Great post. But, what are the psychologist's solutions?Quote:
Originally Posted by BrainSex
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Great post. But, what are the psychologist's solutions?Quote:
Originally Posted by BrainSex
I am here to report abject failure.
You punt less when
-you are in love
-you believe in monogamous relationship
-you are busy with work
-you are busy running a business trying to make a profit
-you found a new addiction
-you are getting free sex
-you are preoccupied chasing a girl
-you are overseas esp in a country where you are not interested in the girls
-you realise you cannot afford to punt
-you have been getting bad punts consecutively numerous times in a row
-you start to get a night job if you punt at night
-you start to get a day job if you punt in the day
-you got fired from a job
-it is rainy and cold outside
-more than one WL insulted you for anything like cumming too fast, dick too small, have you come yet?
-someone discovered your punting habit and threatening to tell others if you dont stop
-you met your coworker or boss in a punt shop
-your wive left a tracking device in your car and ask did you have a meeting at 22 Brodie again?
-you caught STD
-you just lost a lot of money and you are trying to stave off further losses by punting less
-there is a big personal problem that requires your attention
Pretty good CL.Quote:
Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
From my Experience it is very hard to tottally give up and most will fail.
I am not trying to quit, it just that I am very happy and occupied with quite a few things on my plate and I guess I am also very happy with my partner now.
I mean we guys are very selfish I know I am. Movies is a little bit different as its always new and entertaining but I know what CL mean. If your having great sex and always knew what your getting and very happy with it than you stay until you get bored and look again :) like some Punters here seem like they fall in love with WL if they can only thing in seeing one WL only.
How is my man whore :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Max Impact
This is a turn off and yes, most of us have experience with some on your list.Quote:
Originally Posted by RoyalFlush
I am not looking to quit but I guess I will make the most of what I have now that I dont feel like to punt even there is so many hottie out there.
There is so many on my hitlist in the past but I will make the most of it in what I have now.
Maybe I will go back punting in the future, thats the reason I still visit this site but getting very rare due to my busy schedule and what I have on my plate now, sure I still have contact but I guess they will also move on and I dont have regrets as I am sure if I go back to punting there is so many new Hottie :)
Does sending pornographic messages to the object of my addiction count as abstinence? Please say yes.
I was in a pretty similar situation a couple of months ago and got into punting out of curiosity as well. I was addicted for a while until I got too busy with uni work and didn't have the chance to go out that often which meant that I couldn't punt and after a few weeks of this I felt less desire to punt that often. Thinking about how much money I had, how much a punt would cost, how much I would have left for other things and comparing their value and worth also helped.Quote:
Originally Posted by kobe7
Pretty much I would recommend purposely making yourself too busy to go out and punt and make excuses for why you can't/shouldn't. Masturbating more could help as well as it could prevent you from thinking of punting as a necessary means of relieving yourself and the longer you go without relieving yourself the more you're going to feel like wanting to punt as you would think about the pleasure from it more. To help change your perspective on women I guess try and get into good conversation with the ML/WL and focus more on the conversation. Not sure if these will actually help or not.
Wow, all these young guys in their early twenties, still in uni and with the funds to support a punting habit... Sounds like a good situation to me in if you ask me. :shout:
Every time you get the urge to punt, get your punting $$$$$.....stand on it......have a wank.....when the job is done pick up your punting $$$.
Do this a few times and watch your $$$ grow.
Alternatively.....
Tried this a couple of times, but 25min later.....
Find a favourate girl and keep seeing her for a crazy amount of hours. Afterwards you are likely to lose interest in all other girls. That's how I quit.
Go to a church forum instead !!!
I did try that and end up a friend of mine showed me more hotter girl and i keep going till today ...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr. Who
Have a kid, no really.. Well u should get married first. During my wife pregnancy year and a few months after that, i stopped COMPLETELY from all kinda of punting. Its just feel like responsibility urge to pamper her more. Well yea the punting is coming back again, but now it has been severly decreased. This is also true for most of my married friend i know.
“And it's been the ruin of many a poor man
Dear God, I know I was one…”
https://youtu.be/xjHmXq0wdl4?si=ZlMnJ_fWKkekYUu6
I have ADHD and am constantly looking for pleasure and dopamine. I'm going to be medicated for it soon and I am hoping this reduces the desire to punt all the time (or, every week or two anyway). It's not just a desire for punting, it's sexual desire/energy generally and self soothing. Sometimes I wonder if most of the people on this forum have it. Or just don't look inside themselves much.
Seeing rosters of the more trustworthy operators and their hot new talent doesn't help quitting either
I find reading this forum addictive and encourages me to punt, don’t read the forum
start doing weights, when the urge hits just slams a few sets and tire it out of you
also find a creative hobby, use the right side of your brain it makes you feel a lot more balanced;
I have several hobbies and rotate between the lot of them. Some I make money from and that’s a plus but punting is a loss making venture.
Reasons to stop punting:
1) No return on the investment.
2) It’s a hit and miss venture.
3) Law of diminishing returns.
4) Bragging rights, only here possibly and to a select few friends.
5) Possible health risks.
6) Sooner or later the “smoke & mirrors” facade disappears and reality sets in.
7) Respect, it doesn’t matter how much money you throw at them you cannot buy anything except sex.
Exactly. My thought process:Quote:
Originally Posted by Why???
1.) urge to punt
2.) watch porn and have a wank OR do something else like catch up with friends for dinner or coffee
Maybe I'll punt in the future but don't see myself going back anytime soon.
I have been punting for 18 years, and in that time I have gone through phases where I have felt bad about the experience (generally due to a dud punt) or reflecting on the amount of money I have spent. Those thoughts have lead me on occasion to think about “quitting”.
However as I have got older my perspective has changed. In part due to the help of this forum (finding reliable venues / operators in particular) I very rarely if ever have a bad punt. That has been a huge help. The experiences these days are consistently excellent and are a major source of pleasure and fun in my life. As I have got older I my income has also increased a lot, so while I am also spending a fair bit on punting, it doesn’t put a dent in any of my financial goals in life. Sure I could save the money and spend it on something else, or pay the house off sooner etc, but would that bring me more pleasure? I doubt it.
I also reflect frequently on the fact that one day I will be dead - who knows how far off that will be, but one day or later it will arrive. When that day comes I don’t think for a moment that I will regret all of the incredible sexual experiences I have had as a result of punting. At that same point I won’t give two shits about how much money I have in the bank.