It’s an unmissable quality of betas.. they’re so sensitive. It’s not even hard to see through his ducktales LMAO!
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It’s an unmissable quality of betas.. they’re so sensitive. It’s not even hard to see through his ducktales LMAO!
You can also do it with an egg vibrator that you insert all the way into the vag, the vibration on your cock as you pump in anal is a real buzz!
I like this in mish since you get to kiss and see the face!
Dude I think she was referring to the constant swiping ...Quote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
Nice story. I was like that once. Gentleman taking a woman for a nice walk by the harbour. A lot of foreign women will love the free tour guide, then at the end of the day will say thanks and goodbye. Wish I had the afternoons to spare like this. I know its about building contacts, but the trap is that you realise you are just chasing for the conquests, and spending a lot of your time doing it. Spending time on following up women who reply to you texts, who arent necessarily who you'd spend time with apart from in bed. We are all men and we all enjoy good sex. But differ in how we want to be spending large blocks of time. A quick quality punt on the other hand is very differentQuote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
I always find it best to root first then sight see afterwards, especially if time is limited :)
I like that sequence as well. CL, would you spend an afternoon walking around the harbour, only to be told: thanks for the Sydney tour, you're a nice guy, let me text you laterQuote:
Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
Ok. If you tell me you went to a party then had sex, thats more time effective right ?
And S_Ns posts dont sound like he is searching for a long term relationship
It depends on the girl, how I feel, and the weather :)Quote:
Originally Posted by murphy
Yeah I hate being catfished. The sexy body was 10kg ago. Well noted. Admire your honesty and taking the good with not so good.Quote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
I can understand the thrill in adding as many notches in your belt as you can possibly can.
There is an internal.and external validation from tallying up a big score. But how long before that chase itself becomes an addiction which absorbs every minute of your life?
When will you be happy? With a backpacker and overall Tinder conquest score of 40, 80, 120, 150? I bet you dont have an answer. As many as possible before you die?
Would like an experiment. One month you do what you are doing now. Next month you do a quality punt 1-2 a week as well as the Tinder
It would be intriguing to see how a little punting would enhance your mindset. You would soon realise how punting gives you some more clarity about futile Tinder dates and being more selective. Your dates will improve in quality. You will be less interested going on some of the needless extra dates. Thats my hypothesis, but could be wrong
Everyones opinion is validQuote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
I love dating and sex without a clock and the free sex + CIMSW and overnight sharing a bed together and the rude/crude texting and more. You have a point
There is also nothing that rivals the sex that you worked hard for, that is long anticipated. But even the best alpha males get crabs from backpackers, not top shelf girls, with whom in hindsight it may have been better to save the time and stayed away from
But sex with a clock has its advantages as well at times.
As with eating. Just like sometimes you want and sit down at a buffet and chat for hours (untimed). Other times you are perfectly satisfied with a one hour restaurant meal, where you leave after 1 hour cause someone else needs a meal at the same place in a busy restaurant, and you are leaving feeling very satisfied
Tried experimenting this for 2 weeks, MEEFF, Tantan, Badoo, Tagged apps, but no luck for me. A lot of talking, but can't even score a date.
When I walk on the street, I find in 100 girls, only around 2-5 girls catches my attention. With such low percentage of attractive girls, wouldn't one run a very high risk of meeting ugly girls in dating apps?
I find some of these girls tries to ask me to add them on wechat or line. It's usually a very difficult ID to add. If it is easy like "crocodile69", sure I will add, but because it's made of random numerals and symbols, i just reply, "too lazy.." A lot of bots too.
This is the reality for most men. The ratio of horny men to attractive slim single women is at least 50 to 1. Im not being defeatist, Im just calling dating apps for what they are. You will only know this if you have a sister or female friend, to know their phones almost blow up with the number of notifications that come through once they upload their photos.Quote:
Originally Posted by RoyalFlush
It comes down to chasing low hanging fruit, meeting older ladies with children or larger women
True if you are a well build handsome guy, you can do well, but you are still dealing with the same raio of men to women
The point is that most men will spend a lot of time chasing leads, many of which you have nothing in common with, but its the thrill of the chase. And the catfishing of fake photos is both common and a time waster, unless you can see their Facebook page
As most know, punting is a great addition to life. The cherry on top. The sugar hit.
Ive an open mind, but you are sounding more and more like a marketer for one of these apps. Online dating never sounded so good. The reality for the majority of men is different. As shown by the lack of posts here from others about their Tinder successesQuote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
So tell us, are you employed by a social media company? It doesnt matter either way
I thought we were to assume he was taking the piss and that was part of the fun.
Most girls usually need to see a guy several times to feel comfortable before sleeping with him. They do not want to be seen or judged as a slut. They have the very real and unfortunate risk of physical assault/rape. Being stuck with some random lurkers baby etc.. Never mind the fact our mate N_B had them bent over a plata of cold meats within a couple of hours and then back on the beers with the lads by sundown.
And yes, an average looking girl gets 100's of matches/massages a week. A Scandinavian backpacker would literally get close to a 1000, times that by 2 or 3 if she implies she is DTF lol.
There was a guy who used the female instagram filter and went on tinder and got hundreds of matches and over a 1000 messages.
it was snap chat filter and 1600 likes and 400 matches.
Man Uses Woman Snapchat Filter For Tinder Profile And Gets More Than 300 Matches - LADbible
https://www.ladbible.com/community/i...tches-20190512
Its just statistics and numbers and being really desperate.
Way before the internet and social media I knew guys who went to pubs, clubs, discos etc and made a pass at every single girl.
They got 99% rejection but every now and then they would get that 1% success rate and they were in.
They just had to be desperate and hungry enough.
Did he say repent and save your soul for Jesus Christ? By the way, there are many good looking girls attending their masses and events.Quote:
Originally Posted by Newbie_Sydney
Rooter, yes this is still true today. It's easier to meet girls offline. Assuming you have got your shit together, go to the gym, good banter etc... and not afraid to get rejected (which most guys are). But tinder is not the place for the majority of men.
This is the problem with online dating as well. If you are single and looking for a connection, there's a lot of effort and wasted time. I will make the effort if the woman is my type, but often the woman is not my type.Quote:
Originally Posted by rooter
I have nothing against online dating if you read my posts. I met a French speaking Cambodian who was my fwb for years. I also met a few Thai sweethearts, Vietnamese, and a Japanese nymphomaniac. Im just saying that there is also a lot of dud dates (far far more than dud punts) so its wise to punt as well, so you think with more clarity and not date as indiscriminately, chasing every bit of skirt that replies to your contact
The stage is all yours
N_S
I like experimenting new things, see what works and what can be improved. I agree with personal failures, it is probably my mindset or system that needs fixing. Like how a lot of people knows how to drive, so driving must be teachable. No excuse for saying driving is difficult.
I tried a number of different angles communicating with these app girls, but no fish.
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This convo went alright, we clicked, until she told me she lives in China.
Is the general strategy pique her initial interest, talk a bit as if you are not after sex. When the talk is going good, get her to a date pronto? Question is, how to get her intrigued? I bet you have some good photos, showing you have fun in general?
Let see.. Ive tried
-commenting on someone's pet dog, and offered to see said animal. She said ok, but I need to go to Thailand.
-asked if she is 39kg.
-many wants me add their wechat, waste of time
Unfortunately, even the top 5% girls are not all HB 9.0 and above.. They are just attractive enough. Those that I'd ask for their numbers.
Tell her you are a spy!Quote:
Originally Posted by RoyalFlush
Tell her you are newbie_sydney on aus99Quote:
Originally Posted by CunningLinguist
Though Syd_Newb
Lay some of your profile on the table
age ... type of pics , do you have a description. In the bio , did you link to your fave artists and IG
what’s a recent example of your opening gambit
I’m currently chatting with a couple of women , one started yesterday and she’s talking already talking about balls , nudity and her daughters lack of hygiene during her period and she dreamt of been a long haul driver ...
Plenty to work with there . ?
Have a single Chilean age 40 keen to share dessert
A hot Portuguese I’m brunching with Friday after not talking for 6 weeks anda a weird first date
And tomorrow night the cute Colombian again .
Next week my longish term 34 year old ultra sub vet returns and sometime this week the 18 yr old Sierra Leonian based on the last snapchat vid wants to fuk and gush again
It’s a different pay 2 play space and takes effort n energy . Lots of mistakes made
I’m 50 ugly beautiful according ton ML I like and fit. sometimes if it is driveable I bang around in an old 911 .. Hank Moody I’m not
But I like the mix of app hookups and ML/WL’s
Though Syd_newb lay out some stats and a few opening gambits