Originally Posted by
Hedonisticfun
100% Digby .. after some 60 years I found The One , ticked all the boxes ... then when the *honeymoon* period was over (neither of us were married nor were we) , the relationship soured and I no longer had her on a pedestal .. everything seemed to be her way and I felt I was losing my freedom . Long story short , remained friend as I was indebted to her for the good times we had but didn*t want to dump her and went ballastic on punting to which I had only dabbled in before. At this age wasn*t prepared to sacrifice anything for someone else , might sound selfish but wanted what made me happy while I was still upright . . Feel so liberated and alive having sex whenever you want without ties and variety is the spice of life ! Even with regulars , it can be a bit mundane eventually and they lose their sex appeal .