Demand for apology for no respect to customer and money

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Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR

What if the situation/venue changed ? In a restaurant rather than a brothel ?

The OP complaints about the food or services and demanded a refund, got into some sort of argument with the manager and the manager throw the refund money on the floor.

The OP then posted a similar thread in TripAdviser exactly as he did here and demanded a public apology, what would happen then ?

Just wondering 💭

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Hmmmm if you're using the restaurant analogy it's more like the OP ate at the restaurant before and knew of a rule that does not allow a person to bring drinks from outside the restaurant, agreed, still enjoyed his meal and then came to the restaurant a second time for a longer meal. Then halfway through whilst already having eaten the entree and main snuck out a bottle of Shiraz which then got him kicked out. Angry at being kicked out for "accidentally" bringing a bottle of Shiraz from outside the restaurant demanded 100 dollars back when the meal itself costs 150 then got angry when the owner got upset. On top of that you found out the customer had a history of this before.

Read the OP post and the response from 42G.

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Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR

What if the situation/venue changed ? In a restaurant rather than a brothel ?

The OP complaints about the food or services and demanded a refund, got into some sort of argument with the manager and the manager throw the refund money on the floor.

The OP then posted a similar thread in TripAdviser exactly as he did here and demanded a public apology, what would happen then ?

Just wondering 💭

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Let me correct that slightly:
OP is at a restaurant, waitress explains what’s on offer and what’s not, waitress then takes the order. Waitress returns to serve the food.

The OP pinches the waitresses bum despite the waitress having explained earlier to OP that bum pinching is not allowed. Waitress gets offended and reports to manager and refuses to serve OP the rest of his food. OP demands a refund for unserved food and gets into an argument with the manager and the manager throw the refund money on the floor.

The OP then posted a similar thread in TripAdviser exactly as he did here and demanded a public apology, what would happen then ?

Ok, now what do you think will happen? The difference is that it is now an issue with OP’s behaviour and not the service provided. Do you think that anyone will care now whether the manager threw the money or not?

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Originally Posted by Meng

Hmmmm if you're using the restaurant analogy it's more like the OP ate at the restaurant before and knew of a rule that does not allow a person to bring drinks from outside the restaurant, agreed, still enjoyed his meal and then came to the restaurant a second time for a longer meal. Then halfway through whilst already having eaten the entree and main snuck out a bottle of Shiraz which then got him kicked out. Angry at being kicked out for "accidentally" bringing a bottle of Shiraz from outside the restaurant demanded 100 dollars back when the meal itself costs 150 then got angry when the owner got upset. On top of that you found out the customer had a history of this before.

Read the OP post and the response from 42G.

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I agree with this too. My scenario focussed on the sexual assault aspect which would be just as serious in a brothel as it would be in a restaurant. No judge would buy that it is a little less serious in a brothel due to the nature of the work involved. If a girl says don’t touch me there and you did - you’re screwed, whether you’re in a restaurant or a brothel.

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Originally Posted by Meng

Hmmmm if you're using the restaurant analogy it's more like the OP ate at the restaurant before and knew of a rule that does not allow a person to bring drinks from outside the restaurant, agreed, still enjoyed his meal and then came to the restaurant a second time for a longer meal. Then halfway through whilst already having eaten the entree and main snuck out a bottle of Shiraz which then got him kicked out. Angry at being kicked out for "accidentally" bringing a bottle of Shiraz from outside the restaurant demanded 100 dollars back when the meal itself costs 150 then got angry when the owner got upset. On top of that you found out the customer had a history of this before.

Read the OP post and the response from 42G.

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Thanks for your reading and detailed analogising.
To respond, firstly, whether a restaurant or a brothel, it is operated in Australia, a civilized country, at least a reasonably civilized one, conflicts or disputes should be dealt with in a civilized way. What's more, to guarantee this, a restaurant manager should have had criminal record checked. So even if there is a drunken eater or drinker in the restaurant, shop staff would not act offensively. There might be offensive customers, but it does not warrant restaurant manager or waiter to be offensive.
What's more, here, the claimed disrespectful behaviour was unseen, solely based on the girl's account of the story without being cross-examined. Therefore, the reliability on the seriousness or nature is much discounted.
But for whatever reasons, even if a customer were a criminal or drinker, he was a customer in the shop, who had at least spent money now and before, and he should not be treated offensively.
I don't think any more need to elaborate on my point.
BTW, if 42G thinks throwing customer's money on its ground is not offensive, then I need write a lot more.