You guys also found most SB will do it bareback ? My last 3, even tho we started with a dom, always end up BBing.
Latest one even wanted anal BB, but I didn’t have lube.
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You guys also found most SB will do it bareback ? My last 3, even tho we started with a dom, always end up BBing.
Latest one even wanted anal BB, but I didn’t have lube.
Hahaha MENG!!🤣🤣
New to this SB scene. Before doing bb did any of you bring up the question of whether they’re on the pill? I’m currently planning of having more SB than punting, but I’m stumped on how I can bring this topic up without causing discomfort
Never been with a SB, is this something only for older blokes or can a younger bloke (32) get into it ?
Recently had an experience like this.
Was chatting to a SB last week, meet organised on a Thurs. She cancelled and re schedule for Friday coz of ' periods ' Come Friday we met for a BBFS ( negative tests required ) CIP meet ( there was a red stain on the sheets ) and a pinkish color mixed in the cum so Im guessing she was telling the truth about cancelling the day before 😂 Fun Times!
Put me off a little though coz I did DATY as well prior ( she was very apologethic about it ) so had to switch to BBBJ/DT with CIM instead for the rest of the meet.
I have never been asked for test results.
How would you get this all organised within a week?
Plus certain STIs take weeks or months to show up on tests. The tests run at medical centres are not as thorough as sexual health clinics.
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Sounds a great punt..
I wanted to check whether you got the lubes and doms or was it arranged.. Last time when I was with an SB she said she will get it but when we met it was routed as if i should take care of it.. Luckily i got few doms with me to get on with the session... Wanted to know what kind of arrangement works best for us.
$500ppm + hotel, 3 hrs meet ( could be longer )
Usually after a few back and forth with messages I ask if this is OK provided both parties are tested. Mine took about 4 days with my GP ( blood tested for HIV/STI/Hepatitis )
I accidentally went to the one in Oxford st one day asking for a test 😂 I was told its ONLY for MEN who enjoys having sex with other MEN otherwise your GP would suffice for a test. That was so embarrasing to say the least. 😂
Strange one in Perth tonight. Hooked up with a Viet SB at my hotel for dinner. She ordered a $50 main and a ginger beer - all good. Asked her if she wanted to go to my room. Yes. Shower then a hot fuck. She’s a masseuse at a legit place by day so got her to give me a massage. Nice. Then she started falling asleep so I suggested she go home. Out the door. Pings me ten minutes later saying she forgot to ask for gift.
That's why I have moved back to occasional punts at regular places. Yep, there is some kinda expectation such as gifts as an add-on to the overall time...
Glad that you asked her to leave. If she would have stayed, she might have asked for more $$$ ( Staying cost )
Makes sense.
I punt once in a while, I do get tempted by the reviews here and eventually plan for it.
But given that SB is an ongoing commitment that kinda puts me off. It's good for the longer run but it bites the monthly entertainment expenses along with the additional cost of hotel and small bag ;).
It's really worth it if we can fit in the expenses. Hoping for a new gig that helps me out on this...
Nah mate I didn’t give her any $ or gift. She left on her own accord then thought about a gift later.
No, its not an ongoing commitment, you can pull the plug anytime you like the same way SB's can just pull the plug anytime they want without warning.
Yes while I agree there's an extra effort in messaging back and forth but that's what makes it exciting. But dont ever think that its an ongoing commitment.
You can see SB once, twice, etc then pull the plug and move on unless you want something long term.
That's actually pretty interesting. Is like friends with benefits but you need to pay, no strings attached if you don't want to. That occasional texting to build expectations and excitement sounds really good, so in that way both parts will give their all during the meet. Nice.
Im usually straight forward with what I seek.
I say FWB, most often if a SB is seeking something more long term and regular they will decline.
It works best with my dynamics. I have plenty I really really like but wanting more traditional like dates, wine & dine to which I decline.
There are so many variations. All depends on your own personal circumstances. I learnt it all from here actually, read the thread from the beginning prior to dipping my toes.