How to quit Punting?

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Originally Posted by BrainSex

The perception that we get through punting is the 'always on' availability for sex. Even if we got other parlour for our favourite girl and she's not available, then we will accept the next available girl for our fix.

Sadly, real life and real life gf are good but just not this available.

So, giving up punting means giving up this always available fantasy.

Over the years, I have been to see a couple of psychologists about this addiction and their solutions do work for about two yeas and then I drift back.

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Great post. But, what are the psychologist's solutions?

I am here to report abject failure.

You punt less when
-you are in love
-you believe in monogamous relationship
-you are busy with work
-you are busy running a business trying to make a profit
-you found a new addiction
-you are getting free sex
-you are preoccupied chasing a girl
-you are overseas esp in a country where you are not interested in the girls
-you realise you cannot afford to punt
-you have been getting bad punts consecutively numerous times in a row
-you start to get a night job if you punt at night
-you start to get a day job if you punt in the day
-you got fired from a job
-it is rainy and cold outside
-more than one WL insulted you for anything like cumming too fast, dick too small, have you come yet?
-someone discovered your punting habit and threatening to tell others if you dont stop
-you met your coworker or boss in a punt shop
-your wive left a tracking device in your car and ask did you have a meeting at 22 Brodie again?
-you caught STD
-you just lost a lot of money and you are trying to stave off further losses by punting less
-there is a big personal problem that requires your attention

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Originally Posted by CunningLinguist

I think of seeing a WL as like going to see a movie, only better.
You pay your money and for the allotted time your are entertained and get to live out your dreams and immerse yourself into a reality of your choosing.
You get to interact with a young beautiful girl who will do almost anything for you.
Once the time is up you are back in the real world and can have fond memories, just like a good movie.
Afterwards you know it was all an act, but during the session/movie you let yourself be fooled to get the most out of it!
I wonder what is on now, might have time to catch a "movie" before dinner ...

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Pretty good CL.

From my Experience it is very hard to tottally give up and most will fail.
I am not trying to quit, it just that I am very happy and occupied with quite a few things on my plate and I guess I am also very happy with my partner now.
I mean we guys are very selfish I know I am. Movies is a little bit different as its always new and entertaining but I know what CL mean. If your having great sex and always knew what your getting and very happy with it than you stay until you get bored and look again :) like some Punters here seem like they fall in love with WL if they can only thing in seeing one WL only.

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Originally Posted by Max Impact

Therapist will come back we hope!

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How is my man whore :)

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Originally Posted by RoyalFlush

You punt less when
-you are in love
-you believe in monogamous relationship
-you are busy with work
-you are busy running a business trying to make a profit
-you found a new addiction
-you are getting free sex
-you are preoccupied chasing a girl
-you are overseas esp in a country where you are not interested in the girls
-you realise you cannot afford to punt
-you have been getting bad punts consecutively numerous times in a row
-you start to get a night job if you punt at night
-you start to get a day job if you punt in the day
-you got fired from a job
-it is rainy and cold outside
-more than one WL insulted you for anything like cumming too fast, dick too small, have you come yet?
-someone discovered your punting habit and threatening to tell others if you dont stop
-you met your coworker or boss in a punt shop
-your wive left a tracking device in your car and ask did you have a meeting at 22 Brodie again?
-you caught STD
-you just lost a lot of money and you are trying to stave off further losses by punting less
-there is a big personal problem that requires your attention

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This is a turn off and yes, most of us have experience with some on your list.

I am not looking to quit but I guess I will make the most of what I have now that I dont feel like to punt even there is so many hottie out there.
There is so many on my hitlist in the past but I will make the most of it in what I have now.

Maybe I will go back punting in the future, thats the reason I still visit this site but getting very rare due to my busy schedule and what I have on my plate now, sure I still have contact but I guess they will also move on and I dont have regrets as I am sure if I go back to punting there is so many new Hottie :)

Does sending pornographic messages to the object of my addiction count as abstinence? Please say yes.

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Originally Posted by kobe7

I have joined this forum for a year now and I think that I became an addict to any Massage Parlours or FS shops. I normally punt more than twice a week even though that I could afford it with my salary . The reason that I wanted to try it is curiousity, but also being used by women e.g. to get boyfriend jealous, money,wits, attention and etc (destiny on how I have met these women).

I am only in my early 20's with a really good mix but also a great job.Its hard for me to get a GF now even some who are interested in me .I have seen a lot of attractive women in the punting scene, I see a different perspective on women now . I value their bodies than thier personality.

Each day, I feel like to punt even though I do feel like going to that specific place. Any advices to quit or limit?

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I was in a pretty similar situation a couple of months ago and got into punting out of curiosity as well. I was addicted for a while until I got too busy with uni work and didn't have the chance to go out that often which meant that I couldn't punt and after a few weeks of this I felt less desire to punt that often. Thinking about how much money I had, how much a punt would cost, how much I would have left for other things and comparing their value and worth also helped.

Pretty much I would recommend purposely making yourself too busy to go out and punt and make excuses for why you can't/shouldn't. Masturbating more could help as well as it could prevent you from thinking of punting as a necessary means of relieving yourself and the longer you go without relieving yourself the more you're going to feel like wanting to punt as you would think about the pleasure from it more. To help change your perspective on women I guess try and get into good conversation with the ML/WL and focus more on the conversation. Not sure if these will actually help or not.

Wow, all these young guys in their early twenties, still in uni and with the funds to support a punting habit... Sounds like a good situation to me in if you ask me. :shout:

Every time you get the urge to punt, get your punting $$$$$.....stand on it......have a wank.....when the job is done pick up your punting $$$.

Do this a few times and watch your $$$ grow.

Alternatively.....

Tried this a couple of times, but 25min later.....

Find a favourate girl and keep seeing her for a crazy amount of hours. Afterwards you are likely to lose interest in all other girls. That's how I quit.

Go to a church forum instead !!!

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Originally Posted by Mr. Who

Find a favourate girl and keep seeing her for a crazy amount of hours. Afterwards you are likely to lose interest in all other girls. That's how I quit.

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I did try that and end up a friend of mine showed me more hotter girl and i keep going till today ...

Have a kid, no really.. Well u should get married first. During my wife pregnancy year and a few months after that, i stopped COMPLETELY from all kinda of punting. Its just feel like responsibility urge to pamper her more. Well yea the punting is coming back again, but now it has been severly decreased. This is also true for most of my married friend i know.