and what if it was the other way around, if your wife/partner PAID another guy to fuck her..is she cheating?Quote:
Originally Posted by loaded
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and what if it was the other way around, if your wife/partner PAID another guy to fuck her..is she cheating?Quote:
Originally Posted by loaded
iseeu, if a wife needs to pay to be sexually satisfied, then the husband could come up with a mutually beneficial agreement, to keep the marriage together.
Agreed ?
Agree on what ???Quote:
Originally Posted by harmony
What is cheating ? Cheating is something you do behind your partner's back ! If the wife is cheating, you wouldn't even know about it !
On the other hand, if you want an agreement, why don't you propose an agreement while you're cheating, why do you have to wait until you found out she's cheating ?
You are steering in a different direction to the initial post and are missing the point of this whole thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by harmony
'to keep the marriage together', why do you assume there is a problem with the marriage? just because a women pays for sexual services (just like a man, who may not get what he wants sexually with his partner), does that mean there is a problem with the marriage (other than sexually)? If that was the case with men paying for sexual services, then every punter on this forum has marriage issues!
Agreed
If both the husband and the wife mutually agree to individually pay other people to fuck them occasionally, then there is no cheating at all
Win - win.
Sometimes people just like variety. I know if plenty of cases where a guy for example just wants the same woman or same type of woman and the woman wants to experience different things. In this case, it's a woman that was a WL, now an ML and her husband knows where she works.
He also has the option of having sex with other women but he doesn't, purely because he is perfectly satisfied with his arrangement with his wife. He doesn't watch or participate at all. He just lets her do her own thing and is secure enough that he doesn't give guys who have had sex with her a hard time about it unless she wants them to go away and they get clingy.
Always wanted to know as I have never been married - do guys cheat because they get bored of their wives (who are still offering sex) or is it because their wives have stopped offering sex?
I imagine its important to recognise the latter, before you choose to marry them.
Obviously this is not easy in practice.
Lol how come ?
They're one of the best Christian music producer in the world ;-)
But yes, the Bible mentions this below:
“You have heard the commandment that says, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. So if your eye—even your good eye —causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your hand—even your stronger hand —causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. (*Matthew *5:*27-30 NLT)
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Originally Posted by Good_guy_Greg
I have started a poll in another forum asking the following question:
How much sex at home would stop you from going punting ??
At least once or twice a month
Once a week regularly
At least twice a week
3 times a week or more
Regardless of sex at home, I still like the freedom and thrills whenever I feel like it
Only punt when I am away on business or wife is not available !
You can have a guess which answer is the most popular...................haha
I guess you're asking people from a sex forum ? Haha !Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
Ahlungor, I reckon if a wife/girlfriend has sex with his man 7 times a week, he wont be looking elsewhere
Obviously as a relationship continues, the frequency drops
In a marriage, 7 times a week just isnt going to happen
I am only an active member in two forums, here and at the other place where I can set up polls like these without any trouble, it's very handy and useful. I wonder why AUS99 don't allow it. The other site has a lot other good features too such as the like and dislike button - LIKE !!Quote:
Originally Posted by wilisno
And to be friends !! LIKE !!
Two three times a week will pretty much stop me from punting !!!Quote:
Originally Posted by harmony
When was the last time I went to a RnT ??????
You've missed my point !Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
90% of people on a sex forum is guilty of adultery in one way or another, there's no surprise what the poll result should be ! ;) ;) ;)
2 days ago ! You just had a report for Nicole dated 12th May ! ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
That is of course if you believe in the concept of adultery. Adultery is big business though :)
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Originally Posted by wilisno
Yeah, that was just good timing! Didn't think anyone would be free and it was just a 30 min opportunity for a real quickie !!
Would have been totally happy to just have a chat and some hugs and kisses !
And you forgot about that punt already earlier ? ;) ;) ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
Isnt this the biggest forum?Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
Yes, according to Sydney Morning Herald and based on the largest number of visitors online at any one time !Quote:
Originally Posted by H3da
Wow.. didn't know this is the biggest forum!Quote:
Originally Posted by wilisno
even looking at pages like this, looking at a sexy woman, even a dream should be considered as adultery. While people sort this out, let me quickly go for a punt :-)
All the best brothers!
I don't agree with cheating but adultery is Ok.
Yes you can see working ladies without cheating particularly if your partner tells you to go see wl she doesn't want to have sex that often.
To answer the original question: No, I don't feel guilty whether it's RnT or FS. Having said that, I prefer RnT over FS only because I get a little paranoid about disease even with using protection.
The difference between sex for money and sex for free, is that sex for free costs a hell of a lot more. Having had committed partners, as well as a number of mistresses over the years, and frequented strip clubs, massage parlours and private operators, I can categorically state that use of professionals costs a shit load less in terms of money, stress, guilt, demands from all parties and the emotional fall-out when it all goes fucking pear-shaped.
Can I assume that you are married? Because this question doesnt apply to you if you are single or divorced.Quote:
Originally Posted by flamejob