is not easy at all. No way. I know myself that I do present myself reasonably well and I am sure many of you do the same but there are plenty out there who believe their money should buy everything regardless of the way they present themselves

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These fucken surfie and Nordic dudes are giving all other sandal wearing ethnic groups a bad name!

Hahaha, that was Gold Double_Adapter!

Thank you for the feedback and enlightenment! Cleared up for me! But I have decided the yeah....... nah! Don't need the hassle and drama! If it was a fwb kind of arrangement then yeah, nothing serious!

These threads were every man and his dog has a dig a blokes that wear brown sandals is completely fucked. Give the poor guys a fair go! Next thing you know chicks will start complaining and refuse to see blokes riding scooters!

I always wear brown sandals. no need to do up the laces on the way out.Sometimes I keep them on.

I would just say yes and get the freebies but don't take it seriously just think of it as punting outside the shop with freebies.

There’s studies, There’s literally statistics that show That promiscuous women are not good long-term partners for marriage.

That’s all I’m saying, so they are not the best bet to commit to. I’m not saying don’t hook up with them, I’m not saying Don’t show them Attention, I’m not saying don’t spend time with them.. But when it comes to marriage or something very serious They are just not the best candidates unfortunately, And that’s a statistical fact that is not my opinion, it is not misogynistic, that is realistic.

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Originally Posted by NightShift

There’s studies, There’s literally statistics that show That promiscuous women are not good long-term partners for marriage.

That’s all I’m saying, so they are not the best bet to commit to. I’m not saying don’t hook up with them, I’m not saying Don’t show them Attention, I’m not saying don’t spend time with them.. But when it comes to marriage or something very serious They are just not the best candidates unfortunately, And that’s a statistical fact that is not my opinion, it is not misogynistic, that is realistic.

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Given that 50%-60% of 'normal' marriages end up in divorce I'm not sure if the alternative picture you are painting is any better...

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Given that 50%-60% of 'normal' marriages end up in divorce I'm not sure if the alternative picture you are painting is any better...

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How many of those marriages ended because Hubby got caught paying for it.

i think its just best not to have feelings for MLs or WLs.