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People change after years in a relationship, kids, stress etc. Sometimes people find they still love their partner , but no longer connect sexually or even do it at all anymore.
If that happens, you gotta make a decision. Are you willing to bury your drive until you go nuts? Or simply take a 30 minute trip every once in a while on the quiet.
At that point it's really a mental health service 🤣
Best answer in this post made me laugh so much because its true and honest. HeheheQuote:
Originally Posted by thefatness
I've forever found the act of just going (sneaking) into a brothel exciting n intoxicating just in itself. Never mind the actual act . Shutting out the real world for a while. Even in my single days I had no trouble going from date to "broth", sex or no sex. Even before.
In a loveless marriage and desire intimacy. I'm relatively new to punting but already I realise I'm probably not gonna find that via punting though.
Bored my whole life
1 sexless cold marriage
Many cold loveless shit WHITE GF
Bonking carelessly sometimes is great
The WL that travel here are all great... I've connected with several as mates... Saul Goodman
You will and won't but as an end game possibly never.. I have little heart left but have met several really lovely WL, especially Korean and VietsQuote:
Originally Posted by PastryCroissant
Get a dog for love I always say.. my Border Collies are the loves of my life... sadly all gone
Punting is the best of hobbies.
1. The excitement of being a secret squirrel for a day; having your stand by story ready for the 'Oh, Gina said she saw you in Darlinghurst by the old Sony headquarters' comment. The frisson of looking surreptitiously over your shoulder as you dart into a shop door, the cleaning of your phone history. Fantastic.
2. A decent 45 min gym workout, keeping your rhythmn up and holding 45 kilos of PYT up against a wall for minutes on end.
3. Keeping your chat skills up to speed.
4. The dopamine rush of finding an amazing new girl and rogering a hottie you'd never have attracted in your best days.
5. Healthier than cocaine, cheaper than a boat.
I started punting by accident 20 something years ago after doing the city to surf and going for, i thought, a legit massage later that day. A beautiful Thai girl gave me a great massage and a BBBJ while shoving her finger up my ass. Never looked back really.
There are a couple of reasons I punt. First probably being I get to fuck girls that would otherwise be out of my league and try things out to work through any kinks I like the look of.
Second big reason is I’m not the most social person and I really struggle with the small talk bullshit that is most people hanging out. Having worked in Hospo for a long time I hate bars and I can’t stand gyms with the preening (first time in a gym had some muscle bros in spandex shouting out “come on baby give me one more!” To each other and I had to leave).
Also have a child with my ex that we co-parent and most women I’ve seen since being single haven’t been able to deal with the fact that my child comes first. They all say they love what a great father I am until they actually realise what that means.
It’s convenient, it puts a smile on your face and you leave feeling radiant. Plus there’s a lot of fond memories to remember.
For those who have done most things in life and are still busy, allocating a set period of time for sexual pleasure is logical.
Yes I date some but isn’t it better to have sex first and a relationship second? It’s no use dating a woman and finding out later the sex is bland, that she doesn’t perform or you don’t hit it off in bed and let’s face it, if you are a punter with experience you get better with said experience, yes?
So punting is a way of maintaining a certain level of sexual performance.
Last time I was at that locale, there was this old Asian guy in a lambo picking up a fifty something Asian woman from the front that shop. I thought “where’s his appetite for younger pussy”? Surely the car is enough attraction?Quote:
Originally Posted by DayMan69
Yes, Border Collies are a very special breed. We had to say goodbye one final time to Billy just before Christmas. He bought more to our family that I could ever explain. But shugienvc ,I know you know.Quote:
Originally Posted by shugienyc
I'm not gonna lie , the last comments since mine are actually awesome to read. Very honest and human.
Thanks for your honesty lads. I have a minuscule circle of mates (sick of all the bs most people bring) but even with them the topic of reasons to step out of a relationship has never been among them. Though now since exploring the world of punting I'm wondering who else has .
Wierd thing is it's exactly what I've found. After my first a few weeks ago I haven't felt this normal in probably a decade. Didn't expect it, but welcome it.Quote:
Originally Posted by fixatedperson
100%. I've never been bad with women but always found it hard to snag randoms probably because I was a shit liar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daffy
As for the gym don't let that ruin it for ya bud. Nothing better than seeing yourself become strong . Work out frustration in a way other than a punt lol. Just train after hours