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Messaging?? I played that once outside of punting with an affair.... it did my head in.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
I'm very happy to not be messaging these girls, in any case as a married punter it would be very bloody game. Our phones here aren't super secret. Often while driving, my wife will pick up my phone to do something, like send pics of the kids to her phone or something, so I need to keep it pretty sterile! My facebook feed these days would raise her eyebrows I'm sure! :D
Myself, I don't play games, no interest in video games, no interest in phone games; my life is too short. I like messaging because it's a "at your convenience" style. For punting, with some regulars, I'll give a quarterly ping to check comms, and so when I'm BOTG, it's not a cold call. When BOTG, I'll message rather than call for a booking just so I don't disturb. Simple reciprocity; when she's with me, she's with me, sans interruptions. Like I said, not the center of the universe.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
you are getting the VIP wife treatment package .....
you should be grateful... haha..
The exchange of numbers is part of the game.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
She gives you her number because you asked for it. I’ve never seen any WL give away a number before she was asked. They don’t spruik like that do they? So you initiate the game and she follows through.
It brings you just that little bit closer and you think it’s gives you an edge. That the punter with her number is getting more of a step in than one without. That you’ll get the next level of treatment because we’re “social”. It’s a feel good moment when she shares her number isn’t it? Even if it IS her work one.
Like chasing a GF the first thing you do is exchange numbers. Without comms nothing transcribes, you want more you communicate more, there is no telepathy.
Whether the messages mean anything or go anywhere is entirely up to you.
Well, I'm the opposite. I've never asked for her number and only ever got her number because she reached out to me or asked for my number.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
I also only used the number to book sessions. No time for games or bullshit, or dates for that matter.
Damn, that logic is way TOO convoluted for me. As I've said, the biggest advance in PUNTING in 30 years is when providers could afford mobile phones. Not smart phones, simple phones with SMS. I want to see her again, I ask for her contact, and, most often, she provides it. Then it's trivial to find her again. Simple, PRACTICAL, no games involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
Edge? Steps? Yea, so much easier to arrange a rendezvous when you have comms. No plaintive whining posts of "Does anyone know where she went?" Yes, I DO; I just message her. No wandering around shop to shop, bar to bar, "Oh where oh where can she be?" It saves me steps, time, money (why pay an entrance fee to look for her when she might not be there?) A simple query will do ya; Let your fingers do the walking.
Now, with smart phones, apps with built-in translators, trivial for that next assignation. Don't even have to break a sweat (well, at least before you meet her).
You want to date them? Up to you. Me, I'm here professionally.
TDY, BOTG, hit the ground running...
Exhibit #1:
There's even a thread for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by DawnX
Well the ploy with the ML worked and she’s messaged back all sweet, polite, nice and with good manners. See, what did it take, two or three days? This isn’t about punting, it’s about dating someone you want, anyone can punt them but going the next step is a game of chance.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Come on, let's be serious. You know you can roll those dice, but eventually you will crap out. Meaningless punt, meaningless date, all the same to me. Seems you're the only one who is impressed with your flexing.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
It’s not a flex but a fact. Stating facts are allowed I presume? This one is most definitely living together material and when we’ve been out it’s really wonderful.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Have you ever thought about someone special or someone so unique that in your wildest dreams you thought one day you could have just that? The thought that’s been in the back of your mind for a very long time and then one day that thought becomes reality. Well that’s how she is to me. Before I didn’t respect her as she was a number, punt, date and burn.
Now my thinking is different.
You should be happy for me, at least I’m happy for myself… Now as long as I don’t burn her for some really really stupid reason everything will be fine.
I felt I’d just put it out here and will tell my RL mates when I get around to talking to them. Perhaps my only issue is her friends and what they think of me but I’m sure she’ll think she’s playing me somehow and will present two sides, one for them and one for me.
You only live once @11Bravo so I’ll move forward with this one.
Dating, chasing, or gaming a sex worker ain’t fucken flexing, bro. It’s screams desperate and needy simp behavior disguised as confidence. It'd be like buying your own birthday present and acting surprised!........just sayingQuote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Well, you know what they say: the best predictor of future performance is past performance. Like they also say, time will tell. But I'd say not off to a good start by thinking that she's thinking that she's playing... Sorry, just all too convoluted for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
But needing to post the news here... doesn't strike me as thinking all that differently, more along the lines of "look at me, I'm in a relationship with a working girl..." I'd think the key would be when you stop thinking of her as a working girl and start thinking of her as a person, but that's just me.
I will sincerely say, good luck. You are correct, only one life.
LOL when I first read, stopped to reply, read it again, and LOL again. THANKS, brilliant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Double_Adapter
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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter
Aren’t I entitled to another folly?
I’m the one who chases these women whilst you guys pay them then leave and of course I pay them initially but I use it as a filter for an end game. If the sex is good and they’re hot looking then yes I’m dating them.
You only have to go out with a hottie on your arm and see the looks you get and in fact this ML is a most definite head turner. In fact I’d walk her all around town just for the looks she gets from guys of all ages and other women.
Is there anything wrong with that?
How is it simpish or desperate and needy when I control everything? Whether they stay or go is entirely up to me and as I’ve written previously I have a propensity for dumping any of them on a whim.
You need counselling especially from what you wrote. You sound narcissistic where I even confirmed with ChatGPT...Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
"Based on the tone and the way the person describes their approach to dating, it could definitely be seen as narcissistic. The focus on control, validation, and objectifying others for personal gain can be traits of narcissism. There's also a bit of detachment from how the women might feel in the situation, which can be a sign of a lack of empathy, something often associated with narcissistic behavior."
Unless you look like Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, BTS, SuperJunior, these girls don't want anything to do with you outside of the shop. So they will not reach out or message you. Get a girlfriend if this is what you're afterQuote:
Originally Posted by Sinkie
Otherwise you are just another number/paycheck/customer to her
Alternatively, u could also look like Jabba the Hutt but have a big fat bank account and they would also be more than happy to hang out with you outside of the shop...Quote:
Originally Posted by ChadThunderrcock
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Just read the whole thread and what a laugh. There are wolves and there are sheep and one will never be the other. The main problem is some sheep think they're wolves.
Playing hard to get with a female who is washing off the loads of 10 different guys every day...you player you...
Who started this thread???Quote:
Originally Posted by Becareful
If he adopted my methodology he wouldn’t be complaining. Just like those other guys in that other thread about losing money to some woman.
The fact I don’t succumb to any skullduggery is a plus for the collective punting brotherhood. Or would you prefer I change my ways and eventually start a thread complaining how I’ve been treated and lost money?
I do have morals and haven’t taken any SW to the cleaners so ChatGPT should be happy!
Yep and those 10 guys paid for that privilege. Then they go back home to their “trophy wives”, the prize they got for coming last. I mean, that’s why they punt isn’t it? The quality pussy back home…Quote:
Originally Posted by Punt2Win
To the tune of Michael Jackson's somebody's watching me...
I'm just an average man, with an average life
I work from 9 to 5, hey hell I pay the price
I can't stand to be left alone, in my average home
but why do I always feel, like I'm in the friendship zone and
I always feel like, my "regular's taking advantage of meeeeeeeeee"...and she wants her privacy whoah whoah
I always feel like, someone thrashed her just before meeeeeeeee... tell me who can it be ?!?!?
Spot on lol. Three archetypes: Pimp, Player and Pig.Quote:
Originally Posted by Punt2Win
If you're paying for it you sure aren't a pimp.
And both the player and the pig just exist to make the pimp rich.