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I think asking a WL “do you like your job” is too personal. You’re only there to have fun with them. Not get into their mind.
Add another zero then come back to me and I’d say the same thing. Write the debt off.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark Cassin
Generous guy to lend money like that. If you have the disposable income to do so, not gonna criticise anyone for doing that. It’s your money and your decision.
I was stupid enough to ask a WL or ML the question about how they feel about their work. The girl snapped at me and said ‘what do you think??’ Basically sabotaged my own session from the beginning. Angry BJ doesn’t do it for me lol
Generally speaking, never ask a woman a question unless you already know the answer. Even then it's not necessarily a good idea.
167 is still going...Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost2hauntU
There’s only one question I ever ask one WL and the answer is always indirectly no. Consequently I’ve given up asking. Well for now. Besides, who knows what destiny brings?Quote:
Originally Posted by priapus1966
I really need some friends
Lol if she is that good, I would barter free sex in exchange for debt forgiveness...
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So many potential lessons beginner punters should know
1. Do not ask a WL if she likes her job. Very silly. She would prefer an easier job. She wishes she didn't have a debt if she has one
2. Do not ask if she needs money or if you can help her
Only beginners give off a white knight vibe
3. Pay for your punting session and get out. By all means have a business friendship, but the clear boundary is that you are paying for sex, and you stay out of each other's lives
Same themes over and over
The lessons are worth repeating, as the same mistakes happen over and over
Well its like walking into any old shop. Do you ask the attendant if they have financial difficulties and then lend them money? No...u pay for what u buy and then ur off...
This is no different...
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It’s 100 percent a job for WL’s and nothing else. We are just punting moths attracted to their flame.
Get too close you’ll surely get burnt.
Keep your distance and do not become attached.
We’ve all been singed and unfortunately some need a bigger burn to learn the lesson.
I read it as she doesn't want to pay you back the money so she stopped seeing you. You gotta understand that you had a dollar value on your back. She could potentially get more "loans" from you and still not have to pay any of it back. That would've kept her seeing you, even though she knew she "owed" you a lot more money. She already got $2600 from you, but if she could potentially get $2000 more in loans from you, she'll continue.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark Cassin
Once it becomes clear that she could no longer get more out of you, then the dollar value on your back turns a very deep negative, the total amount she's borrowed from you. It makes perfect financial sense for her to stop seeing you.
Don't be so hard on yourself thinking she don't like you or her job. You been played from the first $$$ you loaned her, that is all.
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Originally Posted by Tickersnicker
I understand your point, Tickersnicker. It's true that a person could choose to go either way - especially if they have the option - but when it comes down to it, I think that we all want to be part of something bigger than ourselves. We all want to belong and make our mark in this world in some way or another.
So a higher priced escort in the $700 ph range went to university and got her degree.
I knew it’d never match her WL income. I even told her so. Guess what, she never commenced her new profession.
So now she’s been working as an escort for twelve years. Owns her own two story house. Has a nice car, holidays, etc.
I’d say she likes her job.