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People change after years in a relationship, kids, stress etc. Sometimes people find they still love their partner , but no longer connect sexually or even do it at all anymore.
If that happens, you gotta make a decision. Are you willing to bury your drive until you go nuts? Or simply take a 30 minute trip every once in a while on the quiet.
At that point it's really a mental health service 🤣
Best answer in this post made me laugh so much because its true and honest. HeheheQuote:
Originally Posted by thefatness
I've forever found the act of just going (sneaking) into a brothel exciting n intoxicating just in itself. Never mind the actual act . Shutting out the real world for a while. Even in my single days I had no trouble going from date to "broth", sex or no sex. Even before.
In a loveless marriage and desire intimacy. I'm relatively new to punting but already I realise I'm probably not gonna find that via punting though.
Bored my whole life
1 sexless cold marriage
Many cold loveless shit WHITE GF
Bonking carelessly sometimes is great
The WL that travel here are all great... I've connected with several as mates... Saul Goodman
You will and won't but as an end game possibly never.. I have little heart left but have met several really lovely WL, especially Korean and VietsQuote:
Originally Posted by PastryCroissant
Get a dog for love I always say.. my Border Collies are the loves of my life... sadly all gone
Punting is the best of hobbies.
1. The excitement of being a secret squirrel for a day; having your stand by story ready for the 'Oh, Gina said she saw you in Darlinghurst by the old Sony headquarters' comment. The frisson of looking surreptitiously over your shoulder as you dart into a shop door, the cleaning of your phone history. Fantastic.
2. A decent 45 min gym workout, keeping your rhythmn up and holding 45 kilos of PYT up against a wall for minutes on end.
3. Keeping your chat skills up to speed.
4. The dopamine rush of finding an amazing new girl and rogering a hottie you'd never have attracted in your best days.
5. Healthier than cocaine, cheaper than a boat.
I started punting by accident 20 something years ago after doing the city to surf and going for, i thought, a legit massage later that day. A beautiful Thai girl gave me a great massage and a BBBJ while shoving her finger up my ass. Never looked back really.
There are a couple of reasons I punt. First probably being I get to fuck girls that would otherwise be out of my league and try things out to work through any kinks I like the look of.
Second big reason is I’m not the most social person and I really struggle with the small talk bullshit that is most people hanging out. Having worked in Hospo for a long time I hate bars and I can’t stand gyms with the preening (first time in a gym had some muscle bros in spandex shouting out “come on baby give me one more!” To each other and I had to leave).
Also have a child with my ex that we co-parent and most women I’ve seen since being single haven’t been able to deal with the fact that my child comes first. They all say they love what a great father I am until they actually realise what that means.
It’s convenient, it puts a smile on your face.
Been there and done that.
Yes, Border Collies are a very special breed. We had to say goodbye one final time to Billy just before Christmas. He bought more to our family that I could ever explain. But shugienvc ,I know you know.Quote:
Originally Posted by shugienyc
I'm not gonna lie , the last comments since mine are actually awesome to read. Very honest and human.
Thanks for your honesty lads. I have a minuscule circle of mates (sick of all the bs most people bring) but even with them the topic of reasons to step out of a relationship has never been among them. Though now since exploring the world of punting I'm wondering who else has .
Wierd thing is it's exactly what I've found. After my first a few weeks ago I haven't felt this normal in probably a decade. Didn't expect it, but welcome it.Quote:
Originally Posted by fixatedperson
100%. I've never been bad with women but always found it hard to snag randoms probably because I was a shit liar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daffy
As for the gym don't let that ruin it for ya bud. Nothing better than seeing yourself become strong . Work out frustration in a way other than a punt lol. Just train after hours
This is a good thread. More heartfelt honesty here than the shit that women dribble amongst themselves.
My whole life I’ve always cheated on every woman I’ve been with. Recently I was caught out and all I said was “I’ll do exactly as I please, either accept it or I’ll leave”.
So she accepted it.
(Maybe the next one won’t)
I was in Chatswood buying this Thai ML some clothes and after she’d selected a few pairs of jeans, some tops and pullovers we were at the counter and I was paying. I turned around and there’s this woman with her daughter behind us in the que waiting to pay, I looked at her and she at me and I said nothing and she said nothing. I thought “I know you…” She’s been to my place and is a bestie of my GF.
Busted big time, but then you’ve read what I had to say about it when I was confronted. Then a month later she’s back visiting my house, not to see me of course but my GF and we didn’t speak just a nod and that was it.
I don't trust a red blooded male that wouldn't like this.Quote:
Originally Posted by thefatness
For me, this is my self care.
This is straight up cold blooded lolQuote:
Originally Posted by justincase
Salute
Sounds like a sad as fuck life to me...Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterPaizuri
Hope your perspective improves Vincent.
Guys always got a story. Huge imaginationQuote:
Originally Posted by HiredGoon
I just enjoy it. I have always had pretty demanding jobs with a good income but punting isn't to relax or relieve stress. I do it because I thoroughly enjoy an hour or so with a woman I like. And then I enjoy the fact that I can leave whenever I like. It beats the crap out of golf.
+1. But I do enjoy golf also 🏌*♂️🏌*♂️Quote:
Originally Posted by priapus1966
Hit the nail on the head. I used to think I did it because I liked variety, but that was a lie I kept telling myself. All I did was go back to my regular girls.Quote:
Originally Posted by priapus1966
So yeah, you're right. We just do it because we like it.
I recently got a gf who is much younger than me, who looks better than most of the girls at ginza. Getting the full GFE experience but im still itching for a regular punt and regularly come on here to read posts and look at the ginza roster lol
Really? That’s interesting, can I ask how did you pick her up?Quote:
Originally Posted by kpopcity
It comes with age.Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterPaizuri
Would you rather I said I kowtow to a woman?Quote:
Originally Posted by HiredGoon
At least my stories are fact AND I don’t sit behind a plethora of sock accounts wearing a different one for every viewpoint I want to project.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rlks1